That Scorp Temper....

So I'm having a lovely chat with my scorp friend, and out of the blue he tells me how he gets angry, and how he throws things and punches things, in the mean time showing me his bruised fist.

Thing is, it felt like he was seeing what my reaction would be to this side of him, as he is always very calm around me.
Either way, it doesn't phase me. I grew up with a violently angry father, so I found his story amusing...

My question is, are destructive outbursts a common thing for scorp males?

I don't know. you only think its ok because your dad was a violent ass too. Mild frustrations is something but anything more than that, that person has some real issues.

try males in general? lololo

lolololol.....no. I'm sorry but you are confusing simple horseplay and physical labor with obvious anger issues. But you both have proven, most women in domestic violence situations probably asked for it because they make lame excuses for men when they obviously let you know they have a violent side. I hope that none of you turn into a punching bag. That includes you nerd. Being male doesn't keep you from being killed. 🙂. But maybe you like it. I'll stop donating money to victims of domestic violence from now on.

Yeah apparently my Scorpio ex has told me that hes thrown his computer mouse at the wall and shattered it and also punched his wall after when I pissed him off. He can't remember what it was about though but he knows that I really infuriated him. Eh w/ever. Seems that us Gemini's have a way with that, creating a whole scene of drama and skipping off to the next people to play devil's advocate to LOL! It was like throwing the scorpion in a plastic box and shaking it furiously. Boy he was mad. LOL

Posted by NotaNewbie
lolololol.....no. I'm sorry but you are confusing simple horseplay and physical labor with obvious anger issues. But you both have proven, most women in domestic violence situations probably asked for it because they make lame excuses for men when they obviously let you know they have a violent side. I hope that none of you turn into a punching bag. That includes you nerd. Being male doesn't keep you from being killed. 🙂. But maybe you like it. I'll stop donating money to victims of domestic violence from now on.

Late reply here...

No offence but you don't seem to understand. Domestic violence situations involve violence against a person.
Outbursts to vent anger on inanimate objects is just that. Just because I grew up in that kind of household does not mean I am oblivious to the difference between the two.
He's a decent person, and anger is natural and ok, most of us have the odd outburst. It's what you do with it that makes the difference.

Thanks for your concern! It's great you're an advocate for that.
A little anger can be used for appropriate purposes though 😉

Posted by Rockthenerds
Turn a woman into a punching bag? Foolish mortal. They don't call me rocky for nothing sugar.

You, dear Rocky, are hilarious!
Nope, nota just doesn't get us.

Thank you for clearing up those facts. It is obvious you are not a myth. Should I bow or something?

Posted by Crabmoon
but I can picture a scorpio,showing he's anger side just to see people reaction.

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Yes, that's what I thought. Because I don't know or see that side of him, he was probably curious to see my reaction. And probably because his bruised fist desired some nurturing.

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Posted by Crabmoon
RTN i have to admit you Rock

Thanks!

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Reminds me of...

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Legend....when he keeps his mouth closed, that is 😉

Bowing now, BTW

I was unfortunate enough to witness my scorp bf lose his temper and get physical. Not with me, but a complete stranger. 😢 Sad sad sad... so not him. He sees it as a complete lack of self control.

I'm no angel though. I was in a bad argument in a past relationship and I was so frustrated that I picked up a glass bottle of olive oil and hit it as hard as I could on a marble counter top, lol. It's funny and not funny. It exploded. I made an ungodly mess and felt like a total shit. To this day, I'm not sure what the point of making an olive oil and glass explosion was. I was stepping in glass shards for weeks... gotta love Karma 🙂