Scorpio Jealousy?

I have been seeing a scorpio guy for the last few months but he hadn't made a move on me or anything, so i figured he just wanted me as a friend, now he is furious with me because I have moved on, he told me I was playing with him, any advice appreciated as I am so confused.

Thanks, Miss A

i could go on and on about scorpio jealousy, but first things first...were you interested in him sexually, and if you were, why didn't you make a move on him? i mean if it's there, and i mean chemistry with a scorp, there's NO way to stop it. which brings me to the conclusion that you really weren't that interested in him. so you really shouldn't care what he thinks and go on and live your life. scorpios will try to make you feel like you're the bad person, no matter what. they are so intense. in everything. coming and going...no pun intended. in good things, and in bad. he has no right to be furious. it's just a way to make you feel pain. ignore it.

Thanks Pato - to answer you question yes I did like him, I asked him "so are you going to kiss me or what" and was met with deafening silence, so obviously there was no chemistry there (on his part), I just need to be brave & tell him to get over it & leave me alone.

It's weird the hold he has over me his secretivness & that intense stare just send me weak at the knees even though I know he's bad for me, I think I may have to move interstate when I tell him it's over, I know he's not going to be happy....I'm sure his mind games will continue.

oh that intense stare....god, they all have it. it's their secret weapon. it's that scorpion sting that leaves you (the prey) stunned, unable to move or breathe. at first, you think it's really you that they love...only to find out later that it's just their weapon. it painful as hell. i'm still recovering. but truthfully, i wish i had a weapon so effective. it must be a burden to them, because they have to learn how to handle it's power. when you meet another one, you'll know right away they're a scorp. good luck with your future.

it has taken me almost a year to recover from a 6 month affair. i still have moments of total breakdown from leftover venom in my being, but i try daily, to find the antedote.

I am so sorry for what you are experiencing from your Scorp incounter...I have never been "stung" by a scopio...so I am a little lost as to what their sting does to a person. I am just curious....

And how do you know right away they're a Scorp?

Thanks...

I wish you my best Pato in moving on...I know it must be hard and I hope you find the antedote soon!

well, maybe i don't know if you will know it's a scorp. i just never had anyone look at me that way, and from all that i read on here from anyone else that has experienced a scorp, they all say the same thing...that intense gaze that looks right through you, that makes you weak in the knees, that makes you believe he's the one... and maybe lucky is the girl that can win the scorp in the end, but i think there's a price to pay for winning. because as much as intensly satisfying the sex is and the romance and the laughter and the fun, there is the dark side which is very, very dark. i can only talk from my own experience.
thank you for your support, freebird. i've always liked your input on these boards.

i could have sworn we had a list posted awhile back and it said anakin was a aquarius. anyone remember that one?

Quite Phionex might be listening.

All the scorpians I met don't have that intense quality about them, I don't get intimidated. Perhaps I'm the one with the weapon har HAR.

But I've met one though..(who's not a scorpio) that had an intense glare which didn't leave a good affect. He was a Leo, I didn't have ANY feelings for him but I'm just specifying his 'intensity'. I couldn't endure it =O

Fire signs have that intense quality as well =)... minus Sagittarians. Well some. I guess.

Speaking for myself, I only bother "using" (a better description would be "giving free reign to") the infamous gaze when I'm focused on a potential romantic interest. I don't use it on friends, acquaintances, coworkers, bosses, or strangers of the same sex. Sometimes it's controllable, often it isn't. I often catch myself when I'm doing it, rather than stop myself from doing it before it happens. I suppose the only other circumstance when I might "stare" at a person (different than the aforementioned "gaze") is when I'm angry at them and they're talking and not making any sense, and I want to choke them. 🙂 And while I don't actively try to intimidate anyone, if I'm really pissed off at them (and if I am, there's a damn good reason) and I give them a certain look, they always back down. And when everything's blown over and the situation is back to some kind of "normal", they always make some sort of remark about how they didn't know I was pissed off until I gave them "that look" etc. (Right...well, I suppose it could be true, we're also good at being stone-faced)

Anyway, in short, I think we only "use it" (let it happen) if we are really pissed, or really sexually attracted to you. (Or maybe that's just me.)

And yes, we are incredibly jealous - if only the other signs could crawl into our minds and souls...they'd all be shocked. I don't believe any sign but a water sign could really fathom how intense it can be, the jealousy. And even then...

Look at it this way: if it seems bad to you, and you're on the outside looking in, imagine how we feel. 🙂