Scorpio exes are dicks

Posted by FrostAndBite
She made it obvious she didn't want you around or in her life.
So you try three times in less than two weeks to be in her life.

After which, she plainly tells you she doesn't want to hear from you and she can't be of any support.
So you get mad she won't listen to you or support you.

Then your birthday rolls around, and you get angry she doesn't acknowledge it.
After she already made it obvious she didn't want you around or in her life.

So we have come full circle.

Posted by elllesque
we aren't very good friends where exes are involved.

some of us can't be friends with exes at all. at least the way most need us to. emotional support is a big deal for me in a relationship (even more than sex).....I just hand that out to everyone and it loses it's value.

friends catch up with each other once in awhile and it's usually casual. you can't expect much more than that on a friend level. I don't even return text messages to most of my friends and they know to expect this.

give her the space she needs to disconnect and then maybe she'll come back around. maybe she won't. either way, it's not going to be on your terms.

anywhooo, what the hell is "casual exclusive"?......and if you were moving and knew it in advance.....why pursue the relationship?

Posted by Imarollin
So.... You didn't take the lead, control the when and where's or dictate how your time spent would be best done?

If you're a sag woman, I know you wanted to.

When you reached out after (what you specifically counted out as 12 days) you stated a crisis like, "my brother was in an accident" ... And before I get stoned... That shit is cheap and you know it.if I'm right, You wanted attention and despite your destitude you reached out in a moment if weakness which is what you despise and what you feel like right now.

s to do with her "incapacity" to be friend and more to do with you not understanding a few things:

Posted by wanderlust93
she tells me she doesn't like me, gives me the impression she doesn't want to be my friend so I go with that, but afterwards I'm like this is stupid we should be friends. Five days later I message her,

1) what part of "I don't like you" gave a mere impression she didn't what to be friends? She was more than clear she wasn't interested anymore. You decided that you "should" be despite her wishes to keep it moving. You pushed a situation where all signs said stop based on your own agenda.

2) Not everyone sees the end of relationship from your pov. Most Scorps are not interested in being besties with an ex. Especially an ex (from what I'm seeing) didn't really like you. There was no backfire when you asked to be more serious. She wasn't interested and wanted to keep it casual (exclusive 😕 what the many f*cks does that mean?). As soon as you moved into 5th gear she did what most Scorps would do, cut that sh*t off at the knees to avoid any confusion.

Posted by wanderlust93
... I get you text me too much you need to stop, I don't have feelings for you, you're creeping me out, I can't provide the emotional support you need etc. I was under the assumption that we would be friends but apparently that's seems to be impossible! She's manipulated the situation to make me out as some needy possessive ex to justify her incapacity at being friends!

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You were under the "assumption" you woukd be friends based on what exactly? The brief convos you initiated or the belief that you "should" be friends?

Your perspective is quite skewed.

Posted by elllesque
when you start a relationship with a scorpio that is how it will end. you start casual, you end casual.

if she couldn't take you seriously and it was only temporary then she prepared herself before the breakup even happened....