Scorpio woman

here is what I found from a site and I feel that it is very true in many aspects.

The Scorpio Woman is an eternally intriguing creature who, like the
Sphinx, seems to know and guard the riddles of life and death. She
either fascinates or frightens nearly every man. She is magnetic,
lusty, and endowed with mysterious powers. She can devastate with
a look or revitalize with the healing energy in her eyes and hands.

The Scorpio Woman accumulates anger slowly but surely. Usually
holds it back as securely as she would tie a bay to her back. She
appears as cool and calm as the eye of a storm. But the calm of the
eye has never yet stopped the storm from raging. It is a mistake to
think she is indifferent deep-down. Her embers never cool. It is
much safer to assume she is bidding her time until the right moment
comes.

To understand Scorpio, one must be aware of her needs for both
privacy and power. She is often lonely and misunderstood. Despite
her appearance of fearless indominability, she craves acceptance and
understanding. She wants emotional peace but lives on the edge of
compulsive excess. She is intense and polarized about everything in
her life.

Contd..

The Scorpio Woman loves sex and abandons herself to all its delights.
Her sense are highly developed, and she "feels" through all of them.
She hungers for touch and for a man's body. She delights in his shape,
textures, and potency. When she loves, she loves with fierce loyalty.
When she lusts, she longs for the meshing and thrashing of bodies from
the depth of her being. In her torrid phase, the Scorpio Woman has a
whore's vocabulary and the lust of a sex-starved mariner. She drives a
man wild -- satisfying more of his desires than he ever knew he had.
She is a virtuoso who makes sex worth living for. Sex fuels her in a
way nothing else does. She enjoys it even though she may calculate
precisely with whom to mate in order to best advance her causes.

The Scorpio Woman does not carry the problems of the world on
her shoulders, but she has a strong puritanical streak. She will go
through periods of complete withdrawals from sexual activity as a
result of guilt over her sexual passions and activities, and she may
swear to forgo them. However, the Scorpio Woman's sensual nature
is so strong that when some of her basic needs are unmet, she literally
consumes herself with illness, frustration, and anger.

The Scorpio Woman above all needs a strong, intuitive, and tolerant
male. She is a demanding, lusty lover and -- let's face it -- hard to
satisfy. Fainthearted men need not apply. He must be physically
strong to keep up with her libido, emotionally healthy and intuitive so
as to facilitate her own liberation. Give-and-take, strength and
tolerance, are keys to a successful connection with her.

Contd..

The Scorpio Woman is loyal and chooses her commitments carefully.
She is a private person, and her own person. In many ways, she feels
she does not really need other people. Normally she selects a small
circle of friends, and of these, most are bound to be men. She lacks
the empathy and easygoing qualities other women seem to want in
female friends. She neither likes nor understand flighty people or
quick relationships. When she opens up to someone, she expects to
have that person around for life. If something goes wrong, she is
bound either to withdraw without explanation or to lash out.

Integrative power, or the power of cooperation and love, is probably the
most universal goal of people who have lived, survived crises, and
developed some awareness of self and the meaning of life. Achieving
integrative power is the particular challenge of the Scorpio Woman. She
has the power both of healing and of destruction, and both to an extreme.
She is at once impotent Cassandra and raging Clytemnestra. The special
task of the Scorpio Woman is to overcome the misuse of power and
arrive at the point where she uses power in the service of love, the
truly integrative force.

*Bennett, Judith. (1980). Sex Signs. New York: St. Martin's Press.

"She lacks the empathy and easygoing qualities other women seem to want in
female friends. She neither likes nor understand flighty people or
quick relationships. When she opens up to someone, she expects to
have that person around for life. If something goes wrong, she is
bound either to withdraw without explanation or to lash out"

YES this is sooo true.

WOW!!! Uhm, well put, and right on target!!! I was thinking of pulling out some of the characteristics that I most identify with, but then it would probably be the whole passage... Thank you very much for sharing!! 🙂 🙂 🙂

wow, there is a lot on there that is true....

"She lacks the empathy and easygoing qualities other women seem to want in
female friends.

wow i don't agree with that at all...maybe most scorpio women are like that, but i don't classify myself as one. I like to think i'm very caring and i have much empathy...most of my female friends love the fact that they can talk to me about anything, and i'm very sensitive to their subjects...if anything, it's men i can't be friends with...cause i often times fall for them...

but that was a pretty interesting read...a lot of those things i fall into...and a lot i don't.

I can relate to all of it. 100% scorptastic and fkn loving it!...

Same here MM. 100% true for me too and that is why I posted it for all of you fellow scorpionesses !!! 🙂 🙂 🙂

dyrstr8z, you are welcome 🙂

That sounds very much like myself.
The description is very much like the U2 song,
"Until the end of the world"

The only part of the profile I don't fit too well it the sexual nature part. I'm wondering what has happened to this part of me! The part about what happens if I'm not satisfied is true though. I would hardly call myself a wild vixen!! A strange confession though, I caught the look of a young man through a crowd that made me melt! Wow! I'm hoping to awaken the deeper positive aspects of my sign. I thought that was a good sign that lustful attraction and magnetism still exist even though I intend to keep the physical act of it between my husband and me.

scorpio women can be very loyal to thier mates..but often forgets that she is still sexually appealing to other men🙂

Kris - you might've reached that stage in your relationship where the passion has died..Thats if your in a relationship. I had this when I was with my Leo. It was almost traumatising..The only way out for me was to end it and I did.

Why is it that one seems to get more attention whilst in a relationship? lol..always kinda bugged me because theres no way I would cheat on my man.

missmorals,
Yeah, 21 years with my libra husband. Passion has waned and I'm not expecting it to return to what it was in the early days. I'm not yet willing to sacrifice what we've kept going just for a look. That's not to say I didn't revel in the idea of a lustful look. I'm thinking I would like to be more in tune with my attractiveness. If it works to keep my own home spark going, that's how I would like to channel that energy.

Lol, I get that too. At the moment there is a Scorpio guy after me. Now, I have not done anything to lead him on, haven't flirted one bit simply because my mind is not with it and he keeps saying, you don't even realise what you are doing sometimes. I am at a loss...Its kinda cool that we have this effect on people without even realising..ooooh the power!!!!!!!

"Normally she selects a small circle of friends, and of these, most are bound to be men"

So true, who needs a lot of female friends.

Here is a tip...treat all as venomous...and walk softly...odds are you will fail in her eyes anyway...I mean, we are men to begin with,...but remember to take the blame for everything she comments on...and NEVER say the absolute truth when she asks for it...it is her trick...she will give you the impression that it is not a big deal...BUT IT IS...make sure you tell her what she wants to hear...then REMEMBER IT, she will check again...whether it is a month from now or a year...


so you attended my seminar last week...

LMAO - so you attended my seminar last week...

Dancing bread,

Why so much hatred for scorp females ??

Some one has really pissed you off. And in typical pluto fashion you have turned against all scorp females 🙂

You are so logical otherwise. Why so biased here ??

Db, I'm sure my libra husband would totally agree with you right now. In fact at my worst, those things are true. If it's for self defense then it's like a reflex. (I'm not trying to make excuses for involantary meanness) In some ways I need to have this affirmed and then see I if I can temper myself. There's a part of me that wants to fully embrace what I am but I'm afraid that would be the death knell to my relationship. Holding back seems to make things worse because of my urge to express myself. It comes out so spastically! ARGH!!!

I'm stuck in the deep inward looking phase right now. I have no way to reassure my husband that it's all going to come out alright!

Thank you DB, good to see you too 🙂

Kriz,

despite being a scorpio and having all those churning inner turmoils, I go for peace and forgive easily UNLESS I AM PUSHED TOO FAR 😉
it must be my libra moon doing the trick coz I can see the other person's view also.
BUt if I am pushed too far, then it will indeed be a volcaniic eruption. But that happens so rarely.

I HATE BEING A FUCKING SCORPIO FEMALE TODAY!!

FUCK ME!

THIS IS SUCH SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FUCKINGFUCKETYFUCKFUCKFUCKMOTHAAAHHHHHFAHHHHHKAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AND NO! THE VIRGO MOON *IS NOT* HELPING!!!!

topazwoman, I want to go for peace, love and joy! Something in me craves acceptance and tolerance of my worst traits. Geeze that sounds lke classic childhood issues to me. I have venus in libra. Isn't there some Ptolemic conflict between Venus and the Mars in Scorpio? I should probably study up more on what this could mean.

DB, thanks, I hope the storm passes soon too and that the house is still standing!

o_O
vvv
shit
^^^

I'm tapped...

ummm

THE PILLS— puh lease!!!

((@)_(@))

this is such a crock of shit...

*throws placebos at helpless kitty*

Hehe! I feel like I'm not too far from needing some of those pills. Toss some of those my way please! Fagh!

BLESS IT ALL!!!!!

EAT

o_O

vvv
gash
^^^

DB why you put us out there, are you still harboring feelings for a scorpio.


"Yes, a scorpio female did piss me off back in the day...but I buried her a long time ago" are you sure?

DB I gonna take a wild guess and say you had the poisonous scorpio.


For me know that I am older, I am much calmer, I have found a more subtle way to sting people, like just stop all communication.

I have found a more subtle way to sting people, like just stop all communication.
- This has ALWAYS been my way.

this was a 'praise the goddess scorpios' thread...

No DB, i was not looking for praises from anyone. I found it acidentally and since it was almost 100% true for me, I wanted to share it with my scorp sisters.

Don't you know that a scorpio (male/female) never fishes for compliments for they are sure of themselves and definitely do not need someone else to tell them what they are or are not.

Okay so you are not going to answer my second question. So we shall not go there okay.

And I tried to find about the male scorp in that site as I am more interested in it coz of HIM. But it was not there 😢

"Don't you know that a scorpio (male/female) never fishes for compliments for they are sure of themselves and definitely do not need someone else to tell them what they are or are not"

That is so true Topazwoman, No kudo's no nothing, I can't stand it. I know I am good at what I do from dressing myself to sex, who needs a complements, people should me happy I compliment them.

hmm...scorpios are passionate, but at many times directionless without help from an outside source...we may be survivors, but this is not a solo mission...

it must be the differences in the individual charts. Whatever oppositions I have faced, ....they have only made me stronger. In fact oppositions & criticisms bring out the best in me. I work best alone and enjoy my solitude. At the same time can be very sociable in parties (libra moon + leo ascendant + chinese snake). I don't go soaring up when someone pays me a compliment. however a genuine compliment from someone I care about can warm my heart.

Oh yes scorppionlady so you do understand me 🙂

Most Def.

A compliment never hurt anyone. People can flatter me all they like but just don't expect it in return as I can't stand doing it to anyone.

"Problem I have with scorpio women is their smoke screen of confidence" - I don't agree with this statement. I think everyone has insecurities of some kind its how you deal with them that makes you stronger in the long run.

Problem I have with scorpio women is their smoke screen of confidence...b/c I can see more than what you just say...you are effected by what people say...you may not admit it...you may even try to ignore it...but it's there..festering into a monster...when it is released, God help any person in your way...

I would call it constructive criticium, and I can't stand it.

'That seems like compliments do make a difference...'

Yes when they are from people close to you and whom you trust. Others are just adorning their social/public masks and do not mean 99% of what they say. and I don't trust them and so do not care for 'their' compliments. But I long and long for my trusted friends's/relation's compliments

'if you work better when people criticize, obviously it is effecting you...even in a positive way...'

In my office I see that many people are affected by what other say to a greater extent than me. It has been like that from my student days. Once in my college, I scored very exceptionally high marks and an old woman working there in a lower post asked me whether I had secured pass marks. Instead of feling offended with her, i smiled and replied 'yes'. My friend who was with me was shocked and asked me why I did not feel offended when I was the topper. I just did not feel like broadcasting it to the poor lady who had meant no harm to me.
Anyway as you said oppositions do have positive effct on me 🙂


'Point being...what people say does matter...b/c it affects us in a positive or negative light...'

DB, what I mean is that I listen to my conscience and gut feelings. Once I take a stand or like someone, no other person's opinion is going to change it, unless the personn proves to be unworthy of my loyalty

Problem I have with scorpio women is their smoke screen of confidence...b/c I can see more than what you just say...you are effected by what people say...you may not admit it...you may even try to ignore it...but it's there..festering into a monster...when it is released, God help any person in your way...


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I spent a lot of time on that...yeah...not that I'm this great artist or anything *fishyfishy* Infact my artwork really sucks...

*long pause*....I SAID my artwork really sucks- and I'm a TERRIBLE ARTIST...*silence*...no creativity at AT ALL!

OKAY...well *reels in the empty line* I know my art is fabtastic...*arrogant smirk* I don't need YOU people to tell me that...


o_O,


*single tear slides down cheek*

it- it's nothing...I had something in my eye okay—

do you like the cross?

even though I'm not religious...I really think it communicates the point effectively...I did have a little trouble forming the casket- but..mm ahh well...practice makes perfect...

you know- in all seriousness...I do have a tendency to pretend I know what I'm talking about when I have abs no clue...

@_@

but for the most part- that's just for my own entertainment...just to see if I can get away with it you know? o_O)) BUT REALLY - with friends- I'm pretty open...I mean...if I wanna know what someone thinks- I usually just ask...openly! Unless...I want to find out what they think but don't want them to know that I CARE about what they think so I'll just ask someone else to find out for me or stalk them for a while...

hm

well...it's COM plicated...I would explain further but no one would understand...

NO ONE UNDERSTANDS ME!!!!!

GOD!

I HATE YOU ALL!!!! You PEOPLE!!!!

*runs off the thread*

*walks back on*

it's cool it's cool

I just had a moment that's all...you know...us artists- we can be very temper*mental*

plus all that scorp can make me moody...anyway...yesterday I heard that the sun was going to explode in our lifetime! Can you believe that? I mean...wow...the discovery channel really freaks me out sometimes...

Oooh, I didn't even know that I was being mistaken for someone else! I don't even want to know what that is all about!!

Thanks for the welcome M&MGEM! There seems to be a lot of wisdom here that rises above nonsense! It's just what I need right now! I would like to lighten up and have some fun too. I've had some of my best times in the past 6 or so years on a mountain bike forum website. Fun interesting people, many who I've met and rode with in real life and remain friends with.

I like the internet and the new kind of community it fosters.

I'm sorry Kriz

I was talking about KriS

not you...

kris the kitty...I didn't get you two confused either...I was just being an ass to d-_-b 🙂

hey!

I just inspired a new one!!

wearing headphones!!----------> d-_-b

I'm so damn creative I can't even fucking stand myself...

Last night when I had thoughts exploding in my head dying to get out and Mr. was going to explode if I talked anymore to him, I really wanted to do some clandestined "artwork" on the mirror in red lipstick. Then I thought, "how crazy" and I tried to go to sleep.

I wonder if the sun would explode in the sign of scorpio or would some fire sign be more appropriate? Which one? (oops is that a call to stir up a flame war?)

So, that might be classified as typical scorpio behavior, to second guess? I have my moon in gemini and saturn in aquarius. Sometimes I wonder what makes me tick. Maybe this awareness could really help me!!!