scorpio men I need advice!

I am a cancer woman and I met a scorpio guy online,it started off slow.he was never talkative but would just text small talk stuff, but was willing to talk on phone if I called,he told me he is just quiet...anyways we met after about a month and the 2nd time we met we had sex...clearly strong physical attraction. Now we've been sleeping together for a little over a month and he says he is bored and I need to spice it up. my problem is that without the emotional connection and REALLY getting to know eachother besides in the bedroom I feel unable to completely let go in the bedroom...I told him this but he says I should be able to cuz we been together for a"long time now"...I feel a connection with hima nd when I've backed off he makes sure to text me or call,I think to just make sure he still has me there. He says he wants a relationship but I don't know how to get him to talk to me so I can also get my needs met as a woman.the reassurance of his feelings for me. If I bring it up he assures me that I would not be around him if he didn't want me...please tell me what to do! Should I stop persuing him?

Some people just don't like talking on the phone, I know I don't. I'd rather keep in touch thru text and do all the talking in person. For me, sex is very important in a relationship....to the point that if it's bad, it's a deal breaker. Sex is a way for me to really let loose and express myself emotionally thru passion. I think you need to stop being scared in the bedroom. I understand that you need to feel comfortable with him, but if that's the case....why are you having sex with someone you don't feel comfortable with? Is it more about you just feeling insecure about how you're going to look in the bedroom? If you want that emotional connection with him, you're going to have to build it as with all relationships. Why not make plans where you can actually enjoy each other's company or do an activity together.