(oldie but a goodie) does this Scorpio like me? signs he does.

I know its asked all the time but Scorpios are too secretive to guess these things, especially when you don't talk.

So there's this Scorpio, we have mutual friends, I do catch him staring at me sometimes but when I do I can't stare long enough to know how long he stares, its too intense for me, and he acts weird when I'm around, he's not a shy person around our friends but he is towards me, he almost acts as if I don't exist sometimes. Sometimes hell say hi yo everyone except me if I don't make the first move.

This is all I got because we don't talk and I'm too shy to do anything (Taurus) and no I'm not a teenager I'm 23 and he's 31.

Also we go to the same church (no religious comments please, only mentioning this because its more to do with morals and rules) so guys and girls cannot hang out alone anyways, especially singles.

Is there anything I can do to make the lines clear that were just friends or he likes me or nothing or has it already been made clear?

My experience with both times I have dated a Scorpio man is that they quietly, but determinedly let me know that they wanted me.

Posted by rungs
...Is there anything I can do to make the lines clear that were just friends or he likes me or nothing or has it already been made clear?

Beyond asking him outright "I sense you may like me. Do you?" No there isn't anything you can do to make this clear. Why would you want to anyway? Meaning, if he isn't being assertive and making it clear (a trait often associated with Scorps), he may simply need some time to get himself sorted (if he's even interested).

Generally, a Scorp is a thoughtful moving sign. You be hard pressed to find one that just jumps into something (they are serious about), even something as simple as approaching a potential partner. Even in those stories where you hear people say "He made his intentions clear...he just let me know without much hesitation...he approached me...he was very assertive/aggressive...upfront or straightforward", don't be fooled. That Scorp was watching you for a while before making his or her move. You just think it's "sudden" or happening.

Sounds like he simply sorting you out/taking you in right now. Where that goes will remain to be seen. Until then...

PS I'm not gonna comment on the 8 year gap because you're grown, but well....I guess I just did.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by rungs
...Is there anything I can do to make the lines clear that were just friends or he likes me or nothing or has it already been made clear?

Beyond asking him outright "I sense you may like me. Do you?" No there isn't anything you can do to make this clear. Why would you want to anyway? Meaning, if he isn't being assertive and making it clear (a trait often associated with Scorps), he may simply need some time to get himself sorted (if he's even interested).

Generally, a Scorp is a thoughtful moving sign. You be hard pressed to find one that just jumps into something (they are serious about), even something as simple as approaching a potential partner. Even in those stories where you hear people say "He made his intentions clear...he just let me know without much hesitation...he approached me...he was very assertive/aggressive...upfront or straightforward", don't be fooled. That Scorp was watching you for a while before making his or her move. You just think it's "sudden" or happening.

Sounds like he simply sorting you out/taking you in right now. Where that goes will remain to be seen. Until then...

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Listen to phoenixRising OP, well put