Pregnant With My Scorpio BF

We've been together for only 4 mos, We never fight .. compatible I shld say. He already had a child from a first marriage and now with me.

I need a scorpio opinion about having a child. I am just worried that he might left me because of my current situation .

Truth is, you have no idea how it will turn out, having only been together for 4 months. You two dont really know each other. I feel bad for you that youre already worried he is going to leave you. Does he know about the baby?

@Dreamer02, yes , but I am afraid. Cause when were together he is so mean to me sometimes.

because im an equal opporuntity poster....i will have to do this...

what the duckers saggi—? your supposed to be smarter than this. if he was such a meanie to you in the relationship why they hell would you even leave yourself open to get pregnant? first you say that you never fight, but hes mean... which one is it? sounds like you were also pretty unsure about things during the relationship as well.

4 months? seriously, probationary periods are work are longer than that.

how far along r u?

Posted by DMV
because im an equal opporuntity poster....i will have to do this...

what the duckers saggi—? your supposed to be smarter than this. if he was such a meanie to you in the relationship why they hell would you even leave yourself open to get pregnant? first you say that you never fight, but hes mean... which one is it? sounds like you were also pretty unsure about things during the relationship as well.

4 months? seriously, probationary periods are work are longer than that.

how far along r u?

Totally

Posted by DazedScorp
I hate kids.

Yep

Posted by Sagelicious
We've been together for only 4 mos, We never fight .. compatible I shld say. He already had a child from a first marriage and now with me.

I need a scorpio opinion about having a child. I am just worried that he might left me because of my current situation .

As a scorpio- i don't worry about a man leaving me- i had my baby cause i knew i wanted a baby. Love that child period and watch them grow and amaze you!

Dang. My saggie cousin just had an abortion two days ago. Before the abortion her Scorpio boyfriend was making threats about getting back with his ex, and I go over there yesterday and they are back together. My gosh, I hope she didn't have an abortion in fear that he would leave her. She claims she wouldn't be able to afford the baby despite making decent money and having months to save, then she said her job wouldn't let her off for long after she had it, and just a bunch of other excuses that didn't make sense at the time. With him talking about leaving her I thought she would at least dump him, but no, which now makes me think this could have been her fear as well.*sigh*

Somehow your post reminded me of her. If he leaves you then he's not a real man, and don't let those thought consume your mind because if you were in a healthy relationship you wouldn't be having them anyway. I could see having thoughts of him possibly being a tad bit disappointed because it so soon, but fearing he'd leave is a different ball game exposing that maybe you shouldn't even be with him in the first place.

@lnana,

im sorry to hear that about your cousin. its clear by your post that shes a bit jaded.

Nah, the people around me lead dynamic lives and I don't stress too much because I hear most of it all through the grapevine. They never come directly to me with it.


He's not a man because leaving her would pretty much guarantee him also running from his responsibilities once the baby arrives. And why would he leave anyway? I don't care if they only knew each-other for two days. If he feel he knows her well enough to stick it in then what sense does it make for him to consider how well he knows her after the consequences? That's a@@ backwards to me, besides, it takes two. Not one, but. TWO and he know the consequences just like every other adult.

i think you're going at this the wrong way...a scorpios opinion here isn't going to mean shit about yours...if he does leave you its not gonna have to do anything with because hes a scorp..its going to be because you have known each other for 4 MONTHS and you're having a child with him. i hope you guys arent teens..i know so many teenage boys who joke about getting the fuck out of where they are at now if they got their girlfriends pregnant..it just amazes me cuz i fuckin love kids and like someone else said before, if hes a real man then he'll own up to it. obviously you didn't plan on this since you're worried he's going to leave, so WHY THE FUCK DIDN'T YOU WRAP IT?

Posted by Dreamer02
Truth is, you have no idea how it will turn out, having only been together for 4 months. You two dont really know each other. I feel bad for you that youre already worried he is going to leave you. Does he know about the baby?

Exactly, four months is too short to tell what kind of person he is. Everyone has flaws. Of course people are going to put their best foot forward first in the start of things. I wish you the best dear. Are you prepared to be a single-MOM? You have to also anyalze why his last relationships never worked? what kind of person was she? Look at his history.

Posted by Sagelicious
We've been together for only 4 mos, We never fight .. compatible I shld say. He already had a child from a first marriage and now with me.

I need a scorpio opinion about having a child. I am just worried that he might left me because of my current situation .

What's the problem? If he leaves you, just apply for welfare and let the state support your rugrat for the next 18 yrs. You could get knocked up a few more times, and make a career out of it.

No were not teens, I am 29 and he's 32 ... Its accidental .. I know its too early .. sometimes he's mean but sometimes he's like so sweet. But whatever happens I am ready. Thank you for your advice!

It has nothing to do with signs but I've been reading this forum since I have met him , and I know in my heart that he's a good person, all of you guys have mentioned here that scorps tend to put walls around you if you have been hurt from a previous relationship, I think this is what he's trying to put off sometimes..

Everything that has been said here ,are all true about him which really amaze me. I am a saggi and i can read people very easy but this one, quite hard.