Roast her or not?

I'm finding out when a Scorp holds a grudge against you they want to see you pay, they sure don't think when anger gets to them. Do Scorpios have the problem of doing before thinking? I know I don't have that problem.

Here's the thing I have info on her that could hurt her I'm not getting into the details but it would crush her I'm torn if I really want to do it or not. She's making my life a little miserable lately there are days I want to tell her to tree trunk off. Is it worth it to get ultimate revenge on a Scorpio or try just cut them out of your life she is becoming a big pain in my azz. I can't hurt her but I'm getting tired of her stinging me she might find I will cut her tree trunking stinger off.

Somebody said me she is having a power struggle with me? she can't control me like she can with others she loves control she's a real control freak. I don't do well with somebody controlling me being self-employed for years, I march to the beat of my own drum, I'm not a follower that will never change.

Is this the last girl on earth? FFS, go find a girl to fall in love with, not fight with.

Sounds like you're trying to swat a fly with a Buick.

You'll probably regret it.


Maybe she likes you and she's just trying

to get your attention.


Or maybe you could just apologize for

whatever it is that you did, and she might

forgive you.

Posted by Stihl46
Here's the thing I have info on her that could hurt her I'm not getting into the details but it would crush her I'm torn if I really want to do it or not.

Don't do it.

It's not worth regrets you may have in the future.

Don't do it

If you do it - you will regret it. Yes Scorpio are vindictive but then there are a lot of ways on how to inflict pain. Sooooo many ways to get even it even comes to the person and we havent even made a move.

If you dont - then also get rid of that information... You may think that it may hurt the scorpio but you have to remember we wear a lot of masks.

What I'm saying is both ways you are still doomed. Your best move is to move on and leave us alone. Unless your a sucker for pain then by all means continue what you are doing.

Lol! She's probably not even trying to control you at all. I saw your posts on the other board and you don't have a clear view of reality you should quit while you're ahead and out of jail. And what information? How will it effect her? Losing her job? Ruining her relationship with the Gemini?

Posted by Stihl46

Here's the thing I have info on her that could hurt her I'm not getting into the details but it would crush her

I can't hurt her but I'm getting tired of her stinging me she might find I will cut her tree trunking stinger off.

she can't control me

I don't do well with somebody controlling me

Said the narcissist^^

Go ahead and drop the info on her, as I'm sure that's what you've held over her head for some time now in your attempt to control her. At this point she's probably doesn't care any more..so do what you must. That's what strength is..something narcissists lack. It's very clear she's figured you out (finally), because you simply sound pathetic now after all this time. Go ahead...try to "crush" her..lol

Then you can find another project who you can manipulate for your daily "supply". She's done with you anyway. Doesn't matter.

...don't be surprised if she's still standing with her chin up in the end. 😉

The info I have would ruin her career and her life will I do it? No! Do I have a conscious YES. I would never hurt her but she keeps stinging me anytime she gets emotionally overwhelmed it happens every time its like clock work. The info I have on her is what she told me when we first met. I haven't said anything in the time I have known her. When she pizzes me off I want to say something but I don't I know it would knife her right through the heart. I could have said something the first time she was trying to cause trouble in my life I didn't say a word about her secret.

So is it really fair for her to sting the butter out of me and cause trouble in my life and I can't do anything. She is causing stress in her BFs life people are asking me now he doesn't look good. I keep getting the you are lying to me look when I tell how old he is nobody believes me, people think he's in his 40s.

Will I reveal her secret even thou she is putting me through butter and ruining my reputation?

Why would you want to ruin her career? If u cared so much these thoughts wouldn't even cross your mind. Sounds like you want to control her Bc you are not getting your way. You my dear are sick n evil. I hope it all backfire in your face.

Have you thought of maybe forgetting about this woman and moving on— Seriously.

Posted by Iwill
Wth——

First topics (like only a mont ago) you are trying to get someones opinion here, on whether or not this girl likes you, and that she can't control you and she never will.
Then it's all about her boyfriend and what a bad person he is, and you??re so much better.
Now it's about you want to roast her?

ALL IN ONE MONTH!!! JeeeeeeeSUS! And what have ACTUALLY happened, I mean: IN REAL LIFE! This is all just your emotions and your reacting off of them, you have no clue what's going on inside the scorpios head, and it seems like you don't even care, ??causse if you did bro, you could just ask🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

This way of manuevering sure does sound like Owl, first you??re kind into the girl, but the second she doesn't do as you want her to (and you don't even talk to her about things), you want to take her down!
Why not just leave her alone? What has she done, that is so hurtful to you? You can't exspect people to know what the hell to do, without at least trying to tell them. That's why you get called a narcissist, all you care about is yourself and your ego, seems like you never discuss anything of importance with this girl, but just take a guess and go with that.

And what would you get out of "roasting" her?? What do you want to get out of it? What do you exspect will happen?

Oh shit!! I didn't think of Owlboy! He was obsessed with a Scorpio gal, too. Hmmmmmm.....

OP, leave her alone. She's not into you. She has a boyfriend. Accept that. OR, don't accept it and maybe she'll get a restraining order against you. It might be the only thing that shuts you up.

Posted by Iwill

Posted by MoonArtist

Posted by Iwill
Wth——

First topics (like only a mont ago) you are trying to get someones opinion here, on whether or not this girl likes you, and that she can't control you and she never will.
Then it's all about her boyfriend and what a bad person he is, and you??re so much better.
Now it's about you want to roast her?

ALL IN ONE MONTH!!! JeeeeeeeSUS! And what have ACTUALLY happened, I mean: IN REAL LIFE! This is all just your emotions and your reacting off of them, you have no clue what's going on inside the scorpios head, and it seems like you don't even care, ??causse if you did bro, you could just ask🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

This way of manuevering sure does sound like Owl, first you??re kind into the girl, but the second she doesn't do as you want her to (and you don't even talk to her about things), you want to take her down!
Why not just leave her alone? What has she done, that is so hurtful to you? You can't exspect people to know what the hell to do, without at least trying to tell them. That's why you get called a narcissist, all you care about is yourself and your ego, seems like you never discuss anything of importance with this girl, but just take a guess and go with that.

And what would you get out of "roasting" her?? What do you want to get out of it? What do you exspect will happen?

Oh shit!! I didn't think of Owlboy! He was obsessed with a Scorpio gal, too. Hmmmmmm.....

Yup!!! Not saying this is him, but he acted the same way and it got him nowhere, only back here again and again complaining about the same thing. These guys want ladies to act a certain way and throw a fit when they don't. Only thing to do there is walk away or COMMUNICATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! None of them do it though...

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That's because they're emotionally stunted, out of control, immature dickwads who have serious issues. They're also suffering from entitlement delusions, and extreme low self esteem, thus the bravado to hide it.

May I ask about the Owl story?

How is she ruining your representation? It doesn't sound like she cares enough to get involved in your drama.

Posted by KVZZMIR11
I think you should start looking for another job.

agreed.

Dude, you have to stop obsessing. It's all you write about on here. Have you seen a doctor about any mental health issues? I'm not trying to be funny, it's actually pretty disturbing.

Posted by DwellingOnMove
May I ask about the Owl story?

He was asking for online advice about a Scorpio gal he knew, but similar to this guy in his obsession. He didn't like the answers he got and went on a verbal rampage, even went so far as to make actual threats against people in private messages. I finally had enough of his private abuse and posted his messages to me.

Karma will f??ck you hard in the ass if you do this.

Meanwhile, it may just cause the Scorpio to take legal actions against you, which is entirely possible.

I've been pondering it I don't think I can do it, I'm not cruel and never will be. I can't end a young woman's career it would tree trunk her for years.

Her and I work together different shifts she has my bosses on my back I'm getting tired of it. Just because her life isn't going well she is trying to make mine the same. I guess you could say she is backstabbing me she couldn't give a rats azz if her other team members pizz her off. She can't let things roll off her back with me she I'm guessing because there is feelings and emotions involved. I'm the only one she has gotten close to I know her deepest darkest secrets.

I guess I will have to take it up the azz again I'm not happy about it but it will make her feel like she is getting revenge. She can't control me like her other team members her only way she can control me is cause trouble in my life.

Posted by Whatu
Here is whats going to go down.

She is a Scorpio woman.

Right now you have the power to ruin her carrier, or at least you think you can.
She may lose her job, But probably not because she is good at retaining dignity like you would not understand.
But once she has gotten over the loss she will rejoice that the job was not working for her anyway, if what you say is true and she is having a shit time right now then she probably is quite unhappy at work.
She will grow stronger and probably stumble into a better job opportunity maybe with a better man in her life, Perhaps and Taurus or another Scorpio who can lift her up and love her like she deserves. She will cut you out of her life forever and rise. She is a Scorpio Woman, She will come out on top


You are a Cancer man.

You will get a short and sweet taste of power, but your reign will be fleeting. Your shadow will only grow darker and uglier. You will fill her place with another, and that power will be replaces by guilt, regret and a more profound depression. All self hate which you will take out on the people around you because you are to afraid to look in the mirror and face your demons. The people around you will react in a karmic pattern in exactly the same way that the Scorpio woman did this time. Everything will feel deeper and darker. The pattern will continue, you will be sentenced to a lonely life of failed relationships, Sorrow and anger.


All of which you can avoid if you let this all go, Seek help from a therapist and make it your life's mission to slay your inner demons. When you set out to overcome your internal struggles and look honestly at yourself you will find people become naturally attracted to you. No power or manipulation needed. Woman like the girl you became obsessed with will begin to look at you differently, They will be attracted to the man you are becoming. You will have successful relationships that truly heal the wounds that rot away inside you. The wounds that take all of your energy without ever healing will close up, they will make you stronger. The maggots which crawl out of those wounds and eat away at your emotions and thoughts and self image will die. Freeing you to rise. You are a Cancer Man, you will come out on top.

Best answer to anything I've read on this entire site. Cheers!