Scorpio sun and Venus came

I knew a Scorpio lady online and we hit it off in a big way. We both were in love in a big way. Due to location, being in different countries it didn't work out. She wanted it all or nothing and would take no less. Plus she was always very mistrustful of people yet she trusted other people. The more submissive and stable types.

This is a really long story so I will try and condense it. I introduced her to a friend of mine who is a lot like me, who she didn't like initially. When she and I got into a fight I ditched her for 6 months because it was a bad right. Low and behold I return to see my supposed friend has been making the moves on her. Bare in mind he knew how crazy obsessed and in love I was with this woman. He and I argued about it she picked my side and he said he would never contact us again. A couple of months later she and I got into a fight and I never heard from her again. I tried to contact her about 5 times over a 3 year span. She never returned my emails even though I knew she still checked the account. The last email I sent her was in October. 3 days ago she replied to the email. She told me she didn't know how to approach me after all this time and she was unsure if be able to digest or accept what had happened in her life. I took a wild guess and said what did you get with him? Which she relied yes I married him.

It's been 3 years! I've moved on and I'm happier than ever. But her reappearance has opened some major wounds in my life. Can anyone shed some light? Why did she come back? When I asked her why. She told me that "he" had told her not to contact me and reply to what I said to her each time I attempted to contact her. So she didn't for 3 years. So why now?
She's one of those scorpios that won't ever answer your questions she also is very hot and cold. One min she acts like she cares the next min she switched it on you and makes you feel like a crazy person.

I asked he how she felt about me? Her reply was. If you're looking for a romantic gesture I can't give you one. I take my vows to my husband very seriously. So then why contact me? Especially after mentioning her husband disapproved of her speaking with me ever again.

I guess I should mention she was married before for 2 years. She left a 10 year relationship for the new guy, wasn't happy in that relationship for years. She's also an ex sex addict. I know she stays in situations for stability.

Any insight on this would be greatly appreciated. Please and thank you .

I tried to write came back after 3 years what the heck!!! Lol

You have the same placements as her.

Idk, sounds shady on both their parts and I would get rid of both of them. Just saying.

Wait did she marry your friend or someone else? She sounds manipulative.

She cant be THAT young if shes had a 10 yr relationship. Maybe shes just unevolved.

wow, after reading all this it sounds very strange - an online relationship where you never meet ? how does that work in a real world ?

Hey everyone, thanks for all the advice. So much excellent insight here. I am very greatful. To the lady who posted a previous post of mine. That girl and I actually got into a serious relationship. We met a couple of times through the span of 6 months and plan to move in together in a year or 2. Yes it's long distance but it has been so worth it!

Now as for the problem I mentioned here. I told her that I had moved on and didn't wanna make my new girlfriend uncomfortable by associating with her. She came back with a reply that was as if she had the same idea. Something about she shouldn't have gone against her husbands wishes. Who cares. I deleted it and moved on. I have realized dwelling in the past is pointless. But thank you all for your advice. Also to answer some questions she's 36 years old and I'm 27. I met her when I was 21.

Oh and to the person who brought up my old post. Funny thing is both these ladies have Taurus moons. 🙂

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Posted by PancakeFace

She wanted it all or nothing and would take no less.

Of course! She already had a strategy in place. I bet that, if you went along with it, that first fall-out probably wouldn't have happened.

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Plus she was always very mistrustful of people yet she trusted other people. The more submissive and stable types.

In other words, she felt more comfortable around people she felt she could manipulate and/or who she could financially gain from...

Posted by PancakeFace

I take my vows to my husband very seriously.

That's why her last marriage lasted only two years...

Posted by PancakeFace

I guess I should mention she was married before for 2 years. She left a 10 year relationship for the new guy, wasn't happy in that relationship for years. She's also an ex sex addict. I know she stays in situations for stability.

She sounds like a chronic bed-hopper.

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Bro! You are a genius!!! You have literally answered all my nagging questions thank you!