GlamScorp
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Scorpio Men, Lets Talk!
Posted by PlaguedIm not sure about placements. His birthday is October 24th
What are his other placements?
Posted by starlover1988
Which year?
Posted by ElleDuMonde11/14/1990
what about you?
Were in Michigan. I never threaten to not move in with him, it was all I ever thought about for the past year. When you say virgo venus isnt wishy washy does that mean he stands firm with his choice?
Posted by ElleDuMondeNope, this our first break up. Ive been aware of his comments about us spending more time together for awhile but ive always pushed it off to the side because I knew we was moving in together. This would be our 2nd intense argument (me not filtering my thoughts). He also has a roommate and with our different work schedules things was always a juggle. I am realizing there could have been some sacrifices I could have made.
have you two ever broken up?
Posted by SagiScorpI believe it could work again. This is my first time becoming aware of the things I say/said and I do see that there is a way to balance out being honest and being respectful. I do want to try again... I just dont know how or when it is a good time.
Well, it looks like he was pretty straight forward with you about the issues. Lack of time together, disrespect, and then talking about an ex was the final nail in the coffin.
I think he's gone. You could change and apologize and give it another shot, but in his mind he's probably thinking "I've endured the negatives for 3 years and nothing really changed" so I guess he decided to move on, even if he does care for you a great deal.
I think you should try again, but if you know deep down that the things that bothered him will continue to be an issue, there really isn't any point.
I plan on being in my own place by the end of the year and we spoke of that, hes actually helping me with figuring some things out and told me I can have everything that we bought for the previous place which was nice of him. I think that is a major step. Im just afraid of him moving on and confused on how to approach him. With it being so fresh I feel as if I am pushing it again. Ive been thinking about not speaking to him for awhile and see if space will do wonders.
You can't work on you, and the relationship at the same, you have to pick one, or nothing gets done. If it were me, I'd probably pick myself, not because it's selfish, but here are the reasons:
Working on yourself means:
Learning to be independent
Growing into yourself as an adult
Becoming well rounded
Learning to self soothe, aka defeating loneliness
If you walk the particular path of working on yourself, you become that much more evolved as a person, and have something within that is wonderful to share with someone.
Working on yourself means:
Learning to be independent
Growing into yourself as an adult
Becoming well rounded
Learning to self soothe, aka defeating loneliness
If you walk the particular path of working on yourself, you become that much more evolved as a person, and have something within that is wonderful to share with someone.
Posted by ElleDuMondeSince I have this Venus....Im curious to know why you think this.
well, for one...you rarely ever find a scorpio with a virgo venus on these boards....and if you do, they aren't here asking about relationships. It's just not one we ever see. They are rare.
so....I'd say he is pretty solid with his choices.....having the virgo venus....and either an aries moon (and possibly taurus based on time).
the only thing that could make you feel iffy is his libra merc....he may have a hard time expressing it out loud....but that doesn't change his actual decision.
Not questioning. Just curious.
Posted by ElleDuMondePosted by QuantumI don't know why that is....but every single virgo venus on a scorpio that I've seen grace these boards since I've been here for the past six years......never ask about relationships.Posted by ElleDuMondeSince I have this Venus....Im curious to know why you think this.
well, for one...you rarely ever find a scorpio with a virgo venus on these boards....and if you do, they aren't here asking about relationships. It's just not one we ever see. They are rare.
so....I'd say he is pretty solid with his choices.....having the virgo venus....and either an aries moon (and possibly taurus based on time).
the only thing that could make you feel iffy is his libra merc....he may have a hard time expressing it out loud....but that doesn't change his actual decision.
Not questioning. Just curious.
They are usually the advice givers...they don't even land their first post asking for advice....they immediately just start giving it....and it's usually logical, rational and spot on.
I think this venus is the best for scorpio, tbh.
I mean.....libra venus is flighty as fuck....SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO?
Scorpio venus is obsessive as fuck.....SHOULD I TAP THEIR PHONE?
Sag venus has no fucks to give.....WHEEEEEEEEE, I AM HERE FOR THE PARTY!!!!
Cap venus is like a unicorn....they probably just lurk.click to expand
Posted by brandypYou know over the past few days I've began to realize this as well. I believe he wanted to be free to clear some thoughts and just be free from having obligations. We've been trying to talk some things out but it became a broken record and hostile at times to the point where I lashed out loosing my self control over my emotions. In a nut shell I finished what he started and burned the relationship to the ground. I mean come on there is so many times you can keep kicking someone while their down. I know he thinks I am crazy now but at least I have some peace of mind and can move forward on working on myself instead of pondering will he come back to me.
IMHO, this guy broke up with you for really lame reasons. Maybe he has been thinking of being single, so he was looking for any excuse...you were making all these plans though so I really don't understand how one stupid comment about an ex could make it all crumble. He sounds kinda immature and needy tbh.
Deep down inside I still have some faith in rebuilding something with him but I will not hold my breath and wait for it. I want him to go out and see the grass isnt always greener on the other side while I decorate my new place 😉
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