RESPECT

OK, I'm over the ffffffffin' top with this. My scorp babe has pushed me & I got my hooves firm in the ground. Scorp is taking me for granted and trys to turn everything into ME being the problem. I am fuming like a true bull.

He thinks MY stuff is OUR stuff - including my car.
Has no knowledge of the word "polite", which is so needed in a relationship.
Oh ya, and when I want to do something with him, he asks his friend to join us, but doesn't ask me first, so when I say, "No just us, hun", he calls me rude being I said that in front of his friend.

His temper is the worst part, I'm scared to communicate cuz he blows up. My feelings are invalid and I am sad. 😢

I guess love isn't enough.

Is this all part of being with a scorpio?

"I guess love isn't enough. "

Love is never enough, you still need REPECT, CONSIDERATION, COMMUNICATION and most of all TRUST.

TG you do what you feel in your heart to do.

damn are all scorpio males alike?

^yes

is the only solution to drop him, get rid of him, stop calling him....there has got to be a way to break their ass down to the knees....come now ladies

"Is this all part of being with a scorpio?"

LOL! yes, yes - totally; it's all part of the great package deal!

it could be a better package deal without all the games...

Yes it would be - and he accuses me of playinag games! ughhhhhhhhh

OK, for one, we are taught to leave/divorce our partners and take care of #1, right? But I don't believe in that, and I do believe there's gotta be a way to work, BUT we both must be willing. Maybe he is, but our communication is just so bad we can't even get to that step.

TG, i thought bulls were the ones with the bad tempers, LOL.

"I'm scared to communicate cuz he blows up"
this is the only part that would worry me a little bit. have you tried telling him this - i mean, not in a middle of an argument, but when you are having a calm, rational conversation? if someone said that to me, i would be so mortified that i made someone feel that way that i would definitely make the effort to not react that way.

as far as the other stuff, in a committed relationship i do tend to think of the home as "our" home, the sofa as "our" sofa. respect of private stuff is different, and i would draw boundaries there, again during a calm, rational conversation, not in the heat of the moment.

you guys just moved in together, there will be a period of adjustment while you both try to figure out what's acceptable to the other. you're in each other's space and it's going to take a little time. be patient, talk it out ... don't be scared. if you know he loves you then you need to trust that if you communicate what is important to you he will respect and understand. just remember no one is a mind reader (so if you want a 'date night' with him, you should tell him in advance). you should have a certain amount of comfort level by now to be able to talk freely, it's just a matter of picking the right time.

hang in there 🙂

You guys have just moved in, and that is always difficult to start with..it will calm down later as you get used to each others behaviour..but set the ground rules early on cos later on he won't listen at all...

"But I don't believe in that, and I do believe there's gotta be a way to work, BUT we both must be willing"

Yes I believe in that..don't believe in giving up at the first hurdle..but remain strong and adamant in your ways..he'll bend when he wants to but he will...
They are pigheaded I know, don't ever listen..

yes..thats right