Scorpio boy leaving Pisces girl confused

This was reposted from Pisces forum to get more info...sorry if it's against the "rules"...

I'm new to dxp...anyway I am a Pisces female left emotionally distressed by a Scorpio male. He doesn't consider us as a couple even though he proclaimed several times the strong feelings and care he has for me. I'm not completely naive, of course, and have saved a large chunk of myself away, locked within the depths of my heart in case such a situation were to occur. But I am just wondering and bothered by this: why did he do such endearing tasks like picking me up from work, bringing me to the theater, and taking me home to chill and watch a movie if he didn't feel that close to me? I have no idea what he is feeling at all. And even though he has told me countless times I may ask anything of him and he will answer, it has left me pondering whether this was an act of endearment or he that truly does not care whether or not I know these things about him.

So far I am feeling myself emotionally distancing myself from this person. I'll also like to add to this post his tendency and seeming love of looking to the past, a trait that I scorn. This all doesn't sit well, especially after he hinted 2-3 times about a horrible past relationship of his.

Any answer and advice would be much appreciated, forum.

I am a scorpio female, and i was reading your post and what i can tell from what you wrote is that it sounds like he may be testing you. He wants to know if you are true to your feelings about him. He may have told you numerous times how he feels about you then act ice cold to you the next moment- this is a game. Stay true to yourself! the fact that he has brought up the past is he wants to know if you will do the same thing to him he wants your reassurance. If you love him don't hide it, he probably loves you more than you know! If he's been hurt before in the past than he is probably very guarded and will only open up if the person he wants to be with is in fact worthy of his love, you see scorpios are at heart just as sensitive as pisceans are if not more.

I picked up this article from http://www.compatible-astrology.com/scorpio-pisces.html
This helped me understand the differences/challenges that happens in a scorpio-pisces relationship:
This article is in two halves, the first is written from the viewpoint of the Scorpio man or Scorpio woman, and the second is written from the viewpoint of the Pisces man or Pisces woman.


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From the Scorpio viewpoint

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Your strength and protectiveness work perfectly with your Pisces vulnerable and selfless nature. They'll always put you first, and in return you'll stop others from taking advantage of them. You can both make each other feel totally secure (often no easy task for most other signs).

You're both exceedingly loyal and can be highly possessive. Often this is viewed as a negative thing, but in this combination it will help each of you feel secure and needed. This is a partner who you'll never suspect of trying to hurt you, and whose gentle nature will bring out the very best in you.

You will connect with this partner on a very deep and satisfying level, often knowing what each other are thinking or feeling at any given time. If you prefer emotional or financial control of a relationship this is a partner is likely to be very agreeable.

You both value privacy and will put each other ahead of all others, you both tend to be spiritual, romantic and sometimes emotionally needy. You'll both recognize those times and be there for each other.

This is tied with Cancer as your best match, though in many ways it's an even more co

complimentary combination. The one potential warning here though is not to underestimate your Pisces dislike of confrontation and arguments. They are very loyal, to the point of giving their all to a relationship, but if pushed over that edge they can 'give up' and leave.

Pisces is somewhat notorious for just 'walking out and never coming back' if they're unhappy for long enough. While it may surprise and confuse a less intuitive partner, you'll have plenty of warning.

Don't be stubborn with this partner, remind yourself of all the ways they bend to you. Unleash your fury on the rest of the world, and skip them. It's very likely they're too good to push away with petty bickering. Nurture and protect them, as only Scorpio can.

In summary, this is one of those perfect combinations which is very likely to make others jealous!

From the Pisces viewpoint

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Pisces and Scorpio Compatibility

This is one of those perfect combinations which can make others jealous (we won't tell anyone else about this page!) You'll connect with this partner on a very deep and satisfying level, often knowing what each other are thinking or feeling at any given time.

Scorpio aren't often portrayed as leaders, but the reality is they're more than capable of taking the lead if they choose to. In the case of your relationship you're likely to often appreciate your partners incredible inner strength - they can handle anything life throws at them - especially when they have a caring partner such as you beside them.

Scorpio is a supremely devoted and protective partner, exactly what you need. Don't be surprised however if your partner will do anything to stop others taking advantage of you. See this for what it is - how they show they care - protectiveness rather than meanness.

You're by far the more flexible partner in this relationship. Your Scorpios stubbornness is an element of how strong their character is, so even if you don't always like this facet of it, remember it's a necessary part of the package which overall has numerous positives which you'll no doubt come to love and admire.

This is a very intense partner, who can occasionally be moody and even somewhat paranoid. You're one of the few people with the intuition and patience to get them to open up when hurt or annoyed. Use that gift well, and this partner will soon realize you deserve their trust and will more than repay it.

You can both be possessive, and both are more than capable of understanding that possessiveness and gaining security from it, rather than taking offence.

You both can be highly romantic, value privacy, and don't have a problem putting each other ahead of all others. It's likely you'll both be fairly spiritual people.

To others you each may have an air of mystery about you, though within the relationship neither of you may notice it. If you have mutual friends they may eventually comment on this however.

Pisces Scorpio sex
A perfect combination, and one of the most intense in the zodiac. You want a soulmate, and your Scorpio will meet all your needs, including a desire to possess you totally.

No words are going to do justice to the level of emotional connection or satisfaction you can have with this partner.

Posted by seavixen2
NICE!!!

Thank you, as you have seen in my posts I greatly admire pisceans...i was lucky enough to have found one that fell for me too 😄