librasunone
@librasunone
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scorpio ex boyfriend
LOL, I looked up the song for you. Uh, sounds like he regrets breaking up with you and feels like he belongs with you. Do what you want with that info, he is a scorpio.. he will do this back and forth game..
oh, you looked up the lyrics and you interpret it to mean that he should get back to me? that song to me is just as confusing as he always was to me, never could figure him out.
how do you interpret the lyrics to mean that, i think i take things literally, so i don't understand some of the lyrics
how do you interpret the lyrics to mean that, i think i take things literally, so i don't understand some of the lyrics
what do you mean gemini with libra?
well, so you are both saying that he is sorry he broke up with me and wants me back, is that it? if that is the case, i certainly don't think that i should contact me though
yeah, the beatles are good
what does, 'lorreta thought that she was a woman, but she was another man' mean?
and who should get back, him or me?? still confused
well, so you are both saying that he is sorry he broke up with me and wants me back, is that it? if that is the case, i certainly don't think that i should contact me though
yeah, the beatles are good
what does, 'lorreta thought that she was a woman, but she was another man' mean?
and who should get back, him or me?? still confused
i mean, i shouldn't contact him
Even if everybody's interpretation of the song is wrong, the point is that this guy STILL reaching out to you after all this time is a clear indication that if he doesn't want you back, he ATLEAST still needs/requires your attention.
WHY he needs your attention is something only he knows. WHAT he plans to do with your attention persay you were to ever give it to him, is something only he knows too.
Him still contacting you period (bump the fact that he sent you a song) shows that he still feels that he has unfinished business with you. Now whether or not his intentions are actually good/bad is another story & once again, only something HE knows.
He probably felt that sending the video would catch you off guard & finally get your attention. He knew that you'd consider the video to be "out of the norm" for the average guy to do, thus he probably assumed that completely catching you off guard would be the best bet in getting you to finally respond to him. He knew that you'd be at home over-analyzing the hell out of the video, thus only to make you being so curious lead to you finally giving in & talking to him.
If you're truly done, what he meant by sending that video won't/shouldn't matter.
And if you're only willing to talk to him or give him the time of day again on the basis that he fix whatever it was that got you 2 broken up in the 1st place, then make sure that if you go back it's strictly b/c of him vowing to do things a little differently this time vs. all b/c he sent you some video
WHY he needs your attention is something only he knows. WHAT he plans to do with your attention persay you were to ever give it to him, is something only he knows too.
Him still contacting you period (bump the fact that he sent you a song) shows that he still feels that he has unfinished business with you. Now whether or not his intentions are actually good/bad is another story & once again, only something HE knows.
He probably felt that sending the video would catch you off guard & finally get your attention. He knew that you'd consider the video to be "out of the norm" for the average guy to do, thus he probably assumed that completely catching you off guard would be the best bet in getting you to finally respond to him. He knew that you'd be at home over-analyzing the hell out of the video, thus only to make you being so curious lead to you finally giving in & talking to him.
If you're truly done, what he meant by sending that video won't/shouldn't matter.
And if you're only willing to talk to him or give him the time of day again on the basis that he fix whatever it was that got you 2 broken up in the 1st place, then make sure that if you go back it's strictly b/c of him vowing to do things a little differently this time vs. all b/c he sent you some video
Take everything KOL says with a grain of salt. 😉
Jojo was a man who thought he was a loner
Your bf thought he could make it alone.
But he knew it couldn't last
But he was wrong.
For some California grass
He thought he had something better than you.
Jojo left his home in Tucson, Arizona
He left his 'home', you.
Get back to where you once belonged
Get back, Jojo
Go home
He's telling himself he should go back with you.
I don't entirely understand the Loretta part. Maybe a little jab at something you did?
Get back to where you once belonged
Get back, Loretta
Go home
This sounds like dominant scorpio telling you to go back to him.
That's my interpretation.
Jojo was a man who thought he was a loner
Your bf thought he could make it alone.
But he knew it couldn't last
But he was wrong.
For some California grass
He thought he had something better than you.
Jojo left his home in Tucson, Arizona
He left his 'home', you.
Get back to where you once belonged
Get back, Jojo
Go home
He's telling himself he should go back with you.
I don't entirely understand the Loretta part. Maybe a little jab at something you did?
Get back to where you once belonged
Get back, Loretta
Go home
This sounds like dominant scorpio telling you to go back to him.
That's my interpretation.
*dances away with the salt* Come 'n git me.
Posted by iceprincess
keep ignoring him
That's what I'd do. But yeah, just interpolating what he's trying to say for her. He doesn't sound like he's worth giving in to. Typical scorpio mind games are in the future if she does.
thanks for interpretations, probably sounds like he is sorry and wants to get back, I suppose
I have still ignored and will unless a lot more than a video is sent, that is an easy thing to do
this time away from him and not communicating has been very cleansing for me and unless he has only the best and more to offer me, I won't be responding.
It is somehow feeling sincere and real to me, but lots of changes would have to have happened for me to consider anything with him again
thanks guys for input!!
I have still ignored and will unless a lot more than a video is sent, that is an easy thing to do
this time away from him and not communicating has been very cleansing for me and unless he has only the best and more to offer me, I won't be responding.
It is somehow feeling sincere and real to me, but lots of changes would have to have happened for me to consider anything with him again
thanks guys for input!!
on saturday, i went to the health club, and all of the sudden he was right next to me talking to me. First time that I have talked to him in over four months. he wanted to walk on the track and talk, he said he was worried that he hadnt talked to me, that he is not seeing that girl anymore, why didn't i call him to talk about things, well, anyway, he said a lot of things.
he asked me to dinner and i said ok and we ended up going out for dinner on saturday, and I just got home a little while ago. he opened up about quite a few things and didn't want me to go home over the weekend. anyway, just letting you know the follow up.
Im not sure what to make of it, but I am just pretty much taking it with a grain of salt, unless he continued to pursue things, i suppose.
anyway, any insights now?? 🙂
he asked me to dinner and i said ok and we ended up going out for dinner on saturday, and I just got home a little while ago. he opened up about quite a few things and didn't want me to go home over the weekend. anyway, just letting you know the follow up.
Im not sure what to make of it, but I am just pretty much taking it with a grain of salt, unless he continued to pursue things, i suppose.
anyway, any insights now?? 🙂
Well everyones different, I still date my scorp ex and we broke up 2 months ago. I stay over at his place 4 times a week. Still hang out with his mom too.
Does this mean we are going to get back together? No.
To me I just see it as codependency.
I think we are both sick people.
Does this mean we are going to get back together? No.
To me I just see it as codependency.
I think we are both sick people.
well, i think that we are back together on his terms, because well everything has to be on their terms to feel secure. so, i think that the fact that he found me, we spent a few days talking, etc., he feels that he hasn't lost me, (that is the best way to explain it i suppose)(.
i don't feel sick! there are so many kinds of ways to have a relationship,but anyway, not sure what I am saying here, but I feel glad that he sought me out and we are talking and seeing each other again.
i don't feel sick! there are so many kinds of ways to have a relationship,but anyway, not sure what I am saying here, but I feel glad that he sought me out and we are talking and seeing each other again.
Posted by librasunone
well, i think that we are back together on his terms, because well everything has to be on their terms to feel secure. so, i think that the fact that he found me, we spent a few days talking, etc., he feels that he hasn't lost me, (that is the best way to explain it i suppose)(.
i don't feel sick! there are so many kinds of ways to have a relationship,but anyway, not sure what I am saying here, but I feel glad that he sought me out and we are talking and seeing each other again.
This is what I love about libras. You guys always know what others wants and needs are. And you try to go by them. People think you don't know whats gonna on but you do. You always do. Your like sags in that way. You just make em think otherwise.
well, two weeks later, we had a huge blowup. he can be so difficult and so loving. when he is difficult, it is the worst and I dont deal with it well sometimes, I can get very emotional myself and let out a whole tirade of things because he will just not try to calm me down at all when I am like that and feeling insecure.
after all my soothing him and trying to reassure him, he just either cannot or will not do the same for me. it becomes so frustrating.
after an episode like this, there is no reasoning with him at all, and then this frustrates me terribly. well, i suppose that if he cares about me enough, he will come back around again and try harder to please me when I require it also, or he will not. this will show me how much he really cares, i suppose.
after all my soothing him and trying to reassure him, he just either cannot or will not do the same for me. it becomes so frustrating.
after an episode like this, there is no reasoning with him at all, and then this frustrates me terribly. well, i suppose that if he cares about me enough, he will come back around again and try harder to please me when I require it also, or he will not. this will show me how much he really cares, i suppose.
Posted by librasunone
well, two weeks later, we had a huge blowup. he can be so difficult and so loving. when he is difficult, it is the worst and I dont deal with it well sometimes, I can get very emotional myself and let out a whole tirade of things because he will just not try to calm me down at all when I am like that and feeling insecure.
after all my soothing him and trying to reassure him, he just either cannot or will not do the same for me. it becomes so frustrating.
after an episode like this, there is no reasoning with him at all, and then this frustrates me terribly. well, i suppose that if he cares about me enough, he will come back around again and try harder to please me when I require it also, or he will not. this will show me how much he really cares, i suppose.
I hope the huge blowup was about a HUGE issue...
he finally told me what it was, that we after he took me out to dinner and we ended up back at his place, things (you can imagine what) didn't go as he planned, and he started acting like rude, etc. and then started not calling as much, etc.
no matter how much i tried to smooth things over, i couldn't until i finally said ok, ill just keep moving along, then he told me that physically it didn't work out like he wanted that night and he wanted it too and keep it 'not heavy' at the same time. doesn't work that way with me, and i don't believe him anyway, because even though he says that, he keeps coming back around.
no matter how much i tried to smooth things over, i couldn't until i finally said ok, ill just keep moving along, then he told me that physically it didn't work out like he wanted that night and he wanted it too and keep it 'not heavy' at the same time. doesn't work that way with me, and i don't believe him anyway, because even though he says that, he keeps coming back around.
i guess that was HUGE for him, since he is a man and a scorpio, but it is HUGE to me when I give myself and am then required to 'keep it light'. he can keep right on walking. he didn't get what he wanted and i didn't either, even if he would have gotten what he wanted, i would be feeling very frustrated knowing that he would be telling me to 'keep it light'.
I find it absolutely hilarious that if a Scorpio tries to get back with an ex by attempting to speak to them that he is playing mind games but not one seems perceive the same about other signs. It just goes to show how ignorant people are, every time I tell my Aries ex to leave me alone and not speak to me she contacts me hoping to remain friends? is she playing mind games based on many opinions on this website; the ignoramus would say so, I say not.
It is a perfectly human emotion to miss someone whom you shared an intimate connection with, and want them back. Just because he is a Scorpio DOES NOT MEAN HE IS PLAYING MIND GAMES. He simply misses you and wants to get back together there is no mind games about it, don't listen to people on this website as they have never even met the man in real life therefore to develop an opinion on him is purely asinine.
Take what the people on this website say, with a grain of salt and listen to your inner self. What do you really think he is trying to accomplish? I doubt he is playing mind games, it is a common human perception to assume the worst of people and not the best so stop listening to these jack off's.
It is a perfectly human emotion to miss someone whom you shared an intimate connection with, and want them back. Just because he is a Scorpio DOES NOT MEAN HE IS PLAYING MIND GAMES. He simply misses you and wants to get back together there is no mind games about it, don't listen to people on this website as they have never even met the man in real life therefore to develop an opinion on him is purely asinine.
Take what the people on this website say, with a grain of salt and listen to your inner self. What do you really think he is trying to accomplish? I doubt he is playing mind games, it is a common human perception to assume the worst of people and not the best so stop listening to these jack off's.
king, i do agree with you for sure. it is just that it is so confusing with him. he keeps wanting to keep things 'light', and that is difficult for me to do. by him wanting to keep it 'light', i think he means 'casual', which i cannot do. what i really feel is that, he too, would like more, but is not quite sure how to accomplish it and therefore, it ends in a mass confusion. so, i suppose, if/when he contacts me (it has been a week already), i will keep it 'light' and just continue to keep moving along, and date others if it feels right. it has been ongoing like this for seven years now, so needless to say, it is quite frustrating.
Posted by librasunone
king, i do agree with you for sure. it is just that it is so confusing with him. he keeps wanting to keep things 'light', and that is difficult for me to do. by him wanting to keep it 'light', i think he means 'casual', which i cannot do. what i really feel is that, he too, would like more, but is not quite sure how to accomplish it and therefore, it ends in a mass confusion. so, i suppose, if/when he contacts me (it has been a week already), i will keep it 'light' and just continue to keep moving along, and date others if it feels right. it has been ongoing like this for seven years now, so needless to say, it is quite frustrating.
Librasunone, you have been with this man for seven years. You probably don't even need advice from this website to know this guy. 🙂
Do you think he will change? Maybe. But he's not the one that's going to change because you keep giving his unchanged-self a chance. IMHO, YOU need to change. After seven years and he is unable or unwilling to meet your needs (since it seems all the while you've been meeting his or else all hell breaks loose)? Is that what makes you happy?
And they DO play head games. It's too irresistible to not do it when they know they can.
Miss you? Yeah, I think so, but for what reasons? Look how quickly you both got into an argument, all because you wouldn't sleep with him on his terms? What a whiner...
still have not heard a peep from him, who knows what is really going on here? i bared my soul to him, AGAIN, and he kept telling me that he wanted to be 'friends', along with telling me that he didn't want a relationship, no commitment, that he was going to start dating. when i heard his phone ring at 5:00 am and asked who is that, he said it wasn't my concern.
so, even though he tracked me down after four months of no contact, took me to dinner, told me that i am beautiful, was playing the song 'i've got a crush on you' on his radio when he picked me up, told me that he is not like my exes, that he is different, asked if i wanted to rent a house with him, told me that he was 'consumed' with thinking of me all that time, etc., etc., etc.,, he also said all of the above and more
talk about hot and cold for seven long years
oh, forgot to mention that from last november until this past september he was dating someone and told me that he has moved on and that i should also, but kept contacting me as a friend, even though i requested that he not do that, as it was too difficult for me.
so, now he tracks me down, dredges up all my feelings for him again, only to confuse the hell out of me and disappear again.
if anyone can make any sense of this, please let me know, because i am on the inside looking out and cannot figure it out at all.
No negativity please, just honest to goodness what does all of this mean—??
so, even though he tracked me down after four months of no contact, took me to dinner, told me that i am beautiful, was playing the song 'i've got a crush on you' on his radio when he picked me up, told me that he is not like my exes, that he is different, asked if i wanted to rent a house with him, told me that he was 'consumed' with thinking of me all that time, etc., etc., etc.,, he also said all of the above and more
talk about hot and cold for seven long years
oh, forgot to mention that from last november until this past september he was dating someone and told me that he has moved on and that i should also, but kept contacting me as a friend, even though i requested that he not do that, as it was too difficult for me.
so, now he tracks me down, dredges up all my feelings for him again, only to confuse the hell out of me and disappear again.
if anyone can make any sense of this, please let me know, because i am on the inside looking out and cannot figure it out at all.
No negativity please, just honest to goodness what does all of this mean—??
^^^ head games.
He didn't get what he wanted, Libra. Honest to goodness.
He didn't get what he wanted, Libra. Honest to goodness.
so, you think that is all that he wanted, was to be intimate? there are plenty of other girls/women around, why bother?
n:Posted by librasunone
so, you think that is all that he wanted, was to be intimate? there are plenty of other girls/women around, why bother?
Now this may hurt your ego, but I'm basing my response to your previous post about wanting "honest to goodness answers, no negativity" with what You said He said to you.
His answer to your question:Posted by librasunone
he finally told me what it was, that we after he took me out to dinner and we ended up back at his place, things (you can imagine what) didn't go as he planned, and he started acting like rude, etc. and then started not calling as much, etc.
no matter how much i tried to smooth things over, i couldn't until i finally said ok, ill just keep moving along, then he told me that physically it didn't work out like he wanted that night and he wanted it tooand keep it 'not heavy' at the same time . doesn't work that way with me, and i don't believe him anyway, because even though he says that, he keeps coming back around.click to expand
Looks like he was very direct about what he wanted. It doesn't sound like "intimacy", as your pride put it, it sounds like he wanted to have sex. Why not have it with you?
Libra, you are just too nice to this guy, and I hope my bluntness helps you put him in his place -- OUT YOUR DOOR. Some men are downright disrespectful and instead of you being "nice", you need to hit him with the same level of insult you feel. Then ignore him to high heaven. You don't need his kind of attention anyway.
Posted by King_with_a_Sting
It is a perfectly human emotion to miss someone whom you shared an intimate connection with, and want them back. Just because he is a Scorpio DOES NOT MEAN HE IS PLAYING MIND GAMES. He simply misses you and wants to get back together there is no mind games about it, don't listen to people on this website as they have never even met the man in real life therefore to develop an opinion on him is purely asinine.
Yes not everyone is the same and all people at some point play "mind games".
My scorpio ex plays mind games when playing mind games. When I ask a question I usually get something short and avoids answering a basic question about why are the seats taken out of the car or whatever. If I request over and over to just be straight with me at the start, so I don't go all WTF later, I get the same secretive behavior and my thoughts about this behavior is distrust, anger, etc etc.
Do other people flake out or do stuff that makes me distrust them or feel like I am being misled to suit the other person's needs? HELL YES. My Leo gal friend fucked me over this week so she could be a total selfish sh!thead, and did she try to lie to me, yes, did I see right through it, of course, but she is so stupid and doesn't know how horribly unreliable we all take her for anyway. I guess she is good at the mind games, but that isn't her 24/7 deal. Outside of responsibilities and just chilling, there isn't any mess like that.
So what I would like to say, is that we all say something to avoid saying what is really on our mind at times, usually with someone we don't exactly feel they are responsible with something, but when I go into a relationship I don't play mind games, and when I am committed to someone I am straightforward and honest.
Scorpios do need their own space, some things that don't have anything to do with both people are good left un-talked about, doesn't bother me.
But ask your Scorpio you are in a relationship with, you might find things that don't connect and you might then say something or do something to say this is how I am going to behave to counter all that, like be real quiet, or be quick with your answers right back, or avoid them.
The poster is talking about an ex-Scorpio that is trying to get in touch with the person and sending subtle messages, that isn't really mind games. The taking out the sexual dis-pleasure on
im tending to agree with king, oldschool and heroic here, all the boys, they are definitely more positive, sorry girls!
This is just all so ridiculous, i just wish he hadn'looked me up, he is way too frustarting. I had just texted him, good morning stranger, would you like to accompany me for a drink perhaps? and followed up with a call and no answer. The last time I heard from him was when he answered my text during the week when I texted him that I hoped that he was happy, healthy, doing wonderful, etc. (this year I had two close relatives pass away and was feeling sad and that life is too short and I wanted to let him know that I was thinking of him and wishing him well). He texted me back and said that I sounded upbeat and to stay that way. later at night, he sent me a good night text which was nice.
he totally frustrates me to no end.
yeah, he just called and said that he can't because he is going out with some friends. he is leaving for vacation next sunday for three weeks, so i am majorly frustrated with him. wish that he would have just left me alone.
he totally frustrates me to no end.
yeah, he just called and said that he can't because he is going out with some friends. he is leaving for vacation next sunday for three weeks, so i am majorly frustrated with him. wish that he would have just left me alone.
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