Needs

I think before you become involved in a relationship both parties should express what their needs are in a relationship, both emotionally and financially. Emotionally, I would need committment(someone with the same values I have),trust, sexual fulfillment(a little kinky), and respect to name a few.

I think both parties should be responsible financially, and I would want someone who wanted to acheive the same goals that I did(nice home).

I think that u are correct. Thier are alot of things that people do not include that get missed and then it becomes one big hassel. No relationship should be that way.

I never considered those things before I was married. It would of saved alot of heartache if we had discussed things in depth before running down the isle! Those simple questions were the reasons that tore us apart. Are minds did not meet on most issues. You can't stay in bed all the time, and that wasn't very good either!

I would want a man to be the authority in the marriage and the family leader, to have intiative, who makes things happen. He would need to be the leader, protectore and teacher, to have courage--stand for his principles, don't worry about making everyone happy, and to be resonsible--"the buck stops here". If you are wrong, say you are. Don't blame others or change the subject. Last, he would have a vision. He would consider the future and the long-term implications he makes. Oh, and if he was a Scorpio, that would ice the cake!

Do you think I am getting a little carried a way here? I've only had one person reply to the thread!!!

And one of the qualities I mentioned was responsible. Spelling--YIKES! Sorry!!

No love wasn't mentioned! That is something that should be shown and not just a bunch of talk-talk! I have tried that and have been taken for granted! or made a fool of! So, this is the way I have been shown, from the best, right here!

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