Scorpio men can really be stalkers

Pleas explain to me anybody why a scorpio man would stalk a woman they although claimed to love (although it is mor of a lust in my opinion) but is unavailable any longer. He still thinks it is okay to be with her even though he isn't available (cheater) and acts a Damn fool when she gets involved with someone else. I understand hating to lose someone you have grown to love due to circumstances but to try and force them to be with you after they are with someone else and you are no longer available is beyond me.

Any insight?

and acts a Damn fool when she gets involved with someone else.



He loves her. That's why.

Why aren't they together anymore?

LOL @ F'n A. Actually I had only been involved with one. I am a scorp however we scorp woman are different in a lot of ways than scorp men in relationships. When someone has moved on we can swallow the hurt and move on and soon enough it is like we were never interested in the first place. Like we never had a pass with that person. Scorp men! Will hold on to th bitter end and it seems it is more of a not losing thing.

Mystic: The scorp is married but separated and although this might sound surprising the girl advised him to work it out with his wife since they had kids and he still loved her, they just couldn't seem to be able to live together in harmony. The two became very close friends more so than lovers. But when girl moves on Scorp loses his mind, sleep, comes to her job, begs her to be with him and even says he will leave his wife an Aries who says she will never give hima divorce. Girl knows he loves his wife and knows that it would be better for his kids as well to make his marriag work. Girl can't understand why scorp can't see he can't have both and he needs to do the right thing. Sad especiall when you have gotten close. Vey sad. Yeah, that girl is me.

Funny... I started seeing an Aries and I hear not a good combo, but we are doing great we have a great connection and reallyenjoy eachother

BTW, my chart is mostly fire and air, maybe that is why it is working well so far. We will see it is still fairly new but good for now.

Damn I need to get my keyboard cleaned, space bar and some letters are hard to punch.

if you're punching it then that may be your problem.

I just read it F'n A and was shocked about the positivity. But as you said I have mostly known Aries women with Scorp men, not the other way around.

Uhhh, wheelhomies punching it? I am not doing anything to it or him.

lol, i meant your keyboard. sorry, just me being stupid.

The kids keep him there.

"Pleas explain to me anybody why a scorpio man would stalk a woman they although claimed to love (although it is mor of a lust in my opinion) but is unavailable any longer."

He chose the other woman because she is easier to control and presents no threat. Because he doesn't love her, she doesn't have the power to hurt him. He's obsessed with and dreams about the woman he loves and keeping tabs on her comforts him because it keeps the connection open.

And you're right, Scorpio men have a much harder time in relationships than the women because they are more concerned about controlling their emotions and protecting themselves than being happy in love. They have to learn to listen to their intuition rather than their head when it comes to their hearts. Once they do this, they're out of the woods.

It's all about power & control. In general, people want what they cannot have. This scorp that you're talking about obviously can't handle the fact that he can't have that woman. I'll bet if she gives in, he'll lose interest in her.

I'll bet if she gives in, he'll lose interest in her.



I doubt it. Scorpio men don't just lose interest in someone.

"ding ding DING..we have a winner...seriously what ss said is so true!"

*curtsey* Basic scorpio nature 😉 They are only motivated to stalk by extreme emotions. If you're being stalked by one, they either love you or are planning to kill you. Otherwise, they would be completely indifferent.

"maybe it isn't love but crazy infatuation? Love to me is more selfless so he would leave his wife before pursuing her if he really LOVED her??"

LOL Satori, the scorpio male's idea of love is very different from..well..the rest of us. And possessiveness and control will always be interlinked with it in some way in their minds. Many people settle for something more "comfortable" but always think about the one who got away. Most of them just don't stoop to stalking said person. 🙂

"Believe me, I'm shocked to hear and read this stuff myself, but for some reason it works. A Scorpio member who used to come here thought she had died and gone to heaven meeting this Aries guy. She couldn't stop raving about him everyday for I don't know how long. Then, she didn't post anymore, and I think they went off into the sunset. It's like you never hear from any of the Scorpio female members afterwards. That or one of em killed the other or they're both dead somewhere and that's why you don't hear anything."


Wow, F'n A, I hope that is the case with me and mine. We have been having a great time and getting closer everyday. I am just a little sceptical I guess.

LMAO @ wheelhomies!

"It's all about power & control. In general, people want what they cannot have. This scorp that you're talking about obviously can't handle the fact that he can't have that woman. I'll bet if she gives in, he'll lose interest in her."

I agree with mystic... He has always claimed to love her and always chased even when were involved but he was separated from his wife (not talking of working it out and going home). Now that he is she (I - LOL) can only respect that he is trying to make it work, but can no longer be involved. It could have never been anything serious anyway as I am actually divorced. We met when we were both separated from our spouses.

I agree with alena. He wants us both and I don't share! I am a scorp remember... LOL!!! He has been calling me all day every day. It is kind of affecting me because I do care a lot about him and we have become very close!

These are the things he said to me today:

I love my wife she has been there for me at times when no one else has. I am not happy at home. We don't get along. I owe her. I owe my kids to have a secure household. But I love you and we get along great and I wish things were different. I cannot take you being with someone else. I understand that you won't be involved with me as I have a wife and I try to respect it, but I can't. I just love you so much. She (he refers to his wife as "she" not "my wife").

Then he starts questioning if we were intimate or not and other personal info. I told him he went way too far with those questions and would he like me to ask him those same questions about him and his wife. I told him we can be friends and he will always be special to me but I am seriously seeing someone.

He tried to grab me and start kissing me, begging me to hug him etc. I then told him I couldn't see him anymore. Not even as a friend. I hate losing friends, but I can't deal with that shit!

Oh, he called my house all last night, while I was out and early this morning. Then when I finally answered he started with questioning if I was with him and if he spent the night. I just hung up. It is sad... I admit I sometimes feel bad, but I know I am doing nothing wrong. Things are the way they are and I am focusing my energy on the positive in my life right now.

SS he also said some of the things you said above. I just found it hard to believe.

Yeah, you guys are right. It is just craziness! The Aries is refreshing. He really is.

Hey QS! Im still around.. Aries are fun, one of my close friends is an Aries. He is kinda clingy though and a tad needy. Not a good mix for an aqua.

However.. me and Mr Scorp are having amazing casual sex. We laugh all night. Who knew. It's brand new but its delicious. The sex is a 10 everytime. WOW. My libra doesn't compare.

Plus he is gorgeous. We went out on our first date with some of his engineer buddies and right in front of them he grabs me and kisses me HARD for like 3 minutes.. I had to push him off.. OMG are scorps usually openly affectionate? ..and he says to them.."isn't she the prettiest girl I have ever been out with" they all stopped drinking and stared at me.. I was so embarrased! The way he kisses me is so sweet and passionate.. YEP! Uhh.. I think im in trouble already.. Im playin it cool though.

How should I handle him now.. Reading on this board it says they like strong independant women, which I already am naturally being an aqua plus we are detached, but I jus don't want to fall for him at all. I know he is a manwhore so im trying to keep my distance but OMFG he is amazing in bed. I am actually slipping on MY game. ..Thinking about tying him up next time and making him call me "mommy".. I need to get some control back.

QS you are always good at giving advice.. What sayeth ye?

Aquabrat! How have you been girlie? Aqua girl and Scorp guy always seem to be good in bed and have a great attraction, but the couple I have known didn't last long. I am sure it has to do with planet placements as well. Yours could be different.

Scorp men are really passionate and uhm the one I was involved with was my competition with the sex and the passion and intensity. We had a very strong sexual attraction and a really unique closeness he just can't take no for an answer even when he knows it is the right thing to do. 😢

DON'T BE TOO ALOOF, but don't be too clingy either. They do like independent women and women who will call them on their shit. Don't be the passive type. They will make you think that is what they want, but will soon become board. So just be you and don't let him get away with crap you don't want to. Be a freak in the bed and a lady in the street and let him know you have his back and you are good! They act all macho, but baby him a little. Adore him, tell him how handsome he is and how you like _______ about him. Give him lots of kisses and touch him often.