My scorpio man is acting weird towards me!

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cancer12
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19 Years

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me neither - the scorp guy i know is like that - i think they all do that kinda thing - i'm starting to say "fk him" n jus do my own thing - whenever i start to wonder when i'll hear from him or how he's doin - i convince myself that i'm wasting my energy - i dunno i jus duno how else to deal wit him - i like him but i jus can't keep punishing my self "thinking" bout him - maybe i'm startin to give up or soemthnig - i dunno whatever happens happens - oh yea one more thing he mentioned more than once to me when i was mad at him for avoid me (or whatever it is he's doing) - he said i needed to be patient - i'm guessin he's jus dealin wit his shit right now - hopefully he's not playin games wit me
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shortyrock
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It is my experience that most do this...as you stated cancer12, it's best to just keep busy with your own life: hobbies, friends, activities, etc. What I've done in the past is I speak with him and this usually gets him to realize how him "disappearing" on me for days at a time really bothers me, and he is usually pretty receptive to my feelings and this lets him know he needs to change his act.
Keeping myself busy with other stuff always helps me!!! 9 times out of 10, they are just busy with other things...or they're off brooding, or they just want their space to think and be alone. I can't blame them for this because I tend to need my space too!!! So I can respect that. I know it's hard, but hang in there.