scorpio / scorpio break up

hello, I'm new to this , this is my first post,

I had been together w/ another scorpio for about 3 yrs & I ended up breaking it off w/ him mainly because he was just not happy with his life & himself & was taking a lot of his anger out on me. The break up was extremely civil,if it's possible probably 1 of the most civil/ loving break ups 2 scorpios could have. It will be 2 months that we have been broken up this week, & he for the first time in all that time called me last friday, after almost 2 months of not speaking. I really just wanted him to get his life together ,so that he could be happy within himself & so that we could be happy together, & although i want to be with him, I have always been the one to swallow my pride & go back & try to make up with him, if we ever did get back together it would have to be him to call me and try to make things wrk , because then in my opinion it would mean that he really did want to be with me.

I was out to dinner with some friends at a restaurant and we were done with dinner & my friends & I were just hanging out drinking a little but the bill had been paid for etc. so then I get the phone call & i see that it's my x & at this point I'm kind of drunk, so think to myself that its really not happening, i stared at my phone for 5 mins & my friend yells at me to pick up! at this point i think that maybe i'll just call him back or not pick up , but i picked up & the x says hi, so i say hi back. It's obvious that I'm out & he hears the music, he then says oh your are busy & i let him know that its fine, & ask him what's up & if everything is ok.

he tells me that his dog got out & he can't find her ( i helped raise his 2 dogs, so i'm really close to them .I love them very much. It has it been really hard not being with the x, but what makes it worse is not being able to see the dogs, they were like our kids ) he tells me that he needs help looking for her, so then i tell him i will be there to help in 10 mins , he replies, oh thanks so much , if I find her I'll send you a text, & i said sure. My friend speeds home & when I get homeI get a text where he tells me that they found her. He says thank you so much for picking up thanks so much. At this point i say what the hell & Instead of texting him back i just call him & ask where they found his dog. He tells me that his mom found her. He sounded like he was panting & out of breathe so i ask him if he is ok, he tells me that he was in the reservation.

and so then i asked him if he needed a ride &he says no bc he has his truck, some guy had been helping him look for the dog, he's like thank you so much for helping , thank you from the bottom of my heart blah blah blah, i let him know that of course i would help bc i love those dogs & i miss them all the time, he lets me know that they miss me a lot too , he said that a couple of times, I say that i miss them like crazy, and that i had seen them the other day and i had a mental break down bc i missed them so much. he says again that they miss me , and then i had to be a pyscho of course, bc i was getting mad bc the conversation was goign anywhere that I was like well im trying to move out of this town, (yes i know good one d) and i think omg why the eff did i just say that hahah.... but before I even said that he says that we could go to the dog park? I dont remember the exact words and i I am kind of hesitant but say ok but in my head i think, WHY CANT I SEE THEM NOW SINCE I JUST LEFT DINNER TO LOOK FOR THEM ASS!! He says again they miss you a lot , and then he said he did to, and i literally could not believe that he said that he missed me to since he hasnt even tried to talk to me at all. I can't believe what I am hearing so i ask him to repeat and he says that he misses me I let him know that I miss him to obviously, &there was a lot of silence, he says this is weird , and i agree . I then say to him im kind of confused we havent spoken in like 2 months & you didnt even say hi to me at that restaurant, i didnt do anything to you , did I ? why didnt you say hi, i know that you saw me the owner had told me that he did. and his repsonse is that he didnt know how to act or what to say , and he didnt want to upset you or ruin my time if I were having fun, he says i'm sorry, He thanks me for my help & says he really appreciates it and his fam does to, to me and my fam. I think wtf, my family didnt help, and I tell him, my family is away & arent home I'm the only one, He replies well my family says thank you to , & i was like well tell them I said hi if they dont hate me.. & he lets me know they dont hate me, There's more silence &i ask what he is doing, he said that he had wrk at 6 am the next day , & that he thought that his mom hurt herself , so he was going to check on her, so i say oh ok well bye and then he said bye and he hung up I send him a text after & say I really miss them ( the dogs) terribly I hate it, I'm sorry if I was being

if I was being mean I just wanted to see them, and then says , Its ok I understand , I'm sorry for making you upset by calling you. really i am, and then i said it's ok im just going to stay in now.... and that was it....


I'm kind of confused by his actions ... my friends tell me that he did it bc its obvious that he just wanted to talk to me, but I have no clue, would anyone have other opinions?

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Posted by IntriguedScorp
Why do I get the feeling there is more to this story. But yeah, you sound like your heart is breaking so far. Sorry about that. 😢

yes, it was to long to post in just one of the text fields, I appreciate it though, i do miss him everyday but i think that although i miss and love him, i think that i am slowly getting better everyday ... i just am really confused as to what he wants and i dont have time or the patience to play games