Scorp Male & Female

I was thinking today on my past relationships, and it occurred to me that this one girl that I dated for a month or so had control over me, and I didn't object. Not full control but to a certain standard, if she told me not to go somewhere I would listen most of the time etc...if you understand my point. She was a Scorp, and so am I, but in this case I didn't care if I was dominant, do you think there is a certain reason why? And do you think two Scorps are a good match from your experience if you have any, not appealing to what many say that two Scorps can only sustain a relationship if they are isolated on an island.

This is my translation: I love it because I don't have to be the one who is in control, if she is more dominant it tells me that this girl reflects some of my beliefs, if she wants to know where I am etc..

I know I have this scorpio guy at work....and is just this crazy thing between us, we understand each other without even talking. And what drives me crazy about him is that we are pretty much the same, we have the same beliefs, he is ambitious, intelligent, all the good things that I could ask for he has it....but sometimes we get this awkward silent between us, since we are not dating we both feel insecure about the situation. Sometimes scorpios are so alike that is disturbing...but i would love to have a scorpio guy that i could talk too...it seems like we were made for each other, but neither wants to give up...

I think it's the best feeling in the world. You found someone who understands you and does not think your crazy. Someone who is bright and inelegant.

That's the tricky part, and i think that silence is the answer that he feels the same way you do but is uncertain that you feel the same way he does. This is holding him/you back from making the first move. Damn uncertainty lol.

I know sometimes we are talking with someone else and we always catch the jokes or the sarcasm before anyone and we can talk about anything, and I loveeee his attitude in a harsh situation he is so manly Lol....

the thing is he is so close to me that is hard to read him, it seems obvious but it is so obvious that is unbelievable, and being scorpio we always try to hide our emotions, but sometimes I catch him checking me out...or we have this eye contacts ..that are not awkward at all....

so do you think the silent is a good thing—cuz I am able to talk w anyone so is him but we always get weird whenever is the two of us, and everything we know seems so obvious I dont need to ask him things because I know how he would answer...

I just love him, for being so like me, it fascinates me

Yeah I think it is. I had a similar experience, and when I lose the words that means I just want to make out or something, time to shut it lol

You shuld test him with jokes. Ex: when are we getting married? where my flowers at? your my property. But just as a joke so your able to play it off. If he is a scorp he will pick up the clues, or give you clues

it is so conforting talking to you. it seems like I am talking with this guy lol....and how about when he checks out my myspace does that says anything—
I think that is a big time yes....lol

I know we work together ( he is my boss lol) and sometimes he says something which a scorpio man would get really mad, and I say its ok honey or something eles in a kitten way and he calms down...

Personally, i hate myspace, i have it but I only use it to talk to people i am unable to call (international). If i am about to go on myspace and look at someone its HUGE. Most scorps don't go around checking girls out, i know i don't, its not me. I will pretend like i do if i am out with friends or something but i find no interest inside. I say that's a plus tho.

And if your able to calm him down, that's another plus, at least in my observation. When I trigger not a lot of people got the right words to stop me.

If there is a person in this world that can prevent or calm me down before I bombard the opposing party, then that persons opinion is highly valued. When I initiate I only offer WMD.

yeah Ive noticed you dont like myspace....
that story between you and that cancer girl...

1st if she wore those types of skirts you shouldnt be even dating her...
2nd she seemed to need a lot of attention from guys
3rd (nobody mentioned it) but if her mother had to step up, the girl was not good enough
I would never cry to my mother to fix my problem ( i have a great relationship w my mom) but having her interfering on my relationship is a big NO, I am big enough to know what is good for me and what is not.


how old are you now?

Yeah she changed my perspective and defined new lines of love. I still give in and compose love notes and demonstrate affection throughout lyrical expression but I keep it in fine lines. And every girl I date I confess how I might react to certain scenes. Thank you, I seen no reason why she called her mom to aid. I am 20 years now, your self?

I am 20 too...my bday is nov 19...when is yours??

23-Rd October, just on the edge lol 😄

do you have some libra charactheristics?

FEAR and LOVE - thin line 🙂

Yeah , FEAR-HATE also go together 😛

Ohhh scorp love and flirting LOL!!! :-)

MHO... Back to the topic. There is a genuine connection and understanding between the two, however there is a HUGE control issue. If one doesn't summit to the other or take turns summiting LOL!!! It can be war. However the controling some way intrigues the other, only with these two as FEAR has mentioned, not with other signs. I would be defiant if another sign tried controlling me. With the scorp it was annoying but intriguing SICK!

lol...you girls are silly

we are just having some scorpio talk...NO FLIRTING :-)

We are scorps too. We knoooooowww 😉

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