Scorpio got jealous

I don't handle guys being jealous too easily so I need help on how to "soothe" my scorpio.

I have this ridiculous cartoon picture up on facebook. Scorpio comments on it, along with some other people, one of which happens to be my ex leo who I haven't talked to since I told him I couldn't date him.

Scorpio knows about the leo because he's asked and I don't like to keep things from him because he finds out eventually. It's just better if I tell the truth. Anyways, he sees this comment from the leo and texts me about it..calling him my bf. I've never seen him get this way. He wasn't rude about it, but it did take me off guard cus I thought he was more confident/mature than this.

I understand where he's coming from tho. I told him I haven't talked to the leo since I told him I wasn't gonna date him and that I don't even have his number in my phone.

Soooo how do I console him? How do I make him feel assured that he doesn't need to be jealous?

Posted by DominOo
People get all jittery from past relations? Lol.

I wouldn't care. I'd just go on amongst my business. That's childish; don't even react to that crap. Eventually he'd grow up and understand that people have past relationships and by no means can he tell you who you can talk to. Even if you had his number and talked to this Leo daily.

"He needs to grow up or find a different pussy." If I was you, that's what I'd say.

I've talked to him about it before because he's seen other pictures of my ex on facebook. I explained to him that I had a life before him. Call me weird, but I like to keep old pictures because I treasure times I've had with these people. Some of which I'm still good friends with.

At the same time I know I would be offended, though I wouldn't react in the same way. So I am willing to work with him as long as his jealousy doesn't get out of hand. So far it hasn't been anything bad. Just silent sulking

Posted by sexifulscorpio
oh and ALSO.. scorpios never forget and are vengeful... thats a fact... i will admit, most wont...

Agreed. I'm not the type to just delete someone from fb unless there is a real problem. If it becomes one, honestly it isn't the leos fault. I've known him for years and we have mutual friends together. I'd like to keep him as a friend when he does move past the fact that I don't want to date him again. It's something we've agreed upon. Deleting him would signal that I don't value him as a person.
On the other hand I don't want to cause problems with this scorpio...I just don't like the idea of someone getting so jealous that I have to delete someone else off my facebook. It just seems so childish to me. It's a networking site, not a dating site. It's not like I contact him on a daily basis.

I'm going to talk to the scorpio about it tho. We've only been seeing each other for over a month, but I really like him. I can be accommodating, but only within reason. We'll see where this goes

Why is it your *job* to make him feel anything? His insecurity is his problem, which can only be solved internally. You have said it once that the leo is no one of intimate interest. You've done it. Placating insecure people will cause you to work full time at being at his mercy. Ugh. he needs maturity and security.

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oh and ALSO.. scorpios never forget and are vengeful... thats a fact... i will admit, most wont...

Yeah, it's also ridiculously immature too. I'm dealing with a scorp that isn't like that.

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Exactly...I felt like I was getting that with this scorpio until this happened.

I texted him about it and he said he wasn't offended and he's okay, but some part of me can't help but think his aqua moon is making him detach emotionally from the situation. I really don't wanna deal with this later x.x

Posted by BigGirlPanties
Why is it your *job* to make him feel anything? His insecurity is his problem, which can only be solved internally. You have said it once that the leo is no one of intimate interest. You've done it. Placating insecure people will cause you to work full time at being at his mercy. Ugh. he needs maturity and security.

Exactly how I felt about the situation. He's handling it fine now...though it's hard to tell via text. I'll have to pry later

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Posted by BigGirlPanties
Why is it your *job* to make him feel anything? His insecurity is his problem, which can only be solved internally. You have said it once that the leo is no one of intimate interest. You've done it. Placating insecure people will cause you to work full time at being at his mercy. Ugh. he needs maturity and security.

Exactly how I felt about the situation. He's handling it fine now...though it's hard to tell via text. I'll have to pry later

water signs are sensative, not so much insecure.... we deal with our emotions by detaching... if you let him detach, its over... reel him in if you want by just deleting the dang exes.. is it that big of deal? really? my best friend is a leo and she still holds on to pics of her first boyfriend bla bla... memories are in the mind... thats whats the best part of a scorpio... we hold everything inside, photos, moments,. etc.. we dont leave em on the outside so everyone can see... just sayin 😉

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I get what you're saying. I like hearing opinions from scorpios so I know how he's feeling. It may come down to me deleting the leo, who knows. But I'm going to talk with him about it and see what he's feeling and what he wants

It sucks though when you didn't even bring that up and than you can't talk about it without a reaction.

Like one time not that long ago I was talking to ex scorp and he said him and the leo were gonna go snowboarding, I was like cool my new scorp is a huge boarder.

He went totally silent and ignored me for an hour and just glared at me. Than he said " Do understand why it's not okay to say that? "

I was like what hell? You dumped me.

I can get very jealous too but that is in a relationship.


Thats why I don't ever talk or saying anything about anything, when it comes to topics like that. I just keep quiet.

Posted by Sag89
It sucks though when you didn't even bring that up and than you can't talk about it without a reaction.

Like one time not that long ago I was talking to ex scorp and he said him and the leo were gonna go snowboarding, I was like cool my new scorp is a huge boarder.

He went totally silent and ignored me for an hour and just glared at me. Than he said " Do understand why it's not okay to say that? "

I was like what hell? You dumped me.

I can get very jealous too but that is in a relationship.


Thats why I don't ever talk or saying anything about anything, when it comes to topics like that. I just keep quiet.

Yeah I've tried to. The only time things about exes come up is when he sees pictures or comments and makes connections. He's really good (or bad) about that. And I end up getting in trouble :/

He hasn't texted me back yet since I last posted. He has a show tonight so he's probably busy practicing. Not too worried. I'm only worried this is getting to him. Gah! This isn't even my fault. It's not like I push my ex in his face

Posted by FireGemgirl
Well I told you about my Scorp and his reaction to me commenting on cute techno-boy.I texted him today how are you and he said ok.Just one word.I said you seem down,is everything ok and are you sure and he didn't respond.But I have a feeling it is a deeper issue at stake,such as the fact that I told him that I want to go back to Europe this next summer.

I can only imagine how your Scorp feels about an ex still being in the "picture".I don't think you should lose all touch with an ex just because he feels how he feels.Come on,we are not in junior high anymore.No reason for drama.You are both adults and you are with him,not with your ex.
And what happens if things don't work out with your Scorpio,then you would lose your ex as a friend and possibly other mutual friends.I don't know.I think it's extreme jealousy.People need to realize that they can't control anyone or any situation.If you wanted to,you could do both your ex and him and not a thing he can do about it.Why do you need to prove anything?Besides,Scorpios are masters at messing with an ex!!!

Yeah I think its because of the europe thing. The singer deal probably didn't mean much to him...a minor annoyance, but he probably didn't like it still.

Yeah, we are both adults, and he's older...and I thought more mature. But the way he commented about it "I was going to comment again then I saw your 'boyfriend' commented." That kinda hurt :/ I thought he trusted me. I've never given him any reason not to trust me. I dont flirt, I don't text other guys or hang with them.

Yes that's true. At one point I was at a middle ground of seeing the both of them, though I wasn't intimate with the scorpio, only the leo. I chose the scorpio tho over the leo and I thought he was secure enough to realize he won and I'm not going back to the leo. It frustrates and saddens me 😢

Posted by exoskeleton
even if it seems ridiculous, he won't forget. and he'll always be looking out for something like this to come up again. and he'll probably lurk the shit out of yours and leo's fb pages. and all of your friends.

(luckily my scorp made an account and never went on again. he doesn't know how to use it and doesn't care enough to, lol. i have nothing to hide on mine, but knowing him he'd probably read every comment just because. scorps. *shakes fist*)

so to soothe him? you already assured him that you and leo are no longer in contact so there's not much more you can say unless he brings it up again. and if you can, tell him face-to-face, eye-to-eye that he has nothing to worry about. (and then try to keep it from happening again.)

i think on fb you can block certain ppl from posting on your stuff without actually deleting them? would you want to do that to the leo?

Yeah I plan on telling him face to face....if he has time sometime soon.

The thing is I'd already talked to the leo and he hadn't contacted me since so I figured he wasn't going to talk to me until he moved on. Honestly the comment was very innocent. He didn't even direct it at me. But scorpio thought it was his subtle way of getting back in with me....obviously he knows nothing about leos or my ex. That's what frustrates me tho most is that it wasn't a comment that could be taken a bad way. So no I probably won't block the leo just because I know he respects I don't want to date him anymore, like I did when he was dating someone. He's not at fault here and I still want to be friends with him. What I would like is for the scorpio to show a little bit of maturity and not stretch things that don't even come close to being bad.

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Posted by Sag89
It sucks though when you didn't even bring that up and than you can't talk about it without a reaction.

Like one time not that long ago I was talking to ex scorp and he said him and the leo were gonna go snowboarding, I was like cool my new scorp is a huge boarder.

He went totally silent and ignored me for an hour and just glared at me. Than he said " Do understand why it's not okay to say that? "

I was like what hell? You dumped me.

I can get very jealous too but that is in a relationship.


Thats why I don't ever talk or saying anything about anything, when it comes to topics like that. I just keep quiet.

Yeah I've tried to. The only time things about exes come up is when he sees pictures or comments and makes connections. He's really good (or bad) about that. And I end up getting in trouble :/

He hasn't texted me back yet since I last posted. He has a show tonight so he's probably busy practicing. Not too worried. I'm only worried this is getting to him. Gah! This isn't even my fault. It's not like I push my ex in his face

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I agree. I know I didn't either just now when I think of snowboarding I think of new scorp. It was a totally accident but the reaction I didn't think was ok. I said sorry like a million times too.

Whateves.

I hope your scorp gets over it.

Posted by FireGemgirl
You seem like a perfect girlfriend to have,and I mean it.I have been watching you,you are so emotionally mature that it is unbelivable.You never pick on other people without the reason,you don't provoke any convoes,you don't flirt with the guys here,you always stay true to your word.Just some of the things that I noticed about you and I admire.

I think they are both idiots for not appreciating you more.I mean I am sure they do,since they both want you.I think Scorpio is testing you and enjoying "the reaction" he is causing.So "play" his game.I often have to act with my Scorp,that I am really hurt and what not,just because he needs to know this.He needs always some proof of emotional depth.

Lucky for you though,you don't have to act.It will be ok.Just relax about it,I have a feeling it will be ok🙂

Thanks 🙂 I try not to let emotions overrun me.

Sooo by play his game do you mean I need to text him and ask if he's alright? I already kinda did. Asked him "Are we ok?" but he's probably working on stuff before his show around 9.

I just want to figure this out. I hate when stuff is up in the air cus I can't focus on studying

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It sucks though when you didn't even bring that up and than you can't talk about it without a reaction.

Like one time not that long ago I was talking to ex scorp and he said him and the leo were gonna go snowboarding, I was like cool my new scorp is a huge boarder.

He went totally silent and ignored me for an hour and just glared at me. Than he said " Do understand why it's not okay to say that? "

I was like what hell? You dumped me.

I can get very jealous too but that is in a relationship.


Thats why I don't ever talk or saying anything about anything, when it comes to topics like that. I just keep quiet.

Yeah I've tried to. The only time things about exes come up is when he sees pictures or comments and makes connections. He's really good (or bad) about that. And I end up getting in trouble :/

He hasn't texted me back yet since I last posted. He has a show tonight so he's probably busy practicing. Not too worried. I'm only worried this is getting to him. Gah! This isn't even my fault. It's not like I push my ex in his face

I agree. I know I didn't either just now when I think of snowboarding I think of new scorp. It was a totally accident but the reaction I didn't think was ok. I said sorry like a million times too.

Whateves.

I hope your scorp gets over it.

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Me too :/

People don't understand we sags don't say things to be hurtful...we just don't think before we speak.

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You seem like a perfect girlfriend to have,and I mean it.I have been watching you,you are so emotionally mature that it is unbelivable.You never pick on other people without the reason,you don't provoke any convoes,you don't flirt with the guys here,you always stay true to your word.Just some of the things that I noticed about you and I admire.

I think they are both idiots for not appreciating you more.I mean I am sure they do,since they both want you.I think Scorpio is testing you and enjoying "the reaction" he is causing.So "play" his game.I often have to act with my Scorp,that I am really hurt and what not,just because he needs to know this.He needs always some proof of emotional depth.

Lucky for you though,you don't have to act.It will be ok.Just relax about it,I have a feeling it will be ok🙂

Thanks 🙂 I try not to let emotions overrun me.

Sooo by play his game do you mean I need to text him and ask if he's alright? I already kinda did. Asked him "Are we ok?" but he's probably working on stuff before his show around 9.

I just want to figure this out. I hate when stuff is up in the air cus I can't focus on studying

Well we don't want your school to suffer because of this guy or any guy.So compromise;perhaps text him one more time about something different,just an ice breaker...can you ask him out for a movie or drink or whatever?It will take his mind off the subject and yours too.And then go study for an hour or two,and by then his show will be almost over.

That way you will not sit by the phone,fretting what IF and OMG it is probably this and that,you know what I mean?Whatever will be,will be.And it will be fine,you'll see!!
You did your share and now relax.Even if you have to make a drink or something.Ok?🙂

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No clue what I'd text him about...maybe ask him if he wants to do something tomorrow.

It's only nearly 8 here so his show will probably be done by in about 2-3 hrs cus they're playing with another band. I've been looking over notes so I'm not totally spaced out...just very anxious.

Thanks tho. Wish I could make a drink, but I think I'll be fine for now.

Posted by FireGemgirl
And I was just thinking,since you have a lot of Scorpio in you,WHAT would you like to hear in this situation if roles were reversed?
I know you're a Sag...but still,you seem to be deep emotionally.I mean,if I can improvise as a Gemini,so can you.Although I have a venus in Cancer,so I am not THAT shallow,hahahahahah.

If I were in the same situation I'd make note of the girl commenting, but I wouldn't think much of it because I trust him. I certainly wouldn't ignore him or get upset. That's why this is so frustrating because it's silly

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It sucks though when you didn't even bring that up and than you can't talk about it without a reaction.

Like one time not that long ago I was talking to ex scorp and he said him and the leo were gonna go snowboarding, I was like cool my new scorp is a huge boarder.

He went totally silent and ignored me for an hour and just glared at me. Than he said " Do understand why it's not okay to say that? "

I was like what hell? You dumped me.

I can get very jealous too but that is in a relationship.


Thats why I don't ever talk or saying anything about anything, when it comes to topics like that. I just keep quiet.

Yeah I've tried to. The only time things about exes come up is when he sees pictures or comments and makes connections. He's really good (or bad) about that. And I end up getting in trouble :/

He hasn't texted me back yet since I last posted. He has a show tonight so he's probably busy practicing. Not too worried. I'm only worried this is getting to him. Gah! This isn't even my fault. It's not like I push my ex in his face

I agree. I know I didn't either just now when I think of snowboarding I think of new scorp. It was a totally accident but the reaction I didn't think was ok. I said sorry like a million times too.

Whateves.

I hope your scorp gets over it.

Me too :/

People don't understand we sags don't say things to be hurtful...we just don't think before we speak.

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Posted by FireGemgirl
Yes it is frustrating because Scorpios can be pricks(pardon my French).
They are people of extremes.
But yeah,go ahead and text him about tomorrow.What I hate the MOST about Scorpios is that denial,they will deny themselves a hottest girl or a guy or the best thing outthere,just because of one little thing,one little comment.He is probaly obsessing and pouting over it now,sulking and brooding,but you will NEVER know.Actually,you will know.The icy silence is how you know.

I did. Still no response and I noticed he put up a status on fb about his show. This is getting a bit ridiculous...

Well he texted me back. Game on

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Well he texted me back. Game on

Soooooooo,what's up??I am dying of suspense,eehehehhe.What did he say?
Mine texted me too,after I texted him 20 times.HA!Hahahahahhaha.

holy shit. you're going to scare him off. lol xD

Ya think?I think he enjoys it.He thinks,this chick is soooooooo into me😄 and he luvs it.In reality,I am baby-sitting tonight and dying of boredom.
Do you think it'd be wrong to bring a guy over,if kids are under 18?Prolly.I live in the USA:/

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Lol thats wrong 😛

Well what i last texted him was that I was off work tomorrow and we should do something.

He texted me that that should work and that they were finished playing and he was loading up stuff. Then he texted me asking if I was working after my text.

Fast forward a tiny bit and the last thing I ask is if he wants to hang out together. He says him and his guy friend had episodes of some show planned to watch so he wasn't sure if he could. I say it's whatever, he says he hasn't hung out with his guy friend in a while. (which is true) I finish it with "....ok"
Debating on whether I should ignore him for the rest of the night or not

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Hmmm,well maybe he genuinely can't hang out tomorrow.Maybe he needs that guys night out or whatever.Maybe you need to give him the benefit of the doubt.In any case,don't do what I did!!
Yeah,I sorta got irritated with mine tonight and called him an a** and he said "well,if I am an a** why you keep talking to me" and I said "maybe I just like a** guys!!".
Ouch,damn my gemini mouth.Now he won't respond for sure.We are back to square one.Oh well...

But about your guy?Can you say something sweet to him,like you miss him and how you would love to do something together maybe on Sunday?I don't know if you guys are talking like that to each other,yet.But I feel like as girls we can talk like that to guys.Who doesn't like to be babied a bit?😉

Sorry for the confusion. It's tonight he can't hang out. Tomorrow he can.

Lol wow sounds like a lot of fighting. But thats funny.

Well I was going to ignore him, but apparently he's had a bad day today. He said he's share with me tomorrow because he doesn't want to be reminded of it. I asked him if I should be worried because I may have messed up and for him to tell me so I could brace myself.

I may be sweet later. I just feel kinda mad at him right now. It took a lot for me to ask him what was wrong. Honestly I don't mind him having a night with his friend, but if it in anyway is because of this incident earlier than I will be pissed.

His last text.. basically saying I shouldn't worry but it's things we need to talk about. Obviously not good things.

I think I'm going to bed. At this point I'm just getting sick

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Your Scorp, and "my" Scorp have both Scorp Sun, Aqua Moons, and Mars or Venus— in Libra.

First, women Scorps and Men Scorps varie HUGELY. Seriously. No offense, and if I do I do. You CAN NOT take the advice from a female Scorp in this type of a situation. It must be from a male Scorp. Seriously, believe me on this. There is a difference. A HUGE difference, even if they say there isn't.

Second, do not delete Leo UNTIL you two are committed. Meaning, committed as in nobody else but you two AND DEFINED as such. Period. This Leo is someone from your past. Unless and until that man crosses boundaries that are not cool? Yeah, NO. Leo stays in your life. Keep it like you have been, and keep your peace and stand your ground gracefully.

Third, it's all horsefluff. No Scorp male would erase "it" if it were a woman. Promise. If anything, there would be so much shit flying to make YOU jealous it would take an Emmy nomination to a daytime drama to beat it.

Fourth, Aqua moons don't "make" themselves detached. Scorps do. Your "Aqua" moon is already detached. No emotion, no worry, get over it already, no nothing. His moon could give two fucking shits less about your Leo.
Your "scorp" mentioned it to gain and/or see your reaction and took it and will from there. Aqua moons are so detached they may or may not be perceived as cold, unfeeling, but focused into things that paralel into a Scorp where it is get the job done, focus, do it and get it now, etc. It balances out the Scorp, BUT..BUTTTTTTTTTTT makes it harder to read because it COMPLETELY goes against emotions of a Scorp, ESPECIALLY a male Scorp.

And Fifth, you made your point. As long as you keep it respectful to him, towards him, and no disrespect or unlady or unruly type behaviour and stand your ground? He'll get it, and respect you for both standing your ground and not buckling without you two discussing more IN DEPTH about what is a good resolution; BUT, also because if you cave and delete that guy? Bingo, that means if you delete Leo, that means if things with you and Scorp don't work? You'll be quick to 'unfriend' him should things NOT work with you two...THAT is in his mind, I guaran-fucking-tee it.

"unfriend him" meaning, Scorp 😉

If I had to appease my Scorpio every time something made him jealous, I would end up with no male friends on FB (or anywhere else), no male coworkers, never speaking to a man in public, sharing the content of every email and text, deleting every male's phone number, and wearing turtle necks 24/7. The only way I can handle his insecurities is to have compassion for them, but not give in to them.

@ Ocean Deep:

I think you're on to something there with the aqua moon thing. I guess scorpios do detach themselves so that would be the scorpio in him..

When you say I should wait until we're committed do you mean "boyfriend-girlfriend" committed or marriage committed?

@Whimsy: I agree. That's why I'm trying to be compassionate and see where he's coming from. Unfortunately his side isn't looking very good because leo never crossed any lines making scorpio look the fool.

I'm going to be seeing him sometime today. I told him after I'm done with my final (just finished a few mins ago) I would like to see him. Texted him already but no response. He's probably still sleeping. I'm annoyed enough as it is, but still sad so I'll be as firm as I can without letting my emotions get in the way.

I'll update on how it goes later

I meant committed as in boyfriend-girlfriend. Once you talk to him today, see what he says. I wouldn't delete Leo until you two talk about it, AND also that you are given the chance to communicate to Leo first that you'll have to delete him IF that is something BOTH you and Scorp agree on. I think that is only right and decent for Leo. But don't deltete him just because Scorp tells you to if you don't see just cause or need. There's a line of respect to keep yes, if it makes him feel uncomfortable. But if Leo seriously didn't say anything out of line or out of hand, then IMHO there is no just cause. You can gently explain that to Scorp, and go from there. Remove Leo all because of jealousy is only going to make things worse. Again, it's not the Aqua moon that is jealous. If anything, they can't stand or see why people should be jealous. Good luck today, I'm sure you two will talk this out and come to a great resolution and compromise! 🙂

Just got back from the scorpios place.

I actually went there around 1pm earlier today and we talked it out.

He told me that the reason he was acting so weird is because he felt we were moving too fast. He's said this before, but about sexual stuff. Now it's because I said (when he told me he was offered a job in Wyoming) that I didn't want him to go he felt that I was getting too close...So I talked it out with him and explained that it's not even been two months yet and that I'm not even fully attached to him yet. Basically told him we're just really good friend (who do other stuff 😛) which is true, and this made him feel a lot more at ease.

I told him though that he likes me more than he lets on... he didn't say anything and left the room to go check on clothes. Then he comes back and says "you're right". Then tells me I have all these qualities he looks for in a girl and that he was telling his family this. Which is scary because I felt the same way about him. He has been everything I've wanted in a guy and more.

He told me that could be why he's so scared because I have all these things he wants. Thats when I asked him not to do the thing he did last night. He agreed he would try not to. He had a lot going on and that thing with my ex was what broke the camels back so I can understand why he went silent for a while. I'd rather that then him being mean to me. If that's his way of coping then fine, but I wanted at least a warning next time, so he's going to try to do that for me.

Thank God this is all settled and we are back to normal 🙂

Btw I was thinking about it and a similar situation happened with my ex Gem. He also felt we were moving too fast and I had to reassure him that we were just friends at that point. This was when I wanted a relationship status tho 😛 So it was a little more serious than friends I will admit.

Finally he came around tho and I'm hoping the scorpio will too. I just hope it's not like it was with the Gem when he did come around and I no long wanted a relationship status

Posted by FireGemgirl
So are you guys friends now or what?I told you it's gonna be fine🙂
And what's wrong with a job in Wyoming and you follow him there??I've been to WY,it is very pretty...for like a day,lol😉

We've been friends. I was basically telling him we're not at that relationship point yet. Him and I both agreed you don't really know a person's type until 3 months so that's when it's usually safe to become official.

Nothings wrong with him going to Wyoming except from what he told me it's a dangerous job and him and his parents both agreed he hated it there, even if the pay was good.

Honestly when he mentioned I could go to grad school there I was a little turned off by it because I wasn't ready to make a big step in moving with him. We're not even in a relationship yet. So he wasn't along in being put off by the others reaction (him being put off by me telling him not to go).

I know I know it'll be fine. I just got a little worried is all. I think there was just a lot of assumption on his and my part, but once we were able to talk in person things were sorted out fast.

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So are you guys friends now or what?I told you it's gonna be fine🙂
And what's wrong with a job in Wyoming and you follow him there??I've been to WY,it is very pretty...for like a day,lol😉

We've been friends. I was basically telling him we're not at that relationship point yet. Him and I both agreed you don't really know a person's type until 3 months so that's when it's usually safe to become official.

Nothings wrong with him going to Wyoming except from what he told me it's a dangerous job and him and his parents both agreed he hated it there, even if the pay was good.

Honestly when he mentioned I could go to grad school there I was a little turned off by it because I wasn't ready to make a big step in moving with him. We're not even in a relationship yet. So he wasn't along in being put off by the others reaction (him being put off by me telling him not to go).

I know I know it'll be fine. I just got a little worried is all. I think there was just a lot of assumption on his and my part, but once we were able to talk in person things were sorted out fast.

That's a sweet ending,happy.You are so patient and easy to get along with.Hell,if it was me I'd move with him but I'd probably move back in 3 days,ending hating him and Wyoming,lol.

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Thanks 🙂

I hear Wyoming is a pretty boring place to be so I don't blame you

I wouldn't mind Wyoming if I was already set in my career since my career requires I be outdoors. However, WY isn't my choice state if I had to pick.

I'm used to quiet tho so it wouldn't bug me so much

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I wouldn't mind Wyoming if I was already set in my career since my career requires I be outdoors. However, WY isn't my choice state if I had to pick.

I'm used to quiet tho so it wouldn't bug me so much

Oh God,you and I are complete oppposites.I hate outdoors and quiet.

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Hahaha I think that's probably due to how we were brought up. I've lived in a small town most of my life. The career path I've chosen is actually far from ordinary when it comes to the major I chose and it requires I work outdoors.

I'm an explorer and nature girl at hear 😉 I wouldn't mind if I had to survive in a post apocolyptic world

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