Best Match for Scorpio Woman

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by beggarsblanket on Tuesday, January 7, 2014 and has 24 replies.

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@Gw3n514
12 Years

To Be Honest it depends from the individuals but my personal Experiences as a Pisces would be with a Water sign.Scorpio females even tho they look strong and invincble have a huge emotional need i dont think the fire/earth/air signs would handle it.Our advantage is we can read their inner self better n just get along perfectly ...... Guess it helped u ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜†.

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@scorpgal76
12 Years

I hate that part too Impulsv!!! Wish I could figure out how to reign it in/tone it down some!!! I'm at least pretty good (I think) at holding back & keeping it to myself, but it's still there....just smothering me instead of my hearts desire lol

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@MoonArtist
12 Years10,000+ Posts

Maybe you guys just FEEL that you care more. I know my dear scorpio friend has said that I scare him and when I asked why he said "because you have the power to utterly destroy me". ~melty heart sob~ My answer and thought was NOOOOOOOO!!!! First of all, I don't ever want to do that and secondly I think it's an equal amount of being able to destroy the other and that's what you give/get when you have enough love/trust in someone that you let them know that much of yourself.

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@scorpgal76
12 Years

I don't disagree....it's just the part where you don't know the depth of his feelings and/or if he's capable/willing to return those feelings & can he handle the depth of my feelings, or will it scare him away?? I can't unleash all that until I know, or at least pretty certain. And no matter how hard I try to pace myself, it doesn't work....I don't know how to do halfway....I always give everything 1000% ....not just relationships.

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@MoonArtist
12 Years10,000+ Posts

I guess that's the difference between Cancer and Scorpio despite being water. I tend to feel it all and give it all without waiting or thinking too long on it. I guess there's a bit of impulsiveness in being a Cardinal water sign.

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@scorpgal76
12 Years

I'm working towards being more open/free with feelings & trusting my intuition. As I said in another thread....I am a work in progress lol. But I am getting there ๐Ÿ™‚

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@FixedWater
12 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

This is a great thread. Scorpgal76 and impulsv, your posts were nice to read. I feel a lot like this. I keep bringing myself back to the basic "If its meant to be, it will be". Sometimes that works for me, but inside I'm like 'no you shouldn't say that to him' or 'he's never gonna text me again after that one' Lmao

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@scorpgal76
12 Years

@Fixedwater:

Lol I have had those same exact thoughts after saying or texting smtg!!! But as I said, I have been trying to just go with it & amazingly enough he has called me again even after such revelations lol. I just worry that at some point something will be too much. I feel like he is holding back too & I'm hoping at some point soon the walls will come down. I know mine will when I sense he is ready.

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@FixedWater
12 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

IrresistableScorp, I think I need to make you my mentor. ๐Ÿ™‚ Embracing who I am and all that intensity has been so difficult ! It has been under such tight lock and key for so many years.

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@FixedWater
12 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

scorpgal76 , this is exactly where I'm at with mine. He opens up a little then 'goes under' then opens up a little more ... Etc. I need to give him his time and just enjoy the moments I have with him. He and I think so much alike its uncanny, and makes it hard to hide from each other to assess things. My old die hard reaction threatens to overwhelm me tho and punt (its a crude way of putting it, I apologize) him to the curb. Not because I don't care, but because I care too much.

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@Gw3n514
12 Years

All Scorps are different in their meaner i dont think theres a specific way to attracts them.Women in general love attention n proving that u care for em.If ur scorpio btch care shell let u in her world.

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@ShakenNotStirred
13 Years

Cancer Man & Scorpio Woman do very well - seems to be an Easy Match.

Pisces, Capricorn, and Virgo Men are runner's up, from what I've seen in R/L.