Sag - Scorp friendships

I posted this on the Sag forum as well, but figured I would get some insight from my fellow Scorp's as well..

I realized that I tend to attract many Sag female friends, or should I say I tend to meet more female Sag's in the recent years. My closest real friend is a Sag, but I feel like she's more of a Pisces or something because she is a little emotional and very understanding. It's as if we have an understanding of each other, but we are still different. She is very humble and wise.

In the past I had another Sag girlfriend who I felt was envious of me because of the comments she would make or questions she would ask me--as well as my Scorp intuition. As a typical Sag she would harass me with all kinds of forward questions, which was just too much for me as a secretive Scorp. Needless to say I kind of shimmied my way out of this friendship (I do this a lot I think because of my Libra Venus) and she came crying to me and would literally stalk me (maybe her Scorp Venus?). I just could not see myself being friends with her because I knew the kind of person she was and that she didn't have my best interests at hand.

Recently I have been hanging out with two new Sag girls. They are easy to hang out with and seem to be very level headed, which I like. I am not sure of their other placements (I think one girl has a Virgo moon from when I checked one time, which grounds her). We always have fun and can talk about alot of things easily. We do have a lot of differences, and I am keeping them both at arms length distances for now as to not ruin anything because I tend to become intolerant quite easily. I also try not to get too deep with them with my 'feelings', because I know it's like a foreign language to ya'll!

Do any of you Sag's have good Scorp friends? It kind of surprises me that I have had so many coming into my life. I am very cautious with friends and usually don't let them get to close until I fully get to know them. I just wonder how others have viewed the Scorp - Sag friendship dynamic? Please share any insight or stories!!

I also try not to get too deep with them with my 'feelings', because I know it's like a foreign language to ya'll!

^disregard this part...and ** to too many "as well"'s. Did this too fast!

Thank you ladies for your insight!
Before I knew a sag I would have never thought we could get along. You are right Femininity, I have met all kinds of sag's - no one is like the other. What they do have in common is their need for freedom, which I can relate to because of my libra venus. Because I have met all kinds I do find it hard to trust them and I like to "test the waters" to see if we can actually build a friendship. You are both right, the difference is how evolved they are, as well as other factors that may have played into what makes them who they are. I really think dating is not only meant for romantic relationships but especially for friendships. Iver made the mistake too many times to get close to girlfriends and then find myself in a friendship that I don't think is real, then I look shady just up and leaving. *sigh*
If you would have asked me a few years ago what sign I would be if I wasn't a scorp I would have said a sag, mostly becuase like u said Fem, I admire their ability to look on the bright side of everything and not let anything bring them down for too long. I, too, admire their honesty. Not all of them that I've met are like that, but for the most part they keep it real.Now if you would ask me that I would still want to be a scorp 😉 because I've also seen the ugly side of a sag, which everyone has.


On a side note, I've also been hanging out with a cancer and I found out she has moon in sag and merc in leo. She is way too loud and obnoxious for my liking. You would never think she was a Cancer! Whenever we go out its ALL about her, I can't even get a word in edgewise with ppl we meet when we go out. She's such a user too, my Scorp tolerance is on "E" with her...I digress *eyeroll*

As a sensitive scorp every little thing gets to me. Whether it be an action or a comment. Sag's can definetely piss me off and hurt me sometimes with the things they say or do, but the hardest thing for me to undetstand and accept is that the don't do it on PURPOSE. They are just not as aware of the way they make other people feel, the way we are. Still doesn't makr it ok 😉

Sorry too much double posting!! :/

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A Sag can never be possessed. Hmm, I can imagine that being a Sag life would be so much easier then it is as a Scorp, but there would not be as much substance, depth, and meaning to it.


straight bullshit. sorry^^ but thats just not true.

Yeah that came out wrong, there is meaning to the life of a Sag of course, quite a lot. Which is why we get along with them so well. What I mean is that, the substance is different. It's just very different when compared to Scorpio, honestly it's a lot simpler and clearer in the mind of a Sag. Everything built up throughout the life of a Scorpio is a tangled web, impossible for us to relay through words, and far more complex then what goes on with the Sag. Sag's feel intensely as we do, but not in the same way.

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You're right. No one knows the intensity of the feelings of a scorp except for another scorp. Everyone see's the world with different glasses. I used to think the same thing, and sometimes I still do. Like wow, wouldn't life be so much easier if I was like some of the more emotionless signs? But then again, everyone has their "issues" so no matter what sign you are, life is not easy. Funny thing is I had broke down one time speaking to my sag friend because I was caught up over this guy. She was like "wow, I've never heard you cry like this". Then I said to her, I wish I didn't feel things as intensely as I do, and she responded saying that she really admires that I feel things so deeply because I appreciate and feel ever little thing in life more than other people. As scorps we really appreciate the beautiful things of life (stop to smell the roses per say), but then again we often have a tainted image of it.

Another thing I've noticed is that no matter how many times a Sag is betrayed they learn to trust again...at least from what I've seen.

Fire signs in general are not afraid of trying again no matter what happened in the past. Unlike water signs who are more cautious, they just jump back in if they like something/someone. This also reminds me of a time I was talking to my old sag friend about one of my fears of getting married and getting a divorce. This is probably because I saw how horrible things were for my mother when my parents got divorced. My friend was like "well if that happens it just means you weren't meant to be and you find someone new". It's like she put it as easy as 1,2,3, and here I am having a "fear" of this. Mostly my fear is having someone fall out of love with me when I am still in love, but still.

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Yes, I love their need for freedom I think it's so refreshing even though it's hard for me to relate to because my Venus is in Scorpio. I guess sometimes being a Scorpio the weight of life and all it's hardships begin to bear down and there's those times when we just can set free all the negative energy, from having Sag friends I've learned on simple lesson: Just be happy to be alive! Also my best friend told me a quote one time,"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened." If you really take the wisdom of that in it can be completely life changing, to smile because you got to live through something and experience it, and know you can look back at it someday as a fond memory instead of a tragic end. Their positive outlook when things don't end how they would have wished, their life moves on. I defiantly need some of that to brighten up my life.
Yeah, for romantic relationships sag and Scorp just doesn't work, because we are so in depth about everything, our anger and their anger makes a storm, they're a little too loose and naturally flirtatious and that would just destroy a Scorpio inside. A Sag can never be possessed. Hmm, I can imagine that being a Sag life would be so much easier then it is as a Scorp, but there would not be as much substance, depth, and meaning to it. You know those moments where we release everything, all our pent up emotions and it just comes out beautifully and with incredible passion? That's why I love being a Scorpio, our wisdom doesn't always come from experience but it comes from within us.
Hm, I have a Cancer friend and he's a guy, Cancer's just really love to be themselves you know? I love that side of them, but they can also be a little loud sometimes, it might be her Mercury in Leo which would make her a bit showy and always wanting to stand out. I never really get along with Leo women because they seem to always want to claim the spot light and such. Which I don't really understand..

Yes, our wisdom comes at a very young age. Not to brag, but I have always gone down the right path, and have always been independent in getting to where I am today. I know my parents know I am independent and they don't worry about me much because they trust I will make wise decisions. I've just always been like that.
Sag's on the other hand tend to be more carefree, and because of this, can get themselves in

^into sticky situations that they learn from.

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Posted by beccy
A Sag can never be possessed. Hmm, I can imagine that being a Sag life would be so much easier then it is as a Scorp, but there would not be as much substance, depth, and meaning to it.


straight bullshit. sorry^^ but thats just not true.

Yeah that came out wrong, there is meaning to the life of a Sag of course, quite a lot. Which is why we get along with them so well. What I mean is that, the substance is different. It's just very different when compared to Scorpio, honestly it's a lot simpler and clearer in the mind of a Sag. Everything built up throughout the life of a Scorpio is a tangled web, impossible for us to relay through words, and far more complex then what goes on with the Sag. Sag's feel intensely as we do, but not in the same way.

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i see where u are coming from. "IT" is much clearer to a sag than to a scorp.

My bff in high school was a sagg, we would talk on the phone for hours and hang out together she is the god mother of my first born so I think this is a good friendship.......

Me and this Sagg still talk all the time even though she move kinda far away, also I have tons of sagg cousins who I get along with so well...

. I'm sorry about what you had to see with your mother and father, those are the types of fears that are so impossible to wrench out of your head..but hopefully, and truly someday somebody will prove those fears wrong. You know, the only thing that makes the voice in the back of your head so frightening is fear itself.
I think, it's not that Scorpio's will never move on from the past, but we take a long time to heal and we never -EVER- jump into things.

Thank you, I have faith that my fear is just a fear and that I have a great love ahead of me. I am sorry that you have had to deal with a cheating leo. I am sure that it what has made you as strong and as wish are you are. You will meet a great match one day. 🙂

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"Yes, our wisdom comes at a very young age. Not to brag."

Mm, it does. Even as a child I always felt more in depth and aware than children my age, and it was very hard for me to relate to them. It's been more beneficial and rewarding throughout my life to carry on conversations with older people. I also think conversations with the "weird" kids have been more interesting, they just have a lot more things to say.

Yes, I've always liked to stay around the older people for some reason. I was a real loner as a child because I always felt like I didn't fit in or was too afraid to speak up, but its as if something greater inside of me was there. Now that I am older I can appreciate the was I was and the person I am becoming.

I am sure that it what has made you as strong and as wish are you are. You will meet a great match one day. 🙂

***I am sure that it has made you as strong as you are