please help !!!!

I had a scorpio collegeague who used to flirt around with me and stare at me a lot. I know he had a girlfriend then so i didnt respond much despite having feelings for him. His gf used to live in some other town. We went to coffee shops together etc. I left the job and moved to some other city and now he doesnt even pick up my calls. Earlier he always used to come to my place to chat and joke and now he doesnt even call back. Its been quite a few months since we have spoken to each other i dont know whats happening. Earlier he tried to open up with me telling me about his school and personal life, accomplishments etc. I dont know whether my somewhat less then enthusiastic reaction threw him off. Somebody please help me comprehend this fellow. Also he used to cal me complicated i dont know why.

There are plenty of fish in the sea. Life is too short. And then on top of that you mentioned he had a gf. Come on. Do you know people in the new city where you live? Take up a hobby, or a dance class, or something. Go out and have fun. Enjoy your life and focus on personal development.

thanks... i know you are right. and im trying to do that precisely but there are times when i miss him badly very badly. I even cried a couple of times with tears actually streaming down my face. I dont understand why did this happen this sudden cutting off of all ties.

When someone wants to leave out of your life then you open the door and you bid them farewell. Cry if you must, but wipe those tears away, and go on. Have fun with your life. Find you a good Sag or Leo to hang with. They are so much fun. And you can learn a thing or two from them about not holding on to someone so hard and taking people so seriously.