Please help me. I'm a Pisces female.

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I'm a Pisces female, and I'm completely taken by my cousins best friend, a scorpio. I've been in love with him for some time. It won't die down and its so much it hurts. The problem is I'm fifteen and he's nineteen. Yeah yeah yeah, laws my ass, when it comes to love I don't care and nothing will stop me from trying. Please, I really would appreciate any help very much. I really need it. I talk to him a bit, it gets personal, but I'm scared I might annoy him, he says I'm not and he always responds to me. I really need him, please help me, I will literally lose myself if someone doesn't.
Side note: I have an Aries venus, it seems to take over all my relationships, so help with that might also help me.
All I need to know is what to and not to do.
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Thank you for the sarcasm. I'm serious. He's a close family friend, I trust him very much, and I love him. If you aren't going to help me I don't need your crap so please don't bother me and waste my time. I'm here for answers, I'm here because I need help and I can't help myself in this situation. I don't get him, I don't know how he thinks, and I'm pleading for your help. I need it. I'm not saying I love him like some stupid kid. I've cried over a guy for three years, when I love I love, and I love him with everything I have.
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Posted by SuperMissMan
I'm a Pisces female, and I'm completely taken by my cousins best friend, a scorpio. I've been in love with him for some time. It won't die down and its so much it hurts. The problem is I'm fifteen and he's nineteen. Yeah yeah yeah, laws my ass, when it comes to love I don't care and nothing will stop me from trying. Please, I really would appreciate any help very much. I really need it. I talk to him a bit, it gets personal, but I'm scared I might annoy him, he says I'm not and he always responds to me. I really need him, please help me, I will literally lose myself if someone doesn't.
Side note: I have an Aries venus, it seems to take over all my relationships, so help with that might also help me.
All I need to know is what to and not to do.



What you need to do is forget about him until after you are of legal age.


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Posted by SuperMissMan
He's not a guy who gets in trouble like that. He's one of those people who are very serious about relationships. It's apart of our culture (Romanian) but still. Please help.




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Well, hello hello.

We do take our relationships seriously. I bet she's from the same part of the country as me..so much passion in her posts.
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If you really are 15 (I'm doubting it) you really need to leave him alone before you get him into trouble. Usually what happens when the 15 yr old "bags" her man, is that in 3 yrs or so and after a kid or two, she gets caught cheating because she didn't get to "live" during her teens.

Want to know something funny? I was 16 when I met my ex husband. We started dating at 17. I was soooo in love with him! I knew it!! It had to be real. After I had the first kid and was not working (his request), after I was well and truly caught, that's when the verbal abuse started in earnest. So, take it from me: at 15 you "think" you know....but you don't really. Go live, go experience life, finish school, go to college. Have relationships that you learn from and if it's really meant to be with this guy then the universe or whatever will make it happen when you're ready. OR, you'll learn a very hard lesson at a young age, and so will he.
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Let's look on the bright side here: At 15 the world is your oyster. You have so much energy to pour into school and hobbies and make a life for yourself. The energy diminishes with every year til you settle into the same old habits. Now it's the time for you to learn as much as you can, to still have fun without consequences (just don't do bad shit mkay?). These years are not coming back.

Love is all hormone fueled at that age. For me every crush was the love of my life, every falling out was a heartbreak.

Use your energy to make the most of your life. Love isn't going anywhere...and if it's meant to be with this guy, you have the time to have a relationship with him later down the line.
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Posted by SuperMissMan
I'm a Pisces female, and I'm completely taken by my cousins best friend, a scorpio. I've been in love with him for some time. It won't die down and its so much it hurts. The problem is I'm fifteen and he's nineteen. Yeah yeah yeah, laws my ass, when it comes to love I don't care and nothing will stop me from trying.



It easy to say you "don't care" you're not the one that will get arrested. If you really "loved him", you would think about that. I stopped reading after this part, so I have nothing else to offer other than find someone closer to your age.

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That's how I am though, I hatethe thought of getting married and being stuck in a relationship, and I ADORE my freedom, it means the world to me, but I'm willing to give it up for him. That's rare, I usually move on from one person to the next before they knew what happened. I love this guy, so like if said before, I don't want to hear the 'you're young' crap. I'm yound, my aunt got married at sixteen, she was in love. It works, and It happens, I love him, and no one can tell me I don't, now if you won't give me advice on how to get him, I don't need you to say anything.
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You were all in love with a Gemini in May.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/help-im-in-love-with-a-gemini-man-4840770/#4840771<BR>
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Okay Pisces, I need all you experiance and help with a gem man, because I always attract them...but never actually like them, and now I like one and have no idea how to deal. He's so confusing. I don't up understand him with my mind, yet I do with my heart. It's weird, but chaotic because I don't even understand myself! Help me give me all the tips you've got! Thank you!! Ps yes I am a Pisces female.



My message to you is to slow down, take a deep breath.
You seen to treat every new attraction like it's going to be your last or you will just die.

You'll be fine and there is no rush. Take your time and build a friendship with this guy first.
You're crushing on your cousin's best friend, the likelihood of this going anywhere past hello is unlikely.
He may think you are too young for him. He may not want to date his best friends little cousin. Yet.
You can set up a future possibility by being polite and initiating a friendly conversation with him.

Has he shown any interest in you?