I am a Pisces woman that suddenly realized I had fallen in love with my Scorpio friend. Since we are both married, I did not tell him and tried to cut ties but he got really upset and wanted to remain friends. Six months later I tried to cut ties again as the feelings were becoming more intense. He again got upset amd asked what had gotten into. I bluntly told him I fell in love, to which he replied "you can't"... Told him it was too late and did not expect to hear from him again. Instead, he contacted me more, started flirting more heavily, and we ended up sharing our first kiss and a few makeouts (we have never had sex). I have been VERY honest and direct about my deep feelings that took me by surprise from the intensity. He hinted that he had something to tell me and eventually said "we cannot control how we feel". I believe he loves me, too..and over after a year of near daily contact decided to get divorced and stop living a lie. He is still married and recently I tried to cut ties again, as we sincerely do not want anyone else to get hurt and I do not want to be the other woman and told him it is necesary if his intention is to stay married for his kids or whatever reason. He got EXTREMELY upset with me an accused me of slamming the door before he can say what he needs to, yes he still hasn't told me what that is. he knows I would marry him in a heartbeat if he was single and we could have a kind of relationship like in the movies.. but since I tried to cut ties lately he has been very emotionally distant and stopped flirting, and I feel disconnected. if only a couple weeks ago he was so upset with my trying to cut ties, then why is he now acting like I almost don't exist, when I am trying to allow him a chance to tell me when he's feeling? I feel like he is never going to tell me and maybe he is just prolonging things...??
