A hot Scorpion w.o Fetishes?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Peanutbutter on Wednesday, April 6, 2016 and has 35 replies.

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Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Scorpio 12°05'
Moon Gemini 26°23'
Mercury Scorpio 2°57'
Venus Scorpio 12°17'
Mars Capricorn 2°54'
Jupiter Scorpio 18°57'
Saturn Libra 27°14'
Uranus Sagittarius 3°31'
Neptune Sagittarius 25°14'
Pluto Libra 27°29'
Lilith Capricorn 15°13'

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Posted by Arielle83
Hey, so this is what I've noticed.

I'd throw out kinky shit to my scorpio and he'd reject it, but now that it's been 5 years, he's coming to me with different kinks.

So maybe they are there, they are just weirder.

Also maybe needs more trust to reveal the kinks.

True, true. I can see this being the case especially when they're dating someone for the long haul. He said he wants to take things slow and make sure my needs are met first... & well Im not one to argue so............. lmao

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Posted by trollbait
Posted by Peanutbutter
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Scorpio 12°05'
Moon Gemini 26°23'
Mercury Scorpio 2°57'
Venus Scorpio 12°17'
Mars Capricorn 2°54'
Jupiter Scorpio 18°57'
Saturn Libra 27°14'
Uranus Sagittarius 3°31'
Neptune Sagittarius 25°14'
Pluto Libra 27°29'
Lilith Capricorn 15°13'

His Mars is in Cap.

Well, good luck then. :/

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I got a dud didnt I?! Damn it! LOL

& @Impulsv, thats what Im hoping, to be pleasantly surprised!

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Posted by trollbait
Posted by Peanutbutter
Posted by trollbait
Posted by Peanutbutter
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Scorpio 12°05'
Moon Gemini 26°23'
Mercury Scorpio 2°57'
Venus Scorpio 12°17'
Mars Capricorn 2°54'
Jupiter Scorpio 18°57'
Saturn Libra 27°14'
Uranus Sagittarius 3°31'
Neptune Sagittarius 25°14'
Pluto Libra 27°29'
Lilith Capricorn 15°13'

His Mars is in Cap.

Well, good luck then. :/

I got a dud didnt I?! Damn it! LOL

& @Impulsv, thats what Im hoping, to be pleasantly surprised!

Not a dud.

You just have to be extremely convincing.

Mars in Capricorn is all about having complete control of the senses.

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Sounds hot

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Posted by Taniwha
Posted by trollbait
Posted by Peanutbutter
Posted by trollbait
Posted by Peanutbutter
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Scorpio 12°05'
Moon Gemini 26°23'
Mercury Scorpio 2°57'
Venus Scorpio 12°17'
Mars Capricorn 2°54'
Jupiter Scorpio 18°57'
Saturn Libra 27°14'
Uranus Sagittarius 3°31'
Neptune Sagittarius 25°14'
Pluto Libra 27°29'
Lilith Capricorn 15°13'

His Mars is in Cap.

Well, good luck then. :/

I got a dud didnt I?! Damn it! LOL

& @Impulsv, thats what Im hoping, to be pleasantly surprised!

Not a dud.

You just have to be extremely convincing.

Mars in Capricorn is all about having complete control of the senses.

Gem Moon aswell, Probably a freak but that Scorpio Venus will make it hard to unlock his... whatever the fuck he does.

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Hard to get him to open up?? Or unleash his inner freak? Lol

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That was the point. It was meant to show the contrast between the spectrum of being super duper vanilla and kink/fetishes. As in can I even count on some hair pulling like what do I have to do to get even the minimal amount of frisk from this guy LOL It was meant to be interpreted as me having to stir the pot and get the ball rolling because he makes himself sound vanilla.

Though Im sure all the Scorp in him makes him super sensual and passionate..

Ok, mind is officially wandering... wandering... and gone 😉

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But yes for many hair pulling can be considered kinky and/or incorporated in fet play. Some find aggression in bed kinky others find total submission/dominance a fetish and a kink. Its all up for interpretation.

Some believe its normal day to day lol. One persons kink is anothers normal 😉

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Posted by Taniwha
Honestly I don't think Fetishes are very Scorpio. We tend to be more worried about the act of love making itself. A fetish just seems like an excuse to not get intimate with someone or a way to draw attention from your lack of sexual prowess. We are more likely to fuck your brains out then try and distract you with shiny objects.

On the other hand if you are into fetishes (obviously you are) then I wouldn't be opposed to playing along...

this.

my husband doesn't like "fetishes" this isn't a scorpio thing. I think it's an individual thing and some people get bored and want to shake it up.

scorpio the sign is about DEEP love, not adventuring everywhere in the bedroom.

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Posted by Peanutbutter
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Scorpio 12°05'
Moon Gemini 26°23'
Mercury Scorpio 2°57'
Venus Scorpio 12°17'
Mars Capricorn 2°54'
Jupiter Scorpio 18°57'
Saturn Libra 27°14'
Uranus Sagittarius 3°31'
Neptune Sagittarius 25°14'
Pluto Libra 27°29'
Lilith Capricorn 15°13'

maybe with gem moon he will need talk, like 'Hey baby you so hot, yeah give it to me, kind of thing..yeah you like that huh mmmmm mmm " so they talk and make it sexy? sort of like a Gemini mars maybe (That's what I read too in astrology sites that air mars, esp gem mars likes to talk) so maybe with gem moon same thing.

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we have the best sex
with one person who
really has us in the
heart and soul.

we do things that we
dare not do with any
other person.

for me personally,
there is sex, then
there is beyond it.
it is tied with love
and loyalty.

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Posted by Taniwha
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What ever you do don't let him get the impression that his style of love making is "Vanilla" or boring. Cue the disaparing Scorpio act and a thread tittled 'why has my scorpio gone cold all of a sudden for no reason I didn't do anything wrong'

You catch my drift?

Nvm, I already have that impression. Here's my best advice so far, Don't go into a sexual relationship expecting anything other than to experience that person. Deep intimacy like that with someone you care about is better than anything you can dream up or hope for anyway.

Listen to me all preachy now, lmfao!

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Truest thing posted here recently.

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Posted by Peanutbutter
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Scorpio 12°05'
Moon Gemini 26°23'
Mercury Scorpio 2°57'
Venus Scorpio 12°17'
Mars Capricorn 2°54'
Jupiter Scorpio 18°57'
Saturn Libra 27°14'
Uranus Sagittarius 3°31'
Neptune Sagittarius 25°14'
Pluto Libra 27°29'
Lilith Capricorn 15°13'

Gem moon....his kink is cheating. lol

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Posted by Taniwha
Posted by Taniwha
What ever you do don't let him get the impression that his style of love making is "Vanilla" or boring. Cue the disaparing Scorpio act and a thread tittled 'why has my scorpio gone cold all of a sudden for no reason I didn't do anything wrong'

You catch my drift?

Nvm, I already have that impression. Here's my best advice so far, Don't go into a sexual relationship expecting anything other than to experience that person. Deep intimacy like that with someone you care about is better than anything you can dream up or hope for anyway.

Listen to me all preachy now, lmfao!

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Preach boy, preach! Lol 🙌ðŸ½

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Posted by MoonArtist
Posted by Peanutbutter
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Scorpio 12°05'
Moon Gemini 26°23'
Mercury Scorpio 2°57'
Venus Scorpio 12°17'
Mars Capricorn 2°54'
Jupiter Scorpio 18°57'
Saturn Libra 27°14'
Uranus Sagittarius 3°31'
Neptune Sagittarius 25°14'
Pluto Libra 27°29'
Lilith Capricorn 15°13'

Gem moon....his kink is cheating. lol

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Lmao! Yeah, Im not very fond of the air moons. Hopefully itll make the rest of his water signs lighten up a bit because I get the feeling hes one of those intense all or nothing types. I read scorpio men well, this thread was made partly in jest.

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Posted by Ryoko
This guy is lying... We all have fetishes. His must be so freaky, he might never tell you.

Thats what Im banking on, hes being reserved so he doesnt scare me away lol. I told him to try me but hes playing it close to his chest this one 😛

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Posted by Taniwha
Honestly I don't think Fetishes are very Scorpio. We tend to be more worried about the act of love making itself. A fetish just seems like an excuse to not get intimate with someone or a way to draw attention from your lack of sexual prowess. We are more likely to fuck your brains out then try and distract you with shiny objects.

On the other hand if you are into fetishes (obviously you are) then I wouldn't be opposed to playing along...

I love this. My Libra venus is all about that all-consuming love affair after all.

Posted by Taniwha
What ever you do don't let him get the impression that his style of love making is "Vanilla" or boring. Cue the disaparing Scorpio act and a thread tittled 'why has my scorpio gone cold all of a sudden for no reason I didn't do anything wrong'

You catch my drift?

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Gottchya. No no, I havent made him feel any less, he basically stated (as you all did) that he doesnt need all the extra bells and whistles which translates to him being *that* good. Lol. Im very open in that area of life as long as its with someone I love and trust, why not.