Hi, I have been reading thru these messages about Scorpios and find it quite interesting. I would like some advice from any Scorpio who like to answer this. This topic about being friends with one. We are both female and married. So this isn't about relationships exactly. I have known her for several years now and we have always got along great. Last year, she told me her birthday and found out that she was a Scorpio. Well, she played it off like it wasn't important but I thought it was interesting. We just gab and gab. We exchanged phone numbers and stuff but she would not answer. Being the way I am I hate answering machines. Well, This past year my husband had a heart attack which he is doing better. But while I was at home getting ready to go to the hospital. She called and I was suprised and pleased that she called and expressed that she was thinking about me. I was quite flattered by that. Well, I quess, what I wanted to ask is that I would really like to hang out with her--- going shopping and so forth. But it just seems that she is either too busy or think that I am too young. There is a bit of an age gap. But we have so much in common that it doesn't seem to matter to me. So if anybody could help me that would be great. I just don't know how to approach that subject, thanks. By the way, I am a Virgo.
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They want to appear and feel important so they act this way.....gotta go...someone just stepped in, can't talk right now, voice mail etc. bla bla bla especially if they are starting to go somewhere in the relationship that might be too deep. This turns the majority of us off. Even if you do not call all of the time and are not bugging them. They want to be in control and by you calling, they are not.
If they are feeling intense, they crawl under a rock for a while to digest it all. Don't worry; they seem to always surface. It is for you to decide if you want to wait around waisting your life for them to do so. My advice...find an Aries...there is more compatibility and companionship for you there.
If they are feeling intense, they crawl under a rock for a while to digest it all. Don't worry; they seem to always surface. It is for you to decide if you want to wait around waisting your life for them to do so. My advice...find an Aries...there is more compatibility and companionship for you there.
I meant wasting.....dieting all of the time!!
Thanks Tinkerbell for the advice. I will try and hold and wait for our friendship to develop.This Scorpio friend and I have so much in common that I hate to just give up. Also will look for an Aries for friendship as well.
Hi Vulcan,
Three of my best girlfriends are Scorpio's. Once you get close, they are loyal, deep forever friends. Even my step-mom is a Scorpio and we get along well.
When I was married, I didn't see my friends that much, but through my divorce, they were there.
I traveled for business with one of them,( she is a little older) and some nights we went out hooting and hollering, and other night's we just went back to our respective rooms and didn't see each other until the next day's meetings.
My one Scorpio girlfriend, is younger than I and we would go to clubs and almost had more fun talking and watching people, than meeting men!!!
My best Scorpio friend (my same age) I met at work and she was pretty quiet and into herself. I would take breaks and she would be sitting by herself. We would talk but she never really opened up. I finally invited she and her boyfriend over for dinner. That's when she opened up and we have been great friends. She just went through 7 weeks of radiation and is doing well.
Oh last but not least, I married a Scorpio. Now that's a story in itself.
I guess my advise to you is, Scorpio's have a dark side, I think that is why they stay to themselves at times, instead of showing that side to the world. But once you make them feel safe, that they can trust you, they are the loyalist friends in the world.
Hope this helps!
Candlegirl the LEEBRA
Three of my best girlfriends are Scorpio's. Once you get close, they are loyal, deep forever friends. Even my step-mom is a Scorpio and we get along well.
When I was married, I didn't see my friends that much, but through my divorce, they were there.
I traveled for business with one of them,( she is a little older) and some nights we went out hooting and hollering, and other night's we just went back to our respective rooms and didn't see each other until the next day's meetings.
My one Scorpio girlfriend, is younger than I and we would go to clubs and almost had more fun talking and watching people, than meeting men!!!
My best Scorpio friend (my same age) I met at work and she was pretty quiet and into herself. I would take breaks and she would be sitting by herself. We would talk but she never really opened up. I finally invited she and her boyfriend over for dinner. That's when she opened up and we have been great friends. She just went through 7 weeks of radiation and is doing well.
Oh last but not least, I married a Scorpio. Now that's a story in itself.
I guess my advise to you is, Scorpio's have a dark side, I think that is why they stay to themselves at times, instead of showing that side to the world. But once you make them feel safe, that they can trust you, they are the loyalist friends in the world.
Hope this helps!
Candlegirl the LEEBRA
Thanks Candlegirl. What you say is true. Her and I just click. She has told me some personal things about herself and said she respected me. I told her once that I wanted to leave my job. We work at the same place. She looked pretty hurt when I said that. Still debating on whether I should leave. But I definately want to remain friends with her. She seems sincere about getting together sometime. But haven't done it yet. She doesn't think she is interesting but I thoroughly enjoy our conversations. I have told that too. But somehow I don't think she believes me. I am the kind of Virgo that is straight on, either there or not there. I would never say anything insincere to her.
Also, I am wondering if it is our age difference. She is 53 looks 40. I am only 32. I hope that wouldn't make any difference.
Hi back to ya,
First of all age shouldn't make any difference. I'm friends with everybody!! Even my daughters friends!!!
I made friends with a 72 year old woman and she is a wonderful teacher, as I lost my own mom several years ago. I even sent her a mother's day card, and she sent me a thank you note!!!
And for the part about you leaving your job, well you do it. I quit a job I had for over 20 years, earning good money and I did make it up the latter a bit. I wanted to write, a life long dream, so when my hubby said go for it.. I did not hesitate. Looking back I would still do it!! I moved to a different state, but still see my friends. They visit, I visit, in fact I'm going there next weekend and have a girls weekend.
Just one note of caution to you about any new encounter, be it male or female. Do they need a friend or do you have something they want. I know that is harsh to say, but I am straight on too. All I mean is if you get some weird vibe, or some feeling, you should always take that into consideration.
Have a good weekend Vulcan,
CG
First of all age shouldn't make any difference. I'm friends with everybody!! Even my daughters friends!!!
I made friends with a 72 year old woman and she is a wonderful teacher, as I lost my own mom several years ago. I even sent her a mother's day card, and she sent me a thank you note!!!
And for the part about you leaving your job, well you do it. I quit a job I had for over 20 years, earning good money and I did make it up the latter a bit. I wanted to write, a life long dream, so when my hubby said go for it.. I did not hesitate. Looking back I would still do it!! I moved to a different state, but still see my friends. They visit, I visit, in fact I'm going there next weekend and have a girls weekend.
Just one note of caution to you about any new encounter, be it male or female. Do they need a friend or do you have something they want. I know that is harsh to say, but I am straight on too. All I mean is if you get some weird vibe, or some feeling, you should always take that into consideration.
Have a good weekend Vulcan,
CG
Did I say latter, I meant ladder. Duh. I love the English language!!!!
CG The Writer HAHAHAHA
CG The Writer HAHAHAHA
Hi Candle Girl, sorry about that earlier.
Thanks for the advice. Do you think she is trying to use me?
Have a nice weekend also.
Thanks for the advice. Do you think she is trying to use me?
Have a nice weekend also.
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