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Aquarius
Thanks for your replies.
I have just left him to it. I know he gets stressed and busy with work but I miss him terribly. Don't like the feeling of negativity.
On that note, I got a text from him saying good morning babe. That's good but he hasn't mentioned anything about what's happened - especially regarding my last text message. It's like things are normal again.
Do you think he's just thought about the whole situation and what I've said and he's ok about it now?
I have just left him to it. I know he gets stressed and busy with work but I miss him terribly. Don't like the feeling of negativity.
On that note, I got a text from him saying good morning babe. That's good but he hasn't mentioned anything about what's happened - especially regarding my last text message. It's like things are normal again.
Do you think he's just thought about the whole situation and what I've said and he's ok about it now?
Posted by cb89This response could be because my sign simply hates conflict, and will avoid it at cost, but if i were you i'd act like he is acting; like it never happened. Cool. lol.
Thanks for your replies.
I have just left him to it. I know he gets stressed and busy with work but I miss him terribly. Don't like the feeling of negativity.
On that note, I got a text from him saying good morning babe. That's good but he hasn't mentioned anything about what's happened - especially regarding my last text message. It's like things are normal again.
Do you think he's just thought about the whole situation and what I've said and he's ok about it now?
He's fine so i'm fine. I wouldnt' even ask why he went silent, because his distant behavior probably had nothing to do with you. I've been doing my homework on this sign lately, and when they go through something stressful or upsetting it's best their partner gives them space and understanding no matter how hard it is. He probably came back around because you softened up apologized, recognized your faults, and left him alone. He feels no need to discuss it if you've already said sorry.
Thanks for the advice. I will act normal. I haven't heard from him cos we are both busy with work atm.
However, right now, I just feel like I want to be alone and have some time to myself.
However, right now, I just feel like I want to be alone and have some time to myself.
Posted by GetMistedLol I can unhide it if you really want!
WHY DOES EVERYONE HIDE THEIR OP ON THIS BOARD?!
FFS
Posted by GetMistedLOL! They're doing it on the Libra board too.
WHY DOES EVERYONE HIDE THEIR OP ON THIS BOARD?!
FFS
Ok so it's been a couple of days. We have exchanged text messages here and there. Nothing special. I am initiating. No phone calls and no mention of the situation. Not the usual good morning texts.
I feel like there is distance but I know he gets stressed and busy with work. Having said that, it only takes a couple of seconds to write good morning.
I'm getting frustrated now cos there has been a lack of communication yet he has time to go on social media whilst he's on his break at work and follow hot girls. In his break, I usually get a message from him but instead he's doing that. I feel kind of insulted by this.
I went out with my friend yesterday and he text me saying ok baby have fun x When I got back I text him saying I'm home and sent him a pic of myself. No response. I'm getting irritated.
What is he playing at? Does he want a reaction from me?
I feel like there is distance but I know he gets stressed and busy with work. Having said that, it only takes a couple of seconds to write good morning.
I'm getting frustrated now cos there has been a lack of communication yet he has time to go on social media whilst he's on his break at work and follow hot girls. In his break, I usually get a message from him but instead he's doing that. I feel kind of insulted by this.
I went out with my friend yesterday and he text me saying ok baby have fun x When I got back I text him saying I'm home and sent him a pic of myself. No response. I'm getting irritated.
What is he playing at? Does he want a reaction from me?
Posted by GetMistednot for nothing but sometimes, the responses on this board are the snarkiest, condescending and insensitive.
WHY DOES EVERYONE HIDE THEIR OP ON THIS BOARD?!
FFS
Now I just lurk and wait rather than post anything on here. It seems to be a running situation with people seeking understanding but while being open, they're ridiculed.
Smh. When my Scorpio started acting like this towards me I mirrored him.
I left him alone, and stopped initiating, he came around fast.
You won’t feel any better if you continue to push, so I would advise you to stop. That’s my personal opinion. Let it go. I wouldn't curse him out or even nag him about it because chances are he doesn’t even realize he’s doing it. Something is distracting him, it could be his personal thoughts, personal agendas, a person, or situation, a thing who knows with them because they damn sure wont tell you. So it’s not worth trying to figure out. You’ll never figure it out unless he opens his mouth. I wouldn’t be mushy either, I’d let him do it, and I’d respond to it. I leave it like that for a while until he straigtens up.
This may or may not be the best advise considering I’m still learning how to deal with this sign myself, but I have a Leo in Venus so my ego sometimes clouds my judgement. My attitude is if I’m being super sweet and communicative, and your being distant and cold for no reason, my first reaction is try and ask if everything is okay. If you shut me out and try to act like everything is cool, then I will start treating that person EXACTLY how they treat me. If I feel like you saying fuck me, then it’s fuck you too. Period.
I left him alone, and stopped initiating, he came around fast.
You won’t feel any better if you continue to push, so I would advise you to stop. That’s my personal opinion. Let it go. I wouldn't curse him out or even nag him about it because chances are he doesn’t even realize he’s doing it. Something is distracting him, it could be his personal thoughts, personal agendas, a person, or situation, a thing who knows with them because they damn sure wont tell you. So it’s not worth trying to figure out. You’ll never figure it out unless he opens his mouth. I wouldn’t be mushy either, I’d let him do it, and I’d respond to it. I leave it like that for a while until he straigtens up.
This may or may not be the best advise considering I’m still learning how to deal with this sign myself, but I have a Leo in Venus so my ego sometimes clouds my judgement. My attitude is if I’m being super sweet and communicative, and your being distant and cold for no reason, my first reaction is try and ask if everything is okay. If you shut me out and try to act like everything is cool, then I will start treating that person EXACTLY how they treat me. If I feel like you saying fuck me, then it’s fuck you too. Period.
I'll speak for myself....one thing I can't stand, is a nagging pain in the ass. Don't corner me, don't check up on me, if you don't trust me MOVE THE FUCK ON.
Most Scorpio's cannot stand weak, insecure people. Most Scorps will avoid people like this 99.9% of the time.
Most Scorpio's cannot stand weak, insecure people. Most Scorps will avoid people like this 99.9% of the time.
Posted by livictoriDon't like the responses? Why? because we speak our minds and the truth? Or are you one of those people who post and EXPECT to hear what you WANT to hear?Posted by GetMistednot for nothing but sometimes, the responses on this board are the snarkiest, condescending and insensitive.
WHY DOES EVERYONE HIDE THEIR OP ON THIS BOARD?!
FFS
Now I just lurk and wait rather than post anything on here. It seems to be a running situation with people seeking understanding but while being open, they're ridiculed.click to expand
If yes to any of the above....move onto another forum that meets your expectations, and best wishes to you.
Posted by LetltBLOL. See OP? Told you. Dont nagg or fuss, just fall your little neck back and let him come to you. If he doesn't then like @LetItBe said....MOVE THE FUCK ON. 🙂
I'll speak for myself....one thing I can't stand, is a nagging pain in the ass. Don't corner me, don't check up on me, if you don't trust me MOVE THE FUCK ON.
Most Scorpio's cannot stand weak, insecure people. Most Scorps will avoid people like this 99.9% of the time.
Posted by LetltBOUCH. I dont think it's the responses, things get misconstrued through these threads, it's like when you send a text and it comes off wrong. I've had people take my responses out of context. I've done it before myself, but i dont get rude, i just let them know their response came off mean or condecending, or judegmental and see if they meant it that way. I always warn people tho when you write to complete strangers it may not be peaches and cream.Posted by livictoriDon't like the responses? Why? because we speak our minds and the truth? Or are you one of those people who post and EXPECT to hear what you WANT to hear?Posted by GetMistednot for nothing but sometimes, the responses on this board are the snarkiest, condescending and insensitive.
WHY DOES EVERYONE HIDE THEIR OP ON THIS BOARD?!
FFS
Now I just lurk and wait rather than post anything on here. It seems to be a running situation with people seeking understanding but while being open, they're ridiculed.
If yes to any of the above....move onto another forum that meets your expectations, and best wishes to you.click to expand
Ok thanks guys.
I won't say anything to him then and just let him come to me and see how that goes.
If he decides to come back, I'll just act normal?..
I won't say anything to him then and just let him come to me and see how that goes.
If he decides to come back, I'll just act normal?..
Posted by LyseOUCH. I dont think it's the responses, things get misconstrued through these threads, it's like when you send a text and it comes off wrong. I've had people take my responses out of context. I've done it before myself, but i dont get rude, i just let them know their response came off mean or condecending, or judegmental and see if they meant it that way. I always warn people tho when you write to complete strangers it may not be peaches and cream.So are you saying we took the op out of context here? Or is it you are feeling like a victim and decided to go off topic and make this about you?
Maybe the Scorp board is too realistic for you or Scorps in general?
Posted by LetltBWhat are you talking about—Posted by LyseOUCH. I dont think it's the responses, things get misconstrued through these threads, it's like when you send a text and it comes off wrong. I've had people take my responses out of context. I've done it before myself, but i dont get rude, i just let them know their response came off mean or condecending, or judegmental and see if they meant it that way. I always warn people tho when you write to complete strangers it may not be peaches and cream.So are you saying we took the op out of context here? Or is it you are feeling like a victim and decided to go off topic and make this about you?
Maybe the Scorp board is too realistic for you or Scorps in general?click to expand
I didn't make this about me, i was using myself as an example to sympathize with what the other person was saying about why she just often reads dxp but doesn't post.
I didn't say anyone took the OP's response out of context. The whole thing was brought up because one of the posters asked why the OP hid her comment. So wtf are you talking about?
I'm not sensitive to any of the boards, hell the way i see it no one knows me in real life so why would i take it personal if someone disagree's. I have a problem when someone is disresectful while disagreeing, but thats a whole other topic.
Posted by cb89Your welcome. Yes. I would suggest you act normal. He will come back tho. lol. You two are in a relationship, he's your boyfriend not just some guy your kicking it with. So dont worry 🙂
Ok thanks guys.
I won't say anything to him then and just let him come to me and see how that goes.
If he decides to come back, I'll just act normal?..
Be calm, and as hard as it is dont over think things. Try. lol. I know it's hard. Also, let him take the wheel a little bit, i think he might enjoy it. I've heard they like to be in control
Posted by cb89he doesn't sound like he cares too much about you. sorry to hear about that. if a man wants you and wants to make you happy, you can be sure he will. (this is Always in the early stages of courtship of course. until you both are very comfortable with eachother)
Ok so it's been a couple of days. We have exchanged text messages here and there. Nothing special. I am initiating. No phone calls and no mention of the situation. Not the usual good morning texts.
I feel like there is distance but I know he gets stressed and busy with work. Having said that, it only takes a couple of seconds to write good morning.
I'm getting frustrated now cos there has been a lack of communication yet he has time to go on social media whilst he's on his break at work and follow hot girls. In his break, I usually get a message from him but instead he's doing that. I feel kind of insulted by this.
I went out with my friend yesterday and he text me saying ok baby have fun x When I got back I text him saying I'm home and sent him a pic of myself. No response. I'm getting irritated.
What is he playing at? Does he want a reaction from me?
but unfortunately it doesn't sound like a good stepping stone to success in the early days.
Posted by LyseReally?
I'm not sensitive to any of the boards, hell the way i see it no one knows me in real life so why would i take it personal if someone disagree's. I have a problem when someone is disresectful while disagreeing, but thats a whole other topic.
Posted by Lyse OUCH. I dont think it's the responses, things get misconstrued through these threads, it's like when you send a text and it comes off wrong. I've had people take my responses out of context. I've done it before myself, but i dont get rude, i just let them know their response came off mean or condecending, or judegmental and see if they meant it that way. I always warn people tho when you write to complete strangers it may not be peaches and cream.Is it just me or is this full moon lighting up the hypocrites today?click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8 he doesn't sound like he cares too much about you. sorry to hear about that. if a man wants you and wants to make you happy, you can be sure he will.Excellent dose of common sense right there^^^ +1
Posted by LetltBIt's just you in my opinion. But whatever, take it how you wanna take it.Posted by LyseReally?
I'm not sensitive to any of the boards, hell the way i see it no one knows me in real life so why would i take it personal if someone disagree's. I have a problem when someone is disresectful while disagreeing, but thats a whole other topic.
Posted by Lyse OUCH. I dont think it's the responses, things get misconstrued through these threads, it's like when you send a text and it comes off wrong. I've had people take my responses out of context. I've done it before myself, but i dont get rude, i just let them know their response came off mean or condecending, or judegmental and see if they meant it that way. I always warn people tho when you write to complete strangers it may not be peaches and cream.Is it just me or is this full moon lighting up the hypocrites today?click to expand
@OP, let us know how it plays out 🙂
If a Scorpio man wants you he WILL be with you and he WILL want to hear from you.
This guy doesn't... Or should I say his inactions shows he doesn't.
This guy doesn't... Or should I say his inactions shows he doesn't.
Posted by lisabethur8If he's not into her, then why not just dump her then? It's not like they are married or live together.Posted by cb89he doesn't sound like he cares too much about you. sorry to hear about that. if a man wants you and wants to make you happy, you can be sure he will. (this is Always in the early stages of courtship of course. until you both are very comfortable with eachother)
Ok so it's been a couple of days. We have exchanged text messages here and there. Nothing special. I am initiating. No phone calls and no mention of the situation. Not the usual good morning texts.
I feel like there is distance but I know he gets stressed and busy with work. Having said that, it only takes a couple of seconds to write good morning.
I'm getting frustrated now cos there has been a lack of communication yet he has time to go on social media whilst he's on his break at work and follow hot girls. In his break, I usually get a message from him but instead he's doing that. I feel kind of insulted by this.
I went out with my friend yesterday and he text me saying ok baby have fun x When I got back I text him saying I'm home and sent him a pic of myself. No response. I'm getting irritated.
What is he playing at? Does he want a reaction from me?
but unfortunately it doesn't sound like a good stepping stone to success in the early days.click to expand
Posted by Lyse If he's not into her, then why not just dump her then? It's not like they are married or live together.He's not married to her and doesn't live with her, and doesn't owe her anything. Intelligence and some self respect would be key here and dictate to most people, if someone treats you like shit you MOVE ON.
In fact if she did that, he may respect that. (may..)
Posted by LetltBMakes sense. I dont agree that he doesn't owe her anything, he owe's her some respect as his woman, he does owe her time and attention, that the whole point of being together and dating. If it's like that then he shouldn't be her boyfriend, and you'd be right she should dump him if he thinks like that.Posted by Lyse If he's not into her, then why not just dump her then? It's not like they are married or live together.He's not married to her and doesn't live with her, and doesn't owe her anything. Intelligence and some self respect would be key here and dictate to most people, if someone treats you like shit you MOVE ON.
In fact if she did that, he may respect that. (may..)click to expand
Perhaps i shouldn't say "OWE" i should say he should "WANT" to do those things.
If he doesn't want to, then thats a problem.
If he doesn't want to, then thats a problem.
Posted by LyseCorrect...it's her problem which I'm going to assume why she posted here.
Perhaps i shouldn't say "OWE" i should say he should "WANT" to do those things.
If he doesn't want to, then thats a problem.
Posted by cb89To Cb89:
Hello all,I'm in a relationship with a scorpio and I feel like he's avoiding me.
Please define "relationship". Have you both made an agreement you are exclusive? How long have you been in a relationship with this Scorpio? How long have you known him?
How many dates have you been on?
Actually we have been together for a while. Over two years now.
He has started a new job recently and has been going the extra mile to do his best there. He has worked so hard that he's getting promoted. I know his career means a lot to him.
When we are together he is very affectionate and loving. We see each other about once a week as we have full time jobs and live about 1hr away from each other.
When we are not together he usually intiates conversations first via text and call around once or twice a week. Depending how busy he is.
I have met his family in the past and speak to his mum regularly. I see them occasionally too.
He has also met my family.
He has started a new job recently and has been going the extra mile to do his best there. He has worked so hard that he's getting promoted. I know his career means a lot to him.
When we are together he is very affectionate and loving. We see each other about once a week as we have full time jobs and live about 1hr away from each other.
When we are not together he usually intiates conversations first via text and call around once or twice a week. Depending how busy he is.
I have met his family in the past and speak to his mum regularly. I see them occasionally too.
He has also met my family.
I have been in a similar situation in the past where he was very stressed out and I didn't hear from him.
I left him to it and he eventually came back round when his stress was over.
I think this could be the same thing again
I left him to it and he eventually came back round when his stress was over.
I think this could be the same thing again
Even though I don't want to come across as a nag, I feel like I need to speak to him about it
Posted by ImpulsvHe does bottle up and that's when I don't hear from him. It would be nice to know he's stressed out rather than playing a guessing game.
At least to tell u . Hey I'm stressed right now. But sometimes we don't know we are stressed because we work well under pressure. I mean we where made for it lol but then it bottled up n that's when we retreat.
It could be anything but knowing him, he won't say what it is!
Posted by ImpulsvThanks for that insight. It makes more sense to me now.
The thing is we don't know ourselves if we are stressed . Hard to describe I've had a hard time identifying feelings n genuinely think I'm ok I honestly think it's ok n suppress only to realize that after adding on other situations it's not ok n it's to late. We have to learn to identify early signs.
We work well under pressure n it's our norm until it's not. So he might not even know himself . Lot of sitting still n question what's going on with our feels.
Example when I had surgery honestly felt ok then one month n I explode. Truth is surgery was stressful n scary. I only realized it until out of nowhere I exploded. It was "oh Im stressed n scared. "
When I'm stressed out I tend to deal with it on my own too and suppress.
I have spoken to him about it and he said he didn't even think he was avoiding me. I mentioned I would appreciate a little more effort and he said I'm right and he's sorry about it. I feel a lot better speaking to him regarding this and he seemed so understanding.
He said he hates using his phone lol
Posted by cb89That's not a relationship. I'm sorry to say. Doesn't matter if you met his family and he met yours. He is committed to his job....that is very clear. Sounds to me like the long distance will remain your problem. Long distance however is usually more than two hours away. You say you see each other once a week..does that include Friday - Sunday? Why don't you do overnights during the week with him and get up an hour early for work? I mean if this has been going on for two years, what's the big deal?...and who set the boundry for limited time with each other? If he did..and you agreed, then you can't complain. Either that, or tell him it's not working for you.
Actually we have been together for a while. Over two years now.
He has started a new job recently and has been going the extra mile to do his best there. He has worked so hard that he's getting promoted. I know his career means a lot to him.
When we are together he is very affectionate and loving. We see each other about once a week as we have full time jobs and live about 1hr away from each other.
When we are not together he usually intiates conversations first via text and call around once or twice a week. Depending how busy he is.
I have met his family in the past and speak to his mum regularly. I see them occasionally too.
He has also met my family.
Posted by cb89Find a job and move to his town, he won't need his phone, problem solved.
He said he hates using his phone lol
i agree with lisa who said he is not that into you
2 years in a relationship and you only have phone conversation once or twice a week?? this is definitely not a relationship with passion. on top of that, he would ignore your texts while following hot girls on social media? if i were you, i would get my exit plan together in one week. some ppl are okay with passionless relationship but f you need more than luke warm whatever ship, why waste more time. you only live once.
2 years in a relationship and you only have phone conversation once or twice a week?? this is definitely not a relationship with passion. on top of that, he would ignore your texts while following hot girls on social media? if i were you, i would get my exit plan together in one week. some ppl are okay with passionless relationship but f you need more than luke warm whatever ship, why waste more time. you only live once.
Posted by LetltB+100000Posted by cb89That's not a relationship. I'm sorry to say. Doesn't matter if you met his family and he met yours. He is committed to his job....that is very clear. Sounds to me like the long distance will remain your problem. Long distance however is usually more than two hours away. You say you see each other once a week..does that include Friday - Sunday? Why don't you do overnights during the week with him and get up an hour early for work? I mean if this has been going on for two years, what's the big deal?...and who set the boundry for limited time with each other? If he did..and you agreed, then you can't complain. Either that, or tell him it's not working for you.
Actually we have been together for a while. Over two years now.
He has started a new job recently and has been going the extra mile to do his best there. He has worked so hard that he's getting promoted. I know his career means a lot to him.
When we are together he is very affectionate and loving. We see each other about once a week as we have full time jobs and live about 1hr away from each other.
When we are not together he usually intiates conversations first via text and call around once or twice a week. Depending how busy he is.
I have met his family in the past and speak to his mum regularly. I see them occasionally too.
He has also met my family.click to expand
i very much agreeeee.... LDR is not even a relationship at all. Everyone that i've heard/known from relatives have ended up that one of them cheated because they don't see eachother for months!! it's not even a relationshp at all.
last one that happened to in our family, Aries sun/Leo moon cousin lives in France (for school) and his gf in the French area of Canada cheated. We just said, well....it's sad but it's LDR.
before that, it was my gay relative, who has a bf in the states. that's all i have to say.
you have to be together, i mean be together. not LDR.
you have to be together, i mean be together. not LDR.
Posted by LetltBhow does feeding someone steak on a shitty spoon help? I've wanted perspective. But we know, we know... dumb naive masochistic fishesPosted by livictoriDon't like the responses? Why? because we speak our minds and the truth? Or are you one of those people who post and EXPECT to hear what you WANT to hear?Posted by GetMistednot for nothing but sometimes, the responses on this board are the snarkiest, condescending and insensitive.
WHY DOES EVERYONE HIDE THEIR OP ON THIS BOARD?!
FFS
Now I just lurk and wait rather than post anything on here. It seems to be a running situation with people seeking understanding but while being open, they're ridiculed.
If yes to any of the above....move onto another forum that meets your expectations, and best wishes to you.click to expand
Posted by livictori how does feeding someone steak on a shitty spoon help? I've wanted perspective. But we know, we know... dumb naive masochistic fishesI'd never feed steak on a shitty spoon as long as I can speak the truth. However, I do realize and take into account the truth is sometimes hard to swallow.
Also, I have moon, rising and three asteroids in Pisces in my chart.... I definitely don't look in the mirror and think "dumb" or "naive" 😉
Regardless, it's not about the sign, it's about upbringing and life experiences that molds us.
Common sense would dictate, if you come to the Scorpio forum and ask a question or advice, you are going to get your wish. Whether it's what you want to hear or not. Is that a bad thing?
Who fed you steak on a shitty spoon here? I'm curious what you asked and how it was answered.
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