Attracted to Bad Boys

I seem to be attracted to bad boys because I find them exciting.I would like to hear from other Pisces ladies who have this personality 'flaw" lol

Oh, for sure they don't make reliable partners for a relationship with substance but,they are fun to hang out with.

They have that swagger (sex appeal) and usually they are good lovers but,alot of the appeal for me is the challenge

I fail to see what boredom has to do with liking a challenge.When someone is predictable...thats boring

Remember...I asked the question,does anyone else have that "personality flaw"? I'm not in denial.However,I'm doing me and make no apologies for it.I never said I sleep around.I said I'm attracted to a certain flavor of man.

Definition of a "Bad Boy"-The Gemini I'm curently dating,SHADY but,alot of fun!!

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Bad boys are usually pining for a surrogate mammy I've observed.

Believe me,I could not be mistaken for anyone's mammy.

thezone:I give up.You have totally missed the point.I'm not the only woman that likes them...Vivica fox,Sandra Bullock are examples.I doubt that their lives are boring...they just know what I know.(smile)

Posted by everevolvingepithet
So what this Gemini's brand of badness ?

My gem is true to himself. He's my idea of a REAL man.Not afraid to take a STAND on anything but he won't FALL FOR anything either.

thezone:I'm not going to get married ever AGAIN...Been there,done that.I enjoy my life being single

What I meant is he is not going to fall for the dumbs--t.He's not having it. You would have to know Gems are anything but predictable.lol

I meant ANYONE'S s--t.However,I had to learn that he says what he means and means what he says and no, I'm no player.

You can grow up as a "Bad Boy" and learn from it, become a stock broker, learn the corporate lingo, buy all of the people who you love and hurt in your bad boy past a house; then you're a bad boy in a suit. But, when it's time to roll on a mothafucka you can get down like that too. Yeah, I love being a Gemini.

*takes cover from the flying veggies* 😛

Posted by neptune0313
I seem to be attracted to bad boys because I find them exciting.I would like to hear from other Pisces ladies who have this personality 'flaw" lol

The flaw isn't in the attraction ... it's in the action.

Everybody finds it thrilling to do something forbidden, there's a certain exciting zing that races through your body when you have the desire to step outside of the boundaries ... and so it's common for all people to find themselves drawn to people who might make their life a little more fun, at times.

Nothing abnormal about that.

However, it is abnormal for people to act on it without further practical thought ... it's called having a conscience. An adult becomes aware of what is good for them to have a beneficial quality to their life, and their future ... if you aren't assessing this when making your decisions, then "yes" you are flawed. And it's not a personality flaw.

A personality has nothing to do with you making a bad decision ... which should be knowingly, since you should be analyzing your goals on a continual basis, for a correct life path.

VERY WELL SAID P-ANGEL.POINT TAKEN

Posted by neptune0313
Definition of a "Bad Boy"-The Gemini I'm curently dating,SHADY but,alot of fun!!

I wonder if that gemeni saw that you labeled yourselves "dating" how he would react.. lol jus sayin

well this 3rd dec pisces chick im in love with def loves bad boys... and she completely agrees that what she wants and what she needs doesnt coincide (in fact they are completely opposite). yes its def a flaw and itll never work because these, so called bad boys, change when they get captivated by you neptune seductresses and then it becomes boring again. so basically ull feel that nothing lasts.. and maybe it doesnt but when u find some1 stable who loves u but at the same time can challenge you and knows how to bring out all your emotions then just marry him... it doesnt get a lot better than that. or u could just fuck around till youre like 45 and then get settled after youve had your fun if you feel that ull die alone and you dont want that. or better yet, just have open relationships... but that wont work either because u also get really jealous. basically youre all damaged goods... still love you to bits though. 🙂

Posted by neptune0313
My gem is true to himself. He's my idea of a REAL man.Not afraid to take a STAND on anything but he won't FALL FOR anything either.

he's true to himself because hes selfish. he will always pick himself over u 90% of the time because after all, hes a gem. i dont hate them... its just that ive observed this time and again. its easy to be a jerk if youre selfish. and trust me as far as bad boys go, gems dont hold a candle to scorps, capri's, taurus' and all 3 fire signs.

Anybody that says that a person can be more bad than another based on a Sun sign is a muthafuckin RETARD. That kinda shit comes from environment and upbringing. So the nitwit that says can't hold candles to this and that is the king or Queen of all RETARDS. Dummy. People are so easily impressed with stupid criminal befavior, which most of the nimrods that were mentioned all share the same prisons. Wow! Only a dummy gets busted, a real mofo avoids the PoPo! A man in cuffs can't bring home the bacon, but I betcha he's in the joint slobbin on bob. HaHaHa!

*behavior 😉

Posted by GeminiMind
Anybody that says that a person can be more bad than another based on a Sun sign is a muthafuckin RETARD. That kinda shit comes from environment and upbringing. So the nitwit that says can't hold candles to this and that is the king or Queen of all RETARDS. Dummy. People are so easily impressed with stupid criminal befavior, which most of the nimrods that were mentioned all share the same prisons. Wow! Only a dummy gets busted, a real mofo avoids the PoPo! A man in cuffs can't bring home the bacon, but I betcha he's in the joint slobbin on bob. HaHaHa!

lol would it have been more sound if i had said "on average based on my observations"? because i thought that was assumed. and are u trying to say that no bad boys emerge from super good households and ppl with really caring parents? are u retarded? rebellious ppl actually spawn from not wanting to conform. youre truly a gem i must admit... being completely logical and dont understand that animal side of human behaviour... or maybe u do but youre arrogant enough to dismiss it because youre not like them. sure ppl are easily impressed with stupid criminal behavior and its also probably true that its not written in stone that some sun signs are more bad ass than other ones but im talking about tendencies. for instance, geminis will always point out when sum1 else is wrong and will do the most logical thing for themselves for the moment or until its convenient to be more self indulgent otherwise (which is a way of being extremely safe). and i would say that sagis are thrill seeker in general and will always try and do stupid shit when they can for a kick or excitement which automatically makes them badder dont u think? so if u dont believe that diff astrological signs have difference tendencies but u still believe in astrology (which im assuming u do because youre on this freggin board) then u must be the dumbest gem ive ever seen.

Posted by PeriThePiscesKing
This post is homosexual.

I'm a good guy but smash 'bad boys'.

I guess than makes me badder huh?

lol so true

Posted by pyewacket
My friends used to call me an asshole magnet. But I'm proud to say that I'm demagnetized. The Sag I was with was a bad boy turned good. When he got boring and serious, we broke up. So there is truth in what you are saying from my experience.

talking to me?

I was not talking about guys that are criminals and running from the popos!I'm referring to that certain swagger that "bad boys" have. They also are confident in their role being a man.

Everevolving why would they be looking for a 'mammy" if they are confident in their role as a man? Don't get it twisted,I'm sure there are men that don't have the "bad boy swagger" that are confident in their role also but, for me they just don't have the appeal.examples:Mark Wahlberg,Russell Crowe,and I'm sure they are nice guys but,they have IT.

I just prefer dominant strong men and that DOES NOT mean the ones that are physically or verbally abusive.

Mark Wahlberg and Russell Crowe are known wife-beaters.

By bad ... are you talking the ones that don't mind throwing you into a wall?

Go get me a beer, bitch *punch* .... if that's what you mean by 'IT' then you've been knocked upside the head too many times.

P-Angel:I'm not familiar with mark's or Russell's personal story but,I was talking about their "bad boy"swagger.and as for myself,I thought I made it clear that I would not be in a abusive relationship ever.My choice of men has nothing to do with my selfesteem.

Now...if I really was into the TRUE "bad boys"I would love to have one night with JaRule.lol

Look up the word SWAGGER in MERRIAM-WEBSTER'S DICTIONARY...the definition speaks for itself.I rest my case.

No, I don't get why a girl would want to be with a boy for show .... careful what you ask for.

There's a difference between a man who loves you and a man who uses love on you ... one day you will realize the difference, I hope for that day to be soon because as it stands now, it looks like you like to have your love used on play

P-Angel-Don't hate!I am by far nobody's fool...I'm getting what I want from my "bad boy".It is my opinion that a person that is getting what they want is happy.

another definition of swagger is self-confident:posh

My Gemini said hell yeah he is a bad boy !!

neptune0313 u seem really young

Posted by pyewacket

Yep. Sorry I wasn't clear. I pretty much agree with most of what you said.

okie, glad that sum1 was able to relate to what ive seen. at least it tells me that i made some sense. 🙂

There's a difference between a man who loves you and a man who uses love on you ... one day you will realize the difference, I hope for that day to be soon because as it stands now, it looks like you like to have your love used on play

That's ^^^^^^ not hating ... that's telling you that I hope for you to realize that you are liking for your love to be used.

And that ^^^^^ you are somebody's fool ... your own, by the sheer testimony of this thread