How do you make a scorpio man jealous even if you

I was in love with a scorpio man and he just stopped calling me one day and never said why. I have despised him to this day. I want him to feel like he miised out, so what to do?

Girlfriend, at this point I wouldn't even worry about it. By moving on with your life and having fun, you'll meet someone who is worth your time and energy. In the meantime, don't stress yourself.

Also, the best revenge is usually by not allowing people or events like that to set you back. And if he calls, say nothing about it, but let him know you're busy and don't have time at that point to really talk. He'll get the message.

BTW, twinkee, what's up with all the bad press towards us Aries? From the topic of this board, it looks like you have a couple of bones to pick.

Twinkee,

I don't mean to be the bearer of bad news, but nine times out of ten when a Scorp suddenly cuts off in this manner, they have lost all interest, or they are angry about something. When we want something or someone, we will stop at nothing to attain it, keep it, nourish it, and protect it. He may very well be upset about something that occured between the two of you. He may have lost interest. Then again, but far less likely, he may have gotten his electricity cut off. Or he may be ill, or something. Usually however, a Scorpio is all or nothing--100 percent there, or 100 percent gone.

About getting him back, unless you're a scorpio yourself (I think you said you were a Gemini?)...I would highly recommend against this. You probably won't succeed, and even if you do, you will be starting an endless game of "who can ruin who's life more". And...well, if he feels threatened or cornered, you will be the human sacrifice so to speak. A Scorpio will almost never accept defeat, or back down, and he will likely fight fire with fire. I stronly recommend you consider the whole matter water under the bridge, and find someone who you are more compatible with.

I am sorry that this happened to you and I wish you luck.

phoenix_rising

STRONGLY

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-phoenix_rising

Well, after reading your comments, i have to say that i am over this guy totally, I just want to have some fun at this point. It's been 2 years. I just want him to hurt a little. A scorpio should know how this feels also. But, he's with an aries now, so it's bound to happen. As far the revenge, I am not afraid of scorpios. We gems are way to intelligent to let one of them get over on us. They let their emotions get the best of them. They end up looking like dark weirdos. But, thanks for the apology.

from my experience with aries, they have horrible self-esteem. I don't want to hear the stupid bragging which are mostly lies.

I have moved on honey. I just want to have a little fun. Well, i guess since he has an aries now, i can just sit back and laugh.

What I'm trying to tell you is that you can't hurt a scorp who has cut off from you emotionally. One of our most prevalent attributes (whether negative or positive) is to numb ourselves completely when we no longer care. Because like I said before, we're all or nothing. If he's nothing, then you can't hurt him anymore. I think it's likely to end up being a waste of your time to try. Think about it this way...he isn't worth the energy. You weren't worth even a phone call or explanation to him, so don't make him worth your energy.

phoenix

I understand what you are saying, but i don't have to get him emotionally because his aries woman will do it for me. Like I said, i will sit back and laugh. Everyone has feelings, even the scorp!

I understand what you are saying, but i don't have to get him emotionally because his aries woman will do it for me. Like I said, i will sit back and laugh. Everyone has feelings, even the scorp!