Scorpio female can't over Mr Pisces

I am so desperate to forget about this man, I don't know what to do at this point.


I met Mr Pisces a year ago on a dating website. We hit it off right away. Actually, I remember feeling a connection from before he and I started talking. He's the one who messaged me first. We talked non-stop for about a month. Then we met in real life. It was great. He asked me out on a date. He never followed through with it and cancelled on me 3 times. It fizzled out, we stopped talking.

Fast forward, he sent me a message on Valentine's Day to apologize and asked for a second shot. We started talking again and it felt as though no time had passed. I usually do hold grudges, but I didn't with him. We went on two dates which both lasted an entire day! The physical attraction was amazing, I had never experienced such intensity. We couldn't get enough of each other. Unfortunately, he had ulterior motives as I declined sex on date #2 and he pulled away afterwards. He ignored every single one of my texts (including the one meant to wish him a happy birthday).

About a month after our last date, I found out he had lost his job and moved back to the Canada. I know now it's over but it's been a year since I met him and I think of him as much as I did last year. Sure, he was a j*rk to me, but it seems I can't get over him. It's not that I can't get over his physical appearance or brains, there's just something I can't describe. It has nothing to do with his appearance or brains because I barely remember his face/conversations. It's more of an internal feeling that prevents me from letting go, rather than actual reasons.

I don't know what to do. I've been hooked on this man for the past year. It had never happened to me before. As a Gemini Mooner here, I usually move on pretty easily after a couple of weeks. However, I'm still stuck with the same feelings I had last year. It's driving me insane as I have no clue what to do. I've tried dating other guys and it didn't work because I'd come back home sad wishing he was the one I went out with. I feel so stupid and insane, it makes zero sense to me.

What's wrong with me?

Posted by Whatu
Because something was meant to happen but it didn't happen, If you had taken a chance with him and found out it was not worth it then you could have moved on but you are still in the what if stage because neither of you jumped off the edge. I know that feeling of attraction with a Pisces, Everything is normal adn your going about the day then suddenly you see her and its like holy fuck I forgot how I even felt 5 minutes ago!

Yeah. Unfortunately, I kept chasing but since he ignored me after our last date, I feel as though I tried everything in my power. When the person on the receiving end isn't being receptive at all, there isn't much one can do.

I wish I hadn't met him. This feeling of liking a ghost is disturbing.

We tend to have a hypnotic impact on some people.

My advice to you is to contact him, and ask him how he feels about you.

No need to put your feelings out there first, but you should definitely ask him how he feels about being in your life.

Posted by ScorpioFish
We tend to have a hypnotic impact on some people.

My advice to you is to contact him, and ask him how he feels about you.

No need to put your feelings out there first, but you should definitely ask him how he feels about being in your life.

I tried contacting him about a month before he went back to Canada and he never responded. I haven't heard from him since our last date back in March. It's pretty clear he wants nothing to do with me, despite the fact that I haven't done anything to offend him in any way. He knew from the very start that I had a thing for him.

Posted by LostinPhilly

Posted by ScorpioFish
We tend to have a hypnotic impact on some people.

My advice to you is to contact him, and ask him how he feels about you.

No need to put your feelings out there first, but you should definitely ask him how he feels about being in your life.

I tried contacting him about a month before he went back to Canada and he never responded. I haven't heard from him since our last date back in March. It's pretty clear he wants nothing to do with me, despite the fact that I haven't done anything to offend him in any way. He knew from the very start that I had a thing for him.

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Okay, then let a few more weeks go by and contact him one last time.

Make clear that you would like to speak to him, and keep in touch.

If he doesn't respond at all, then it's unfortunately just time to get on with your life.

Is he on Facebook and Snapchat with you, or are you guys not connected on social media?

It hurts, I'm sorry you're going through this. The Pisces/Scorpio thing is incredibly deep.

I don't think anything is wrong with you besides wishful thinking (a little na??veness) and trying to see the best in bad situations but as someone who has been in this situation before I will echo the ulterior motives feeling you have deep in your gut. This guy is clearly after one thing and one thing only by the way you've described the situation, no doubt. I think it makes perfect sense to you as you already said it, but don't want to believe it. Chin up! Too bad you can't have this guy around purely for physical satisfaction. It's a shame to throw away stellar chemistry. I would say that this guy doesn't even deserve that though, with the way he's treating you. If he shows up again, use your past knowledge to guide your decisions. Nothing else. Keep your emotions out of it.

Also, what the heck is it with us always crashing and burning with pisces?! At least with me, the relationships always turn out fabulously (almost too good) but are smoldering piles of ash by the end. Try to avoid that internal feeling you described. It's biological animalism at its finest and will make you ignorant to reality.