PandorasMystic
@PandorasMystic
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Scorpio Male
Scorpio Male
Scorpio Male
O lord, where to begin 🙂
Opps I tried to ask a question but I hit enter accidentally.
Do Scorpio men take back women they dumped for being fake and telling them to give their children up? I mean once a Scorpio breaks up are they done or what? Just curious. This guy and I went out after he had broke it off and I had broke off with a Gemini. We had hit it off totally before as friends and as a couple. He told me how I was what he wanted and begged me to go out with him again. I agreed. Then by the next day at noon, he decided he didn't need to be dating anyone cause he just wasn't ready yet. OMG it was crazy and I still think its crazy. I am Sag and I have a tendency to run when it gets difficult for fear of getting hurt...won't put myself out there...but I did with this guy. Did I screw up by telling him how I felt and said that I wanted to see him and asked him to reconsider due to the connection we felt with each other?
Do Scorpio men take back women they dumped for being fake and telling them to give their children up? I mean once a Scorpio breaks up are they done or what? Just curious. This guy and I went out after he had broke it off and I had broke off with a Gemini. We had hit it off totally before as friends and as a couple. He told me how I was what he wanted and begged me to go out with him again. I agreed. Then by the next day at noon, he decided he didn't need to be dating anyone cause he just wasn't ready yet. OMG it was crazy and I still think its crazy. I am Sag and I have a tendency to run when it gets difficult for fear of getting hurt...won't put myself out there...but I did with this guy. Did I screw up by telling him how I felt and said that I wanted to see him and asked him to reconsider due to the connection we felt with each other?
Is it that bad TNikki? I typically date Virgos, didn't think anything could be as bad as them.
Posted by PandorasMystic
Is it that bad TNikki? I typically date Virgos, didn't think anything could be as bad as them.
Omg....bad....honey good luck
A roller coaster ride
LOL
Too funny, Jynja. I was thinking the same.
Too funny, Jynja. I was thinking the same.
Posted by capgirl75Posted by PandorasMystic
Opps I tried to ask a question but I hit enter accidentally.
Do Scorpio men take back women they dumped for being fake and telling them to give their children up? I mean once a Scorpio breaks up are they done or what? Just curious. This guy and I went out after he had broke it off and I had broke off with a Gemini. We had hit it off totally before as friends and as a couple. He told me how I was what he wanted and begged me to go out with him again. I agreed. Then by the next day at noon, he decided he didn't need to be dating anyone cause he just wasn't ready yet. OMG it was crazy and I still think its crazy. I am Sag and I have a tendency to run when it gets difficult for fear of getting hurt...won't put myself out there...but I did with this guy. Did I screw up by telling him how I felt and said that I wanted to see him and asked him to reconsider due to the connection we felt with each other?
Can't understand this at all.
Are you saying that you were friends, then a couple, then he dumped you for being fake? Or is this some other person?
Then he asked you out again and by the next day he changed his mind?click to expand
If that part is true....that's revenge on his part
Sorry, guess I wasn't very clear at all.
The girl who was fake is the girl prior to me. According to him, she portrayed herself as something she isn't in her beliefs and personality traits. He says he fell for a girl that doesn't exist. She wanted him to give his daughter to his wife and not see her but once a month instead of the arrangement they have now where he gets her every 3 days for 3 days and vice versa. She believed that the woman should raise the child that he should start a new family with her and forget about that child. Which is my view is totally wrong and he wasn't about to do that. He only dated the girl for a few months then got engaged to her cause she was pressuring him to marry her. So he agreed to get engaged and put the wedding off for over a year. I guess that didn't make her happy. She was also buying the little girl clothes which the little girl didn't want and apparently the gf at the time thought the little girl was disrespectful so the gf thought she should be spanked. Which he later found out after the breakup his daughter confessed to not liking her at all. So thats why she didn't want the clothes the gf at the time was buying her.
We were friends, who connected but never dated due to being in other relationships. Then he has been split for several months, I recently split with my gemini, so we decided to give it a shot. We hit it off like crazy. Sunday night we talked about where we were going and if we would continue as friends or more. He made it plain he wanted more...way more. Said I was exactly what he wanted the companionship between us was amazing. And it was! It was like I had known him my entire life could tell him anything, never felt so comfortable in my life with any guy. Then as he left Sunday night, I didn't have to work due to the holiday on Monday, and he did. So he told me to text him when I woke up. Well, I did and could tell something just wasn't right. By noon, he quit answering all together. So I got the text that he was sorry but that he was still into her and he shouldn't be dating anyone now. I asked him to reconsider and I put my heart on the line practically begging him to reconsider. I did ask him later if I treated him like crap cause she did treat him that per his daughter would that make my case stronger. I made a joke of it but in a way I meant it. Anyway, he just text me and said that in no certain terms, it was not going to happen. He was sorry if I felt he wronged
The girl who was fake is the girl prior to me. According to him, she portrayed herself as something she isn't in her beliefs and personality traits. He says he fell for a girl that doesn't exist. She wanted him to give his daughter to his wife and not see her but once a month instead of the arrangement they have now where he gets her every 3 days for 3 days and vice versa. She believed that the woman should raise the child that he should start a new family with her and forget about that child. Which is my view is totally wrong and he wasn't about to do that. He only dated the girl for a few months then got engaged to her cause she was pressuring him to marry her. So he agreed to get engaged and put the wedding off for over a year. I guess that didn't make her happy. She was also buying the little girl clothes which the little girl didn't want and apparently the gf at the time thought the little girl was disrespectful so the gf thought she should be spanked. Which he later found out after the breakup his daughter confessed to not liking her at all. So thats why she didn't want the clothes the gf at the time was buying her.
We were friends, who connected but never dated due to being in other relationships. Then he has been split for several months, I recently split with my gemini, so we decided to give it a shot. We hit it off like crazy. Sunday night we talked about where we were going and if we would continue as friends or more. He made it plain he wanted more...way more. Said I was exactly what he wanted the companionship between us was amazing. And it was! It was like I had known him my entire life could tell him anything, never felt so comfortable in my life with any guy. Then as he left Sunday night, I didn't have to work due to the holiday on Monday, and he did. So he told me to text him when I woke up. Well, I did and could tell something just wasn't right. By noon, he quit answering all together. So I got the text that he was sorry but that he was still into her and he shouldn't be dating anyone now. I asked him to reconsider and I put my heart on the line practically begging him to reconsider. I did ask him later if I treated him like crap cause she did treat him that per his daughter would that make my case stronger. I made a joke of it but in a way I meant it. Anyway, he just text me and said that in no certain terms, it was not going to happen. He was sorry if I felt he wronged
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He was sorry if I felt he had wronged me but it was never gonna happen! Do I feel wronged ? Yes, how did I go from being great and what he wanted and in less than 8 hours he didn't want anything else to do with me? I have never ever put my heart out there and asked a guy to reconsider cause I just don't do that. I just think well, your loss baby to many guys out there to waste time on someone who doesnt want me. But I believe he wanted me, I believe he truly cared. So what the hell happened? He talked about how great I was and how I have it going on, I own my own successful business, my own home, make more money than him and live in a nicer home than him. But its due to he went thru a divorce and I did not. I lived with my ex and everything was in my name and I kept it. I paid for it so I kept it. He said there wasn't anyone else I think I believe him. Why lie at this point if he doesn't want anything to do with me. I told him not to worry that I was deleting him and wouldn't ever contact him again. So in a matter of like 24 hours I lost a friend and what I thought was a great guy to spend my future with, even though we both agreed to take everything very slow. I dont' get it at all. So do you think he will ever contact me again or is he out of my life for good? I am heartbroken.
He was sorry if I felt he had wronged me but it was never gonna happen! Do I feel wronged ? Yes, how did I go from being great and what he wanted and in less than 8 hours he didn't want anything else to do with me? I have never ever put my heart out there and asked a guy to reconsider cause I just don't do that. I just think well, your loss baby to many guys out there to waste time on someone who doesnt want me. But I believe he wanted me, I believe he truly cared. So what the hell happened? He talked about how great I was and how I have it going on, I own my own successful business, my own home, make more money than him and live in a nicer home than him. But its due to he went thru a divorce and I did not. I lived with my ex and everything was in my name and I kept it. I paid for it so I kept it. He said there wasn't anyone else I think I believe him. Why lie at this point if he doesn't want anything to do with me. I told him not to worry that I was deleting him and wouldn't ever contact him again. So in a matter of like 24 hours I lost a friend and what I thought was a great guy to spend my future with, even though we both agreed to take everything very slow. I dont' get it at all. So do you think he will ever contact me again or is he out of my life for good? I am heartbroken.
I believe he'll contact again, but be careful tho, this Scorpio was in his down and out phase.....he was never ready to move on.....he was in wait mode......why I say wait mode.....because as soon as the gf came back he was ready......I do believe he has feelings for u, but the fact that toward the girlfriend it was stronger.......JMHO.....he used u......I don't think he meant to do that......but it helped him in some way......to be honest most Scorpios love to be treated like crap......they fear to be loved.....they run from it.....it sucks how he did that to you....but hey at least he said sorry....most Scorpios wouldn't even say that word to save their life
Posted by PandorasMystic
Sorry, guess I wasn't very clear at all.
The girl who was fake is the girl prior to me. According to him, she portrayed herself as something she isn't in her beliefs and personality traits. He says he fell for a girl that doesn't exist. She wanted him to give his daughter to his wife and not see her but once a month instead of the arrangement they have now where he gets her every 3 days for 3 days and vice versa. She believed that the woman should raise the child that he should start a new family with her and forget about that child. Which is my view is totally wrong and he wasn't about to do that. He only dated the girl for a few months then got engaged to her cause she was pressuring him to marry her. So he agreed to get engaged and put the wedding off for over a year. I guess that didn't make her happy. She was also buying the little girl clothes which the little girl didn't want and apparently the gf at the time thought the little girl was disrespectful so the gf thought she should be spanked. Which he later found out after the breakup his daughter confessed to not liking her at all. So thats why she didn't want the clothes the gf at the time was buying her.
We were friends, who connected but never dated due to being in other relationships. Then he has been split for several months, I recently split with my gemini, so we decided to give it a shot. We hit it off like crazy. Sunday night we talked about where we were going and if we would continue as friends or more. He made it plain he wanted more...way more. Said I was exactly what he wanted the companionship between us was amazing. And it was! It was like I had known him my entire life could tell him anything, never felt so comfortable in my life with any guy. Then as he left Sunday night, I didn't have to work due to the holiday on Monday, and he did. So he told me to text him when I woke up. Well, I did and could tell something just wasn't right. By noon, he quit answering all together. So I got the text that he was sorry but that he was still into her and he shouldn't be dating anyone now. I asked him to reconsider and I put my heart on the line practically begging him to reconsider. I did ask him later if I treated him like crap cause she did treat him that per his daughter would that make my case stronger. I made a joke of it but in a way I meant it. Anyway, he just text me an
^^^ You're in trouble already.....
"He says he fell for a girl that doesn't exist."
ummmmmm...................
"He says he fell for a girl that doesn't exist."
ummmmmm...................
"I believe he'll contact again, but be careful tho, this Scorpio was in his down and out phase.....he was never ready to move on.....he was in wait mode......why I say wait mode.....because as soon as the gf came back he was ready......I do believe he has feelings for u, but the fact that toward the girlfriend it was stronger.......JMHO.....he used u......I don't think he meant to do that......but it helped him in some way......to be honest most Scorpios love to be treated like crap......they fear to be loved.....they run from it.....it sucks how he did that to you....but hey at least he said sorry....most Scorpios wouldn't even say that word to save their life"
I don't know that the gf came back cause he dumped her over his daughter. He says he isn't seeing anyone including her but who knows. I believed him but then I believed all the other stuff about caring for me too. So who knows. I don't believe he will contact me again, even though a close friends says he will probably in about 2 weeks. She thinks the exgf might have called and stirred up those feelings and when he realizes all that crap with her shows up again, he will be done for good. But who knows. I guess I just need to move on and get over it. It just hurts like nothing I have ever experienced before cause we both opened up but I really did at the end. Oh well. It is what it is I guess.
I don't know that the gf came back cause he dumped her over his daughter. He says he isn't seeing anyone including her but who knows. I believed him but then I believed all the other stuff about caring for me too. So who knows. I don't believe he will contact me again, even though a close friends says he will probably in about 2 weeks. She thinks the exgf might have called and stirred up those feelings and when he realizes all that crap with her shows up again, he will be done for good. But who knows. I guess I just need to move on and get over it. It just hurts like nothing I have ever experienced before cause we both opened up but I really did at the end. Oh well. It is what it is I guess.
"How do you know he was in love with someone that doesn't exist?"
He told me! He met her on a dating site after his divorce. He said she immediately started telling him how she loved him and everything in a very short period of time. I was shocked to be honest. Anyway, he said the person she portrayed herself to be is not the person she is. He said she would call him crying cause she has no friends and everyone at work hates her. Her bosses called her in to discuss how the other employees hate her and to ask her to change her attitude. Well, she got mad and said she was not at fault it was just them. He gave a bunch of examples of how she acted one way then once he got to know her, her true self came out and she was nothing like he had been led to believe she was.
I guess he would rather have that, than have a successful person in business who is settled. I am in my 30s and she is in her 40s as so is he, but she still lives at home with momma where I own my own home and he owns his own home. She is hugely in debt to the IRS from the last of her many marriages. So guess she is the better catch! Yeah right!
He told me! He met her on a dating site after his divorce. He said she immediately started telling him how she loved him and everything in a very short period of time. I was shocked to be honest. Anyway, he said the person she portrayed herself to be is not the person she is. He said she would call him crying cause she has no friends and everyone at work hates her. Her bosses called her in to discuss how the other employees hate her and to ask her to change her attitude. Well, she got mad and said she was not at fault it was just them. He gave a bunch of examples of how she acted one way then once he got to know her, her true self came out and she was nothing like he had been led to believe she was.
I guess he would rather have that, than have a successful person in business who is settled. I am in my 30s and she is in her 40s as so is he, but she still lives at home with momma where I own my own home and he owns his own home. She is hugely in debt to the IRS from the last of her many marriages. So guess she is the better catch! Yeah right!
("She wanted him to give his daughter to his wife"
he's married, has a gemini on the side and dated you on sunday?
i'm so confused)
NO NO NO he is divorced! He has been divorced for several years. Gets along fairly great with his exwife actually due to their daughter. I broke up with the Gemini. Not sure what his exgf sign was I never asked her bday.
he's married, has a gemini on the side and dated you on sunday?
i'm so confused)
NO NO NO he is divorced! He has been divorced for several years. Gets along fairly great with his exwife actually due to their daughter. I broke up with the Gemini. Not sure what his exgf sign was I never asked her bday.
I think everyone is great! I don't date per sign I date per the person. Maybe I am going about it the wrong way. lol I am sure that Scorpios are great. Just don't understand him and wondered if due to his sign.
Hell when it comes to Scorpio men and feelings....it's a roller coaster ride
Well Nikki I love roller coasters but not in my relationships lol
Posted by PandorasMystic
Well Nikki I love roller coasters but not in my relationships lol
Amen to that 🙂
"I think you are being pretty dramatic, considering it seems, from your post, that the two of you went on only one date.
Forget him."
It was more than one date!
Forget him."
It was more than one date!
Yes I told you I had just broke up with a Gemini but had been friends with this guy for awhile. I have always had feelings for him but we both were in other relationships. Excuse me, that it was what I thought was finally the right time! But I guess it wasn't.
I can't even imagine what will happen after the 2nd.
Whatever! It was more than one date!!! Sorry, but I am an adult. I date when I am single! And there are generally more than one man interested at me at one time. I have always been that way even prior to being allowed to date.
Whatever! It was more than one date!!! Sorry, but I am an adult. I date when I am single! And there are generally more than one man interested at me at one time. I have always been that way even prior to being allowed to date.
"to each their own but you *are* dealing with a scorpio here.
you *just* called it quits with the gemini on 11/6 because he had his kids coming over for the weekend of 11/9 and you didn't believe that was the true story and felt he had another woman he was tending to.
then you went out with the scorpio on sunday, 11/11.
...and now you are confused.
look, if you don't take yourself seriously a scorpio will not take you seriously either.
regardless if you've had feelings for him prior, as far as he is concerned...you were in a relationship up til wednesday of last week.
how seriously do you think he can really take you?"
First off, it wasn't about the Gem's kids. You have no clue! And the Scorpio was in my life prior. I was making a choice wasn't exclusive to anyone at that time. The Scorpio wanted it exclusive as of Sunday nite, then changed. So before you judge perhaps you should ask! I take myself seriously! Hell, I work in the legal field, make 6 figures, all I have in my life is serious! Dating is my fun! And the Scorpio for me was that fun! The Gemini was drama over drama! He knew all about everything as I did about him, thats what happens when your friends. And we both knew we had feelings for each other but it was never the proper time. As of Sunday nite, we agreed to go slow and be exclusive to each other. So try to broaden your horizons before judging someone.
you *just* called it quits with the gemini on 11/6 because he had his kids coming over for the weekend of 11/9 and you didn't believe that was the true story and felt he had another woman he was tending to.
then you went out with the scorpio on sunday, 11/11.
...and now you are confused.
look, if you don't take yourself seriously a scorpio will not take you seriously either.
regardless if you've had feelings for him prior, as far as he is concerned...you were in a relationship up til wednesday of last week.
how seriously do you think he can really take you?"
First off, it wasn't about the Gem's kids. You have no clue! And the Scorpio was in my life prior. I was making a choice wasn't exclusive to anyone at that time. The Scorpio wanted it exclusive as of Sunday nite, then changed. So before you judge perhaps you should ask! I take myself seriously! Hell, I work in the legal field, make 6 figures, all I have in my life is serious! Dating is my fun! And the Scorpio for me was that fun! The Gemini was drama over drama! He knew all about everything as I did about him, thats what happens when your friends. And we both knew we had feelings for each other but it was never the proper time. As of Sunday nite, we agreed to go slow and be exclusive to each other. So try to broaden your horizons before judging someone.
Wow @ 6 figures. Let me be the weather girl for a sec and predict the weather...umm.. she's gonna make it rain! No?
What kind of attorney? From legal aid, i guess, lol. You have a right to brag bfore u remain silent
NO, I am not a legal aide attorney. I was a prosecuting attorney in the DA's office. I received threats from the men where I helped the women who were being abused get out of those situations. You can say whatever you want! I am successful, and I have busted my ass to get where I am. I have the student loans to prove it. I thought I was taking a safer job to go to the practice I am in now, but unfortunately it hasn't been the case. Its still in the criminal field.
I wasn't bragging! I offered to help someone on another forum. Sorry that it offended you that someone is an attorney. I don't have the best of everything. I work very hard for what I have. And you can think whatever you want that I can't get a man or whatever. That's your choice.
I wasn't bragging! I offered to help someone on another forum. Sorry that it offended you that someone is an attorney. I don't have the best of everything. I work very hard for what I have. And you can think whatever you want that I can't get a man or whatever. That's your choice.
I was just pointing out my situation, it has nothing to do with any of yours! I was explaining mine! Not yours. I don't know yours nor do I have an opinion about any of you, only my situation. Sorry that you got offended but just statign about myself. Key here being ME@ Not you! And I am not bragging, stating the facts. But you choose to take offense, go right ahead. It makes no matter to me. I never told you anything about my car or home, other than I own it which I assume everyone on here probably owns there own home as well.
I got bashed on here about my situation, so I was trying to explain it so others specifically one other could understand.
I got bashed on here about my situation, so I was trying to explain it so others specifically one other could understand.
have you got to offer the man?
Contrary to popular belief on here, you can be a succesful person and have alot to offer to someone. And that I do. I do alot of good for people and I love this man. Yes, I said it. I have loved him for along time. And would give up everything to make him happy. Frankly, I fear because I make more money than him, that it is an issue. Actually a major issue with him. I am in the process of remodeling a house I purchased, its not the best house but I am taking my time and doing it right. I won't feel bad for busting my ass to be successful. My success is not based on how much money I make. Its based on the good I can do for others. That's why I worked at the DA's office all those years. Until I felt it wasn't doing any good cause the same abused women came back month after month. I couldn't reach them to make them see that life could be better if they left. I had this one, that the guy killed her. The children were beaten to almost death. And that was it for me, I had to get out. I felt I wasn't making a difference which is what I set out to do. I have a good heart, but it has belonged to only one man for years. And go ahead and kick me while I am down, hope it makes you feel better.
Contrary to popular belief on here, you can be a succesful person and have alot to offer to someone. And that I do. I do alot of good for people and I love this man. Yes, I said it. I have loved him for along time. And would give up everything to make him happy. Frankly, I fear because I make more money than him, that it is an issue. Actually a major issue with him. I am in the process of remodeling a house I purchased, its not the best house but I am taking my time and doing it right. I won't feel bad for busting my ass to be successful. My success is not based on how much money I make. Its based on the good I can do for others. That's why I worked at the DA's office all those years. Until I felt it wasn't doing any good cause the same abused women came back month after month. I couldn't reach them to make them see that life could be better if they left. I had this one, that the guy killed her. The children were beaten to almost death. And that was it for me, I had to get out. I felt I wasn't making a difference which is what I set out to do. I have a good heart, but it has belonged to only one man for years. And go ahead and kick me while I am down, hope it makes you feel better.
Counselor, im not offended at all by u being a lawyer, i mean.. why would i? So i OBJECT! Good thing u have all those things. SUSTAINED! Now, whats the problem again?
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