Scorpio men, help please!

I have been seeing a scorpio man for about 5 months. The relationship has been a roller coaster but has been getting better. My issue is that he's not avaliable when I need him to be. The other day I was vulnerable (had personal problems) and told him that i needed him an would like to see him (needed a hug). He said he wasnt avaliable to see me. Today, he told me that he cant be there for me like I want him to be.

So, Im at the point where a part of me wants to keep riding the roller coaster and the other part wants to leave because I want someone there for me in times of need.

FYI, he just started to open up and I dont want to take 10 steps back.

Oh yea!

Should this cancer girl keep riding the waves or move on to someone who's avaliable in all aspects.

Can anyone give advise on my issue?

all scorpio aside, if you can't get what you want now, what do you think will have to change in order to get it? and do you even have the energy to go there?

thanks for the opinions.

I've noticed that my scorp is VERY helpful if I have a physical problem like a backache or a leg cramp, but when it comes to an emotional issue he gets uncomfortable. The other day I told him about an insecurity dream that I had and he just said Oh Really?? Then he changed the subject. I tried to go back to talking about the dream again and he just didn't seem to want to talk to me about that. It's like he doesn't want to see any emotional vulnerability from me. I get the feeling that if I ever cry in front of him that he won't be able to handle it. I'm sure eventually he will see me cry because I do cry easily especially if I'm feeling frustrated.

Why?? Because they are not strong emotionally??

Well, I consider myself a strong woman. This is the first time that i put myself out there, to him. I had his back this week when he needed it but it wasnt recipocated. He does listen and give good advise but i wanted something physical. Everyone is correct. I need to move on because its not going to change. I want more and he isnt giving it.

"you better be ready to carry him and yourself...or find a macho aries or taurus or leo... "

That was clearly below the belt, Elena.

Flirtcancer, men are generally unavailable when you need them - thatz universal and accept it as a fact.

I wouldn't mind a hug aft an accident either 😉

LOL...maybe hez not aware of his sign then.

"I need to move on because its not going to change. I want more and he isnt giving it."

I have said this about every man I have ever dated no matter what sign he is except for one guy who ended up being a closet homosexual. In my opinion...If he has other really good qualities then keep him. Accept him for his weak points and cry on your girlfriend's shoulders when you need emotional support. That's what your girlfriends' are best at.

At least he's being honest with you and himself about what he's capable of/how much he's willing to put forth. It sounds like he finds you emotionally draining.If I were in your position I would tell him what I need and if he can't give it then say bye bye.