Scorp male and his thoughts

First let me say I loooooove my Scorp so much! I've been seeing him since July and he has become my best friend. I finally freed myself from my exSag and the exalted bond between me and Scorp is so intense. Now on to my question:

When I confront Scorp w things like "what we are" "what he wants in life, with me" "how he feels abt me"
I get joking or vague responses. Most recently, Scorp will start conversations that confuse me so much. For Instance, I am supposed to take my kids to Disney World- Scorp says again, out of no where... When we take the kids to Florida we should see my aunt and uncle down there. They love kids and would be so happy to have us stop by.

I've never said anything about him coming with us lol

Or he said he was going to put his house for rent so WE can all get a bigger place for the family.

We have never had a conversation abt moving in or living together.

Or he brought up us going on a mini vacation one weekend and told me to plan it.
And then there's the conversation abt when I have his son... And he half jokingly chose our child's name.
Hes a big jokester and playful but then During sex he says- its totally dark in here... But I can see you completely.
And the other night he stares into my eyes,tells me he loves being with me, he's glad we found each other, He's content and happy and might even say he loves me "but is not going to say that tonight". Say what?!

Anyway... Is this a normal Scorp thing? To think abt important life happenings and making decisions or plans out of no where? I mean, why would he not say I want to do x y or z with you but instead feels comfortable just telling me all these plans HE has thought of for us. Seems backwards. Why does he go from "bro" and im his friend to "babe" and he loves me? And in no way does it make me mad... I just don't get it. Silly Aries 😉

Posted by exoskeleton
granted he should be discussing these plans with you rather than deciding them, but i think he's trying to show you more through his actions that he wants to be with you and included in your life. sounds like he loves you, just not quite ready to say it.

and don't you know we actually can see in the dark? 😛

LOL@seeing the dark!So can I

I agree...think he's more comfortable alluding to the future than being point blank about his feelings.

I drove a semi with the lights turned off on Interstate 80 near Battle Mountain, Nevada, one time.

I could see in the dark.

Well you Scorps must have super special powers. I cannot see in the dark. I have other skills though. For instance, Scorp loves to tell people the line "of course I like her! She's too good to me, she cooks for me, and well...we dont fight; theres nothing i have to "put up" with. Well....other than... imagine a porn star in heat bc that's my baby. -_- har har har

I relate to a Scorpio males point of view in ways that almost worry me & I know after I've already fallen for someone I will begin to kind of test out the waters and try to draw what I want out of them first. We don't like to the vuneralable one. ever. I agree with R24 on rearranging our lives to meet your needs. That says a lot. I have noticed in many scorpios, myself included, we fear relationships at times because we tend to lose ourselves in them. We are too passionate to stay as seperate people. Sounds heavy, but if you're one anothers true "one" it is amazing.

Posted by QUlETstorm
This is cute. He has answered all of your questions (I.e. what are we doing, where is this going etc) you're just not listening close enough. He speaks a different love language than you do, just learn to be more observant.

It's simple really. Committing to trips with you, committing to a shared mortgage etc equals committing to YOU.

I see it. As an Aries I'm much more cards on the table. I love you well I flat out say HEY! YOU there! I freaking love you. OK? Alright,
good talk.

He is definitely so cute and I am beyond grateful an appreciative for him being in my life. I've written him plenty of cards and letters telling him this too.

So then how do I reciprocate? I mean, I text him during the day, I have written him sentimental cards, I make him dinner,I buy him small things I know he needs and doesnt have time to pick up like medicine, Chapstick, socks lol I've helped him taken care of his dogs, cleaned his house. You name it I'd do it for him. I guess I should more openly express doing planning or just plain the future with him to make him feel more secure with me.

Shrug 😉

Awesome! Thanks for the reassurance. Nothing like Scorp love 🙂

Posted by Ariess
First let me say I loooooove my Scorp so much! I've been seeing him since July and he has become my best friend. I finally freed myself from my exSag and the exalted bond between me and Scorp is so intense. Now on to my question:

When I confront Scorp w things like "what we are" "what he wants in life, with me" "how he feels abt me"
I get joking or vague responses. Most recently, Scorp will start conversations that confuse me so much. For Instance, I am supposed to take my kids to Disney World- Scorp says again, out of no where... When we take the kids to Florida we should see my aunt and uncle down there. They love kids and would be so happy to have us stop by.

I've never said anything about him coming with us lol

Or he said he was going to put his house for rent so WE can all get a bigger place for the family.

We have never had a conversation abt moving in or living together.

Or he brought up us going on a mini vacation one weekend and told me to plan it.
And then there's the conversation abt when I have his son... And he half jokingly chose our child's name.
Hes a big jokester and playful but then During sex he says- its totally dark in here... But I can see you completely.
And the other night he stares into my eyes,tells me he loves being with me, he's glad we found each other, He's content and happy and might even say he loves me "but is not going to say that tonight". Say what?!

Anyway... Is this a normal Scorp thing? To think abt important life happenings and making decisions or plans out of no where? I mean, why would he not say I want to do x y or z with you but instead feels comfortable just telling me all these plans HE has thought of for us. Seems backwards. Why does he go from "bro" and im his friend to "babe" and he loves me? And in no way does it make me mad... I just don't get it. Silly Aries 😉

I think when he does this is because he is really feeling you to the point he wants to voice out his aspirations and desires for the relationship with you. And, I don't know if other scorpio are like this but I like calling people that I care about a sweet, cute, flirty endearment name