REALIZE IM BEING STUNG BY THE SCORPIO

THE OLD THREAD TOLD U HOW I HAD BEEN IN MY OBSERVATION/evalUTION PERIOD; THEN HAD FIALLY MADE THE DECISION TO JUST BREAK FREE FROM HIM. IT HAS BEEN http://www.no2abuse.com/index.php/articles/comments/silent-abuse-the-mind-game-by-teresa-cooper<BR>
IF ALL OF YOU SCORPIOS DO THIS THEN IT IS SOMETHING YOU SHOULD SEEK THERAPHY FOR BECAUSE IT IS WRONG .
ANYHOW; HE DECIDES TODAY HE TEXTS ASKING HAVE I TAKEN HIS BELONGS TO HIS RELATIVES HOME YET. TOLD HIM HADNT GIVEN IT MUCH THOUGHT SINCE HE DIDNT RESPOND TO ME. HE HADNT BEEN REPONDING TO ANYTHING I HAD BEEN DOING BUT HE WOULD INITIATE IT. BUT THE UNDERSTANDING WAS TODAY WHEN HE KEPT TEXXTING WHEN I TOLD HIM I NEVER WANNA SEE HIM OR TALK TO HIM AGAIN BUT THEN ONCE HE GOT ME TALKING HE JUST CUT ALL COMMUNICATION NOT RESPONDING TO TEXT ALTHOUGH I NEVER CALLED. HE TOLD ME I WAS CRAZY WHEN WE WERE ON THE TELEPHONE THOUGH BECAUSE I WENT OFF TELLING HIM I WAS TIRED ON HIM PLAYING THE MIND GAMES AND I WOULD CUT THAT BY CUTTIN HIM COMPLETELY OUT OF MY IFE FOR HIM TO STOP CONTACTING ME AND THAT I NO LONGER WISH TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH HI BECAUSE I AM AWARE HE IS INTENTIONALLY AVOIDING ME TO TRY TO HURT ME AN HA US TEXTING ALL THE TIME JUST TO SHOW IT TO HIS PALS TO MAKE ME LOOK BAD BECAUSE IM POURING MY HEART OUT IN SOME OF EM. I REALLY DID IT PERSONALLY BECAUSE IF IM GOINNNG DOWN I CAN TAKE HIM WITH ME KNOW HE DOESNT WANT HIS BUSINESS SPREADED AROUND ABOUT HOW INTIMATE THINGS WERE AND THINGS HE'S SAID TO ME BUT JUST SINCE IN THE TEXT ITS HIS WORD AGAINST MINES HE WOULD MAKE ME SEEM EVEN CRAZIER TO PEOPLE . WHY WOULD HE BE TRYING TO ABUSE MY MENTAL TO TEAR ME APART INTERNALLY WHAT DID I DO TO HIM SO HORRIBLE THAT WOULD CAUSE THIS MUCH HATE TO TRY TO CONTROL ME AND DEGRADE ME HUH WHAT TYPE OF SICCK SHIT IS THIS. IM CHANGING ME NUMBER GETTING THE HELL OUT OF TOWN FOR A WHILE BEHIND THIS ULLSHIT

Posted by blisss
This isn't about being a Scorpio. This man is just an abuser. Keep walking and never look back.

your right i been running and trying my best to get over the psychological damage that i have endured although being a capricorn ihave a very strong mind, but this type of situation is deep as it gets. since i finally know the answers for what i been going thru i can better cope with it and release myself of all of the anguish i have gotten from it. scorpgal told me that she felt very worried about this guy and i have been doin my detective work to figure it out now it does make me feel so crazy to have even bothered wasting my time going thru this bullshit with his immature ass

Posted by blisss
This isn't about being a Scorpio. This man is just an abuser. Keep walking and never look back.

Definitely!! U don't need his kinda crazy n ur life girl!!

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Posted by blisss
This isn't about being a Scorpio. This man is just an abuser. Keep walking and never look back.

your right i been running and trying my best to get over the psychological damage that i have endured although being a capricorn ihave a very strong mind, but this type of situation is deep as it gets. since i finally know the answers for what i been going thru i can better cope with it and release myself of all of the anguish i have gotten from it. scorpgal told me that she felt very worried about this guy and i have been doin my detective work to figure it out now it does make me feel so crazy to have even bothered wasting my time going thru this bullshit with his immature ass

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Hey we've all been there. Don't beat urself up over it. Don't look at it as time wasted, look at it as a learning experience.

scorpgal i definitely did look at it as a lesson NOT a blessing and I prayed about it 😉 I feel so much better about it and didnt wake hurting about him or confused anymore since I found the solution to the trouble I been chatting it up with you for the longest about. I had been though beating myself up on the matter tho. I really couldnt understand why would some1 try to mess with my psyche (my mental) just to inflict pain but since I see its a form of abuse I just really wanna do better to get to moving along with my life it just aches u all to kow I have been done this way . But your right dont take it as hard since he's just an abuser. I also thought aboout when you told me that you were concerned about this guy scorpgal when you sad that i believe you recognized this as the sting but we were in the retrograde period so everybody was a lil off their game, but I was really looking to see if you were gonna mentio this as being what he had been doing, because it had been a thought for a while like am I being stung. and u know my moon and mercury makes me over analyze situations anyway that concerns me so since this guy already knows I over think I see how bad this really is now

It's always kinda hard to really see/understand what's going on when ur right n the middle of it all & ur emotions r engaged. That's why outside perspective always helps. I didn't like how he was trying to control u so that set me off a bit. But I have a hard time with being told what I can/can't do....some ppl don't mind....I know that's just me.

Also I've probably read this 100s of times,and been told by other ppl just as much, but one thing I learned on my own just this past week is that a lot of things ppl say/do/don't do have absolutely nothing to do w me or a reflection of how they feel about me & I've got to stop taking things so personally. Sometimes ppl are just jerks!!

i honestly didnt expect this from this particular person and you will be glad to know i have thrown hi belongings in the trash to prove i am no longer taking this crap. i am also the type of person you can not just say or do anything to because i will give it the observe phrase just to be clear of the intention and i take the chance with the person depending on the connection and the category this person is in. he abused the situaion off his the rank he had and used it to his advantage in order to have me go thru this situation being optimistic that he wouldnt be doing this to me. but him leaving behind things is his way of trying to control the manipulation, by trying to have my brain think the way e controls it to. i decided i am no longer dealing with him if this was what i observed it to be, before we even reached this stage. i was seeing it and afterwards realized i wasted my time seriously but was taught o much on how to identify people now based off this type of behavior pattern he displayed to me with sold coldness

It is a shame it turned out this way but better to find out now than a long time into it & ur even more attached & heartbroken.

Stay strong girl. I'm here thinking of u if u need someone to talk to.