Question for Female Scorps

Do you usually attract older men more than guys your own age? I notice I attract more older men than men closer to my own age, and I'm not usually attracted to guys my own age. They say we are never really "girls" and that we have a "grown woman" qauality about us.

haha the scorpio im diggin is a year or 2 younger than me, and yes she does seem more mature than over girls.

All older for me

I have dated guys my age, however, I prefer older men.

The 2 long term relationships I had, 1st was 7 yrs older, 2nd was 12 (my ex hub). Others were always my age or older. BUT, the last 2 guys I've dated are younger by 1 and 2 years!! For a long term relationship, this time I dont think I'll go older than 8 or 9 years. However, since I have kids and prefer someone with kids, I have to be open!

Posted by exoskeleton
yes, tons! my bf is 37. the ones before that were 28 and 26. older men just know how to approach me and hold my interest, just so long as he can appreciate both my mind and body and be dominant without assuming a fatherly/sugar daddy role.

guys my age almost always get intimidated by me and i'm not having that, lol. often they don't match me intellectually, sexually, or emotionally. they're usually not ready for a real relationship and i'm not the type for casual sex/fucking around. 😛

I second that.....🙂

Posted by exoskeleton
yes, tons! my bf is 37. the ones before that were 28 and 26. older men just know how to approach me and hold my interest, just so long as he can appreciate both my mind and body and be dominant without assuming a fatherly/sugar daddy role.

guys my age almost always get intimidated by me and i'm not having that, lol. often they don't match me intellectually, sexually, or emotionally. they're usually not ready for a real relationship and i'm not the type for casual sex/fucking around.

i always suspected it was the capricorn in my chart that made me seem older and mature for my age. though i realize most scorp females start looking like walking sex as early as puberty. 😛

37 and you're only 21? I can't help but think something is wrong with a man that dates that much younger.

Yea. Perhaps social conventions are responsible for me getting weirded out by that large an age gap (especially when the woman is barely a full grown adult)


I know everyone is different and some mature faster than others, but I can't help imagining him being 16 and you a newborn lol Ya know?

What do your and his parents think if you don't mind me asking?

I seem to attract older men and younger men. My 7th house is in Gemini so partners with cheerful and youthful dispositions seem to be my marriage march. My husband is 3 years younger than me but he's responsible with his chart full of Capricorn. I think it isn't the age that makes someone mature, so it isn't necessary to say young men aren't mature and intelligent. I know many old guys are still acting like they need a nanny or full of themselves.