New here, need some Scorpio advice please!

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kgrace1615
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My scorpio broke up with me in October of 2011. We had absolutely no contact for almost six months, and I was getting my life back on track and moving forward. Right around my birthday, he started texting me out of the blue and we kind of struck up a friendship. We talked like old times, and he made several comments I may have read into too much. Things like saying he wanted to be around for a family get together (he's only met my father once, and that was right before he broke up with me), saying how much his sister would like me, just off the wall comments that had me thinking that maybe he was after a reconciliation. Last week, I questioned why he was back in my life and he flipped out. The text he sent me was along the lines of "I haven't asked you out this year, you know I date, yada yada yada, I thought we were good friends" etc. I apologised and told him that things were perhaps misconstrued and that while sometimes I do want him back, I value our friendship and the only way I would risk it would be if we both wanted to try again. That seemed to mollify him a bit and I backed off. Now, we both work for the same company, just on different sides of the department, so there is no need to run into each other at all (remember, we successfully avoided each other for six months). Sunday rolled around and this was easily 3 days after the "disagreement" and he felt the need to stop by my work area both at the beginning of my shift and at the end. I kept things light, and we had no contact whatsoever Mon-Wed this week. I'm off Mon/Tue, and he's off Mon-Wed. This afternoon, he made it a point to come find me on my break and show me pictures of his camping trip he took this weekend, along with the little comment "I was going to send these to you". I remarked on how beautiful the pics were, but was kind of distant as I had a family matter on my mind (and I'm still hurting from the spat), so we only talked for a few minutes.

My question is rather a WTF is going on—? Is it really possible for a scorpio man to be friends with someone he loved? Is he playing some kind of game with me? I never stopped loving this man, as a matter of fact, I honestly feel like he's the man I'm meant to be with, but I can't help wondering if this is a game to him. Any feedback or advice would be greatly appreciated!
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oh dear - the polar opposite attraction between Scorpio Man and Taurus Woman is ... awesome.

I met a Taurus woman who changed my life - showed me how to relax - I envied her ability to
"just be" and not worry about everything. So you probably have a very calming effect on him.
That is something that is PRICELESS to us and I'm sure he's glad he met you.

But if he has flat-out told you that he won't feel for you as much as you do for him
appreciate the fact that he told you the truth and do not be humiliated by your love.

Somewhere there's a Capricorn who is just right for you.
We'd fucking hate him, but, you'll love him.


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kgrace1615
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I appreciate the insight! I'm confused as to why he would end the relationship with that comment and then six months later start worming his way into my life. My experience with a previous scorpio made it seem like once they leave, they are gone. I would be fine with that, because quite honestly, being his "good friend" causes me pain. Yes, I will always love him, he was the first guy that I could see building a life with since my divorce in 2003. But in a way, my gut instinct is saying much more. That he does really care about me but.... there's the potential that he may get the opportunity to move to Virgina in September to join the fire department. If he isn't offered the position, he'll choose to stay in Colorado because he loves it here. I feel like that possibility is what is dictating his choices right now. Easier to date unrealistic girls to scratch the itch so to speak, girls that he knows he can walk away from if the job comes through. Getting back with me would mean facing feelings he is trying to hide and taking the risk of getting hurt if he does get the job and I refuse to go with him. Silly boy needs to pull his head out of his ass and realize that I'm the one woman who wouldn't interfere with his dream, I'd go with him to the ends of the earth if he asked me to. I think there is a very large part of him that doesn't believe that someone could love him that much considering the pain and anguish his ex wife put him through.