breakup with Scorpio man

Hi, I am very very confused and I hope someone can help!!

First off, I will say he is a Scorpio sun, Gemini moon, Gemini rising, and Sagittarius venus!
I am a Gemini sun, Capricorn moon, sag rising, gemini venus!

We got into a relationship 3 months ago...things moved very fast and we fell in love easily. We began to get into some small arguments and I hurt him a lot. Things kind of got too much one night and we decided to take a break. I was very very sad about that and did some really nice things to "win him back". That worked for a week and he acted like he wanted to get back together but now he just wants to take a break for the rest of the summer because he doesn't know what he wants. He says he was overwhelmed with emotions. He fears that I have hurt him a lot and he doesn't know if he feels the way he felt about me.

What does it mean when a Scorpio doesn't know what he wants?

What can I do to get him back/is there anything I can do or is he already over me?

I love him so much and I want this to work but I just don't know what to do.

Thanks

One thing I can tell you is give him space. Scorps are brutally honest and if he says he doesn't know what he wants, he means it. He needs quiet to sort out his feelings. I went through something similar a few months ago and mine is still on his journey. If he loves you, he'll be back.

How did u hurt him?

Hi everyone i love u all for replying.

The thing is...what I did just doesn't seem that bad to me. Whenever I would feel as if he didn't care, instead of expressing that feeling...I would be very standoffish and somewhat rude. I brought up exes sometimes and kind of prodded him in ways that i knew would get to him...just because I wanted power (which, of course, Scorpios hate) but apparently this hurt him very badly because he can't seem to forgive me for it

and then it sort of all caught up with him and he was fed up with it...he questioned whether or not we are right for each other, if we just got into the relationship too quickly, etc.

We knew each other about one month before the relationship.

I wrote him a long letter and painted him a cooler (he mentioned a few times that it is something he would like, so i did it) and he cried and expressed his love for me (maybe he was guilty of something?) and said he wanted things to be back to normal.

Now I think he's just reflecting on his thoughts before I did those sweet things...and last night it got brought up and we decided to end things because he "needs to figure out what he wants"

what are the best tactics to get him to miss me?

ok thanks everyone

and also, what do you all think he is thinking about the situation? i mean he talked about marriage and stuff it just all seems a bit odd that the feelings can go away just like that

Posted by Udylaw
How did u hurt him?

Whenever I would feel as if he didn't care, instead of expressing that feeling...I would be very standoffish and somewhat rude. I brought up exes sometimes and kind of prodded him in ways that i knew would get to him...just because I wanted power (which, of course, Scorpios hate) but apparently this hurt him very badly because he can't seem to forgive me for it

even when i did the really nice thing for him he still can't figure out what he wants...which i don't get.

how do i make him miss me/realize i'm what he wants?

Posted by brandyp
What did you do to hurt him??

Whenever I would feel as if he didn't care, instead of expressing that feeling...I would be very standoffish and somewhat rude. I brought up exes sometimes and kind of prodded him in ways that i knew would get to him...just because I wanted power (which, of course, Scorpios hate) but apparently this hurt him very badly because he can't seem to forgive me for it

and like now, even though i did the super nice thing, he can't seem to forgive me. and says he doesn't know what he wants.

how do i get him to miss me/figure out that i'm what he wants?

Posted by lovinglioness1115
1. How long did you guys know each other for before getting in a relationship with each other?
2. What did you do to hurt him?
3. What did you do to win him back?

Whenever I would feel as if he didn't care, instead of expressing that feeling...I would be very standoffish and somewhat rude. I brought up exes sometimes and kind of prodded him in ways that i knew would get to him...just because I wanted power (which, of course, Scorpios hate) but apparently this hurt him very badly because he can't seem to forgive me for it

and then it sort of all caught up with him and he was fed up with it...he questioned whether or not we are right for each other, if we just got into the relationship too quickly, etc.

We knew each other about one month before the relationship.

I wrote him a long letter and painted him a cooler (he mentioned a few times that it is something he would like, so i did it) and he cried and expressed his love for me (maybe he was guilty of something?) and said he wanted things to be back to normal.

Now I think he's just reflecting on his thoughts before I did those sweet things...and the other night it got brought up and we decided to end things because he "needs to figure out what he wants"

what are the best tactics to get him to miss me?

Wow!Scorpios sometimes hide their true feelings.It doesn't mean they don't care,bringing up exes wasn't a good idea I pray he forgives you.Give him space he will come around