Scorpio Men?I'm confused Im Aquarius

Hello to All
I have been reading alot about scorpio and love this sign. I met this wonderful guy about 3 weeks ago,..he is soooo very passionate,loving,gentle,romantic,understanding,nice, very intelligent need i go on: )From what i have read he's suppose to be secretive. He opened up to me from day one. He talks to me about everything in his past. We;ve talked about his kids,his ex wife, his mom and dad ,.etc I feel like we've known each other for a very long time and he feels the same. He's the kind of guy that i can hug and kiss on,pretty much be myself..im so comfortable with him. He's not being secretive with me,.he's open,..is this the calm before the storm?


My Sun-Aquarius
Ascending-Scorpio
Moon-Virgo
Mars-Aries
Venus-Pisces
Pluto-Libra

Whats his charts look like?If you don't know,that may have something to do with it though so you can get info and check it out.I have alot of fire signs in particular sagittarius so im sometimes too open(my bluntness gets me in trouble or hurts peoples feelings when none was intented basically).It's a very intuitive(only in a more optimistic way rather than the suspecious type like water signs intuition)so I experiance instant clicks with certain people all the time and have them work out.

Oh yeah im a female scorp.

My best friend is a Sag and i can apperciate her bluntness and her being upfront,..i dont want someone to tell me what i Want to hear,.i would rather hear the Truth no matter what,.it took alot of maturity for Me to get to this point. Tiamat, my scorpio friend has been a complete gentleman. The chemisty is their between the both of us but he wont cross "The line" with me,.he hasnt really come on to me in three weeks or flirted. He tells me he has gone to strip clubs and the entire time he has spent maybe $ 5 bucks.He says his friends are all excited but that it doesn nothing for him(is he pulling my leg?)He says he would rather be in a nice restuarant conversating. Do you think he more of the Eagle, Pheonix,or Grey Lizzard?

I don't know from some of the females here whos dated a scorp man it's hard to say.I'd rather be in a restuarant having conversations but again im a chick.Theres also alot of females who claim to have met "smooth" talkers types in the ofrm of a scorp.Maybe you'll be lucky and elliot or someone will post on this.

("smooth" talkers types)

Keep your eyes open. Smooth talkers tickle my skeptical bone ha ha no seriously.
When someone seems too good to be true they must be. Atleast most of the time, we can't tell cuz we're not there.

"He tells me he has gone to strip clubs and the entire time he has spent maybe $ 5 bucks.He says his friends are all excited but that it doesn nothing for him(is he pulling my leg?)"

If he was telling me this I'd be thinking, "bull s4it"
Ofcourse there is so much that we can't know like the way he says it, why he brought it up, the look on his face, his eyes, movements, vibes... etc. etc.

Something else I was thinking was that sometimes people just give the impression that they're open... secretive implies what they're actually witholding from you. They may talk about everything from the ground up to the sky but are things really the way they say that they are, how do they actually feel about it, what's they're stance, ohhhh stuff like that I don't know.
Trust your own judgment... No one here can really say what kinda scorp or person he really is because we just talk based on our perceptions or assumptions based on very little information.
Luck!

Hi BlueAqua,
All I can say is that, as a Scorpio, he must yearn for a lot more intimacy than that strip club offers hah. What more can I tell you?? He's a Gentleman Scorpio? Go after him! Sure, he'll flirt with you sometimes, but I doubt that he's going to outright chase you - that's not sterotype Scorpio behavior. If you can go after him, and arouse his interest a little more in the process, he may catch on nicely.

Sorry, I can't say what type of person he is, like tauruschic said.

Hi everyone and thank you much for your insight,..i must say my scorpio surprised me constantly. He wanted to go to services with me last sunday but i was alittle hungover that morning. He constantly called me and we would talk for hours,..he would ask me how my day was going everyday and tell me everything that he wanted us to do together,.these weren't just mere words,. i felt he was speaking from his heart. He would tell me to call him,. . Well, i did call him but i didnt want to call him too much because i wanted to give him space also. Everything was going SOOOOOOOO Great,.....What is he afraid of that he goes from time to time and withdraws? I couldnt take all the twists with him,..so i let it go. If he could have trusted me alittle,..i could have loved him,...so thats how it ends

BlueAqua

Maybe that's just how he is hopefully--Scorpios are always full of surprises huh? 🙂

Hi intheShadows,..i'm beginning to think this is how he is,.a Good man. He left a message for me today that i was on his mind and he wanted to know how i'm doing. Well this was BEFORE he got my message that i was letting this go. Couple hours later i get a message and he said that i kinda broke his heart. He says he was thinking allday about why i did this and wanted to know if my reason was because of him and if nothing else why couldnt we at least be friends. I felt so bad: ( We finally talked about everything and we're going Great again. If a male scorpio says his heart was kinda broken,.how can i make this up to him? or should i prepare myself for the Sting? If the stings comming im starting to think he may be worth it; )

Just make sure your completely honest about making it up,no hold backs at all in that department.And maybe plan a little romantic evening for the two of you.Think senitmental and lovey dovey,water sign guys are big softies no matter how "hard" they sometimes try to act.

Well, the sting of a scorpio is inevitable, if you're gonna be with one, it will definitely happen at one time or another. But yeah, I would go with what GeminiLover said and just let things flow and see how they end up...good luck! I'm sure he's worth it though!