Scorp sun Venun is scorp, WTF?

Hello fellow scorps. Ima try to keep this as short as possible. I am a scorpio male and I never really believed in this stuff until recently. I was having trouble with this girl I REALLY LIKED (aqua). I thought abt her ALL THE TIME esp at night while trying to get to some sleep. I asked a co-worker of mine for advise ( too embarrassed to admit this to my personal friends). he's a cappy, cool, smart guy, anyway he brought astrology to my attention. As soon as I started reading I noticed certain characteristics that fit me. Then I ended up here thru the aqua forum trying to figure that aqua girl out. I noticed u guys referring to a person's "chart". So of course I look into this and checked out my own chart.
Now I dive even deeper into my chart & there's ton of different forums of girls complaining, goin nuts abt men with venus in scorp. Is this something that I should be worried abt? lol This is happened to me abt four times in my life, being a bit obsessed with a girl I liked. I even noticed "dazed scorp" just ask a girl who was complaining abt her scorp bf smothering her if her bf had venus in scorp. I would never admit these thoughts to these girls ( two taurus, one cap, of course the aqua) cause of fear of rejection and fear of commitment also but it gets to the point that I can't control my own thoughts abt a female I like. Im also not my cool, playful self when im around them. I usually get uptight and I bit jealous over anything they say or do that includes another man but try my best to hide it. Any kind of truthful feedback whether positive or negative would be deeply appreciated. thx fellow scorps in advance. If u wanna ask me some questions also please feel free.


rising sun 17 degrees pisces
Sun 21 d scorpio
moon 8 d taurus
Mercury 13 d sag
venus 11 d scorpio
mars 8 d sag
jupiter 8 d leo
saturn 12 d virgo
uranus 16 d scorpio
neptune 17 d sag
pluto 17 d libra
n. node 25 d virgo

lol excuse my my mispelling (venus)

Hi there! Well I am an air sign Gemini and your Aqua is also an air sign. You might be a little too much for her intensity wise but I am not sure what her placements are.

I have had a bit of trouble with my ex Scorpio Sun w/ Scorpio Venus. They seem to be really shut off not really obtainable. Walls up. I've read some about Scorpio's with Venus also in Scorp and I'll admit that I didn't like what I read. Scared actually.

You said this previously "I can't control my own thoughts abt a female I like. Im also not my cool, playful self when im around them. I usually get uptight and I bit jealous over anything they say or do that includes another man but try my best to hide it." I couldn't agree more. My Scorpio ex became very jealous and just shut me out. Whatever he thought that was it and I was pretty much alienated until he was ready to come back and drag me through hours of torment.

I have a question for you though since you have a few placements like he does. I seem to be taking it harder than I thought and how I allowed myself to get so close to a deadly arachnid I have no idea. Anyways, what do you mean by you can't control your own thoughts about a female you like? I'm still in the dark with my ex, trying to rationalize the irrational I suppose. Us Gemini's are terrible about that.

^^This.

I would take a look around too on the boards. There is a lot here in the Scorpio forum.

Hey thx for answering my post. Thought I would be ignored. What I meant by "couldnt control my thoughts abt a girl I like" was that If I was watching t.v., reading a book, drinking with friends, etc..., i would start thinking abt her. I would try my best not to think abt her, but she was always in my thoughts, small things, what she's doing, who she's with. It got really bad when I would get jealous over something, I would have dreams abt her being with another man. Just to clear up my post a lil, me and the aqua, we were FWB, but I always had the biggest crush on her, I just never told her how much.

I have no idea either Intrigued. I don't even understand that. Most people cannot handle FWB. People eventually get jealous, envious, etc. I should have just been that with my Scorpio, would have been less hurtful I suppose, for myself.

Yeah I know right. I guess what I meant was maybe I shouldn't have invested so much of my time or feelings you know?

@13th - So what will you do now? Are you going to tell her?

@Ellessque u are right. I am over the aqua girl. @inscorp. Even though I get so worked up over a girl, I rather have a FWB then to have a relationship. This thing is soo complicated. I get obsessed over these girls until they make themselves availiable (aqua included. I get so scared of being in a relationship. being rejected at the end scares me I guess. I couldn't have avoided the question any faster when the aqua brought it up, but I repeat, I had such a big crush on her, I just dont get myself. I do enjoy astrology all of a sudden though lol very fasinating

ellessque thx for the links btw

Nov13thscorp, your chart is very similiar to mine as far as the sun, moon,mars, mer, and venus but I have my rising in sagg, so I get what you are saying once we like someone we think about them all the time. Then once we get them where we want them sometimes we feel smothered or we are looking for the next thing to make us feel that way again, you may need a women to be a challenge to you that is what turns me on the most, don't make it so easy for me but then again that might just be a scorp thing.