scorpio woman confused about capricorn man! help!!

Hey everyone here is my situation:

I met this capricorn a few weeks ago, we went out for drinks and really hit it off. He then asked me out on a nice dinner date the following friday, we talked all week leading up to the date even talked on the phone for 3 hours one night...he even wanted to see me before the date but I said he'd have to wait because Im a single mom and have my daughter during the week and i won't introduce her until I'm in a serious relationship and he respected that. So friday came and we had a great date it felt so great and comfortable. Then he invited me to the movies the next day so we went it was fun, he had also asked if i wanted to go downtown with his friends and i wasn't sure about it and he said its okay you don't have to but it would be so nice to have you there. I had no other plans so i said I would and i know some of his friends so it was a bit more comfortable....I ended up letting loose and drinking so much that in the moment when i was so happy I leaned over and told him that I thought I was falling for him...I know crazy of me wtf was I thinking anyways we ended up crashing at the mutual friends and made out...almost had sex but I stopped myself and said I didn't want to have the first time be like this...sex is pretty special to me and he completely agreed and we cuddled and kissed. So after he dropped me off I was hungover and felt down so i stupidly texted him about it...which lead to him telling me that what I said weirded him out and that that night felt relationship and he didn't know what to think about it and said he was sorry for misleading me...I instantly went into defense mode and felt so hurt and texted him stupid shit I can't even remember, he said he needed space and needs to be single. Do you think he will come back or have I ruined things?

Sorry my stupid tablets auto correct lol i meant "relationshipy" and texted him stupidly but not butter haha

Posted by IntriguedScorp
This is reason number 3572 why texting in the beginning of a relationship sucks. Really? You had to go text crazy on him? WHY? I don't get it.

I know I was stupid, but I was upset...this guy was showing me all the signs he was just as into me as I was that's why I was so emotionally hurt...he even told me what he wanted to name his kids I didn't even ask and i thought it was a bit odd and much but I didn't let that scare me away.

Posted by DazedScorp
So now I'm curious...

Is it typical for Scorp females to express those feelings so early? I realize we can be intense with our emotions, but the men tend to bottle those up and not "say" them out loud.

I may come on strong but there's no way in hell I'd actually tell you that I'm falling for you. Hell, you're lucky if it takes me less than a year to respond to an "I love you".

I was really drunk that's why I said it but yeah I fall fast and hard for a guy I like which is probably why I'm single 😢

Posted by ellessque
let's see if we can salvage this.

can you post both of your charts?

if he has an aqua venus, you can forget it.

How do you do charts I've never done that before?

Posted by ellessque

Posted by scorpiobex111

Posted by ellessque
let's see if we can salvage this.

can you post both of your charts?

if he has an aqua venus, you can forget it.

How do you do charts I've never done that before?

cafeastrology.com

just copy and paste them.

(and i was joking about the venus, don't start drunk texting me 😛)

click to expand

Sorry I'm terrible at this what do I go to on that site? Is it free? I'm so curious to see now lol

Posted by ellessque

Posted by scorpiobex111

Posted by ellessque
let's see if we can salvage this.

can you post both of your charts?

if he has an aqua venus, you can forget it.

How do you do charts I've never done that before?

cafeastrology.com

just copy and paste them.

(and i was joking about the venus, don't start drunk texting me 😛)

click to expand

Sorry I'm terrible at this what do I go to on that site? Is it free? I'm so curious to see now lol and don't worry I won't drunk text you haha

Posted by ellessque
www.cafeastrology.com

click on - Free Astrology Reports

click on - birth chart

fill in the fields. if you don't have a birth time, just use noon...it'll be close enough.

Thanks for being so patient with me...k I figured out how to do it but the report is huge what part do you want to see?

Ill assume its these....let me know if I'm wrong

My chart

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0

Sun Scorpio 8.44 Ascendant Capricorn 11.10

Moon Pisces 17.56 II Aquarius 25.15

Mercury Libra 29.25 R III Aries 7.34

Venus Scorpio 27.12 IV Taurus 8.23

Mars Libra 15.25 V Gemini 1.16

Jupiter Aries 22.49 R VI Gemini 20.56

Saturn Sagittarius 18.38 VII Cancer 11.10

Uranus Sagittarius 24.14 VIII Leo 25.15

Neptune Capricorn 5.48 IX Libra 7.34

Pluto Scorpio 9.52 Midheaven Scorpio 8.23

Lilith Leo 8.18 XI Sagittarius 1.16

Asc node Aries 1.51 XII Sagittarius 20.56


His
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0

Sun Capricorn 18.54 Ascendant Aries 25.46

Moon Taurus 20.10 II Taurus 29.57

Mercury Capricorn 17.04 III Gemini 22.52

Venus Sagittarius 2.12 IV Cancer 13.07

Mars Aries 0.50 V Leo 5.36

Jupiter Pisces 18.58 VI Virgo 6.45

Saturn Sagittarius 16.20 VII Libra 25.46

Uranus Sagittarius 24.06 VIII Scorpio 29.57

Neptune Capricorn 6.02 IX Sagittarius 22.52

Pluto Scorpio 9.39 Midheaven Capricorn 13.07

Lilith Cancer 5.19 XI Aquarius 5.36

Asc node Aries 15.54 XII Pisces 6.45

I was holding my breath, waiting for the Aqua Venus. *exhales*

... not that Sag Venus is a TON better lol

So what does that all mean?

Haha you hit the nail on the head. That pretty much sums me up and I'm definitely going to leave it alone. Thank you so much for reading the charts, means alot to me. Have a great dinner. Ill let you know if anything happens 🙂

Sweetie erase his number please..... All he was looking for was a piece of ass. im happy you didnt have sex with him, cuz you would be feeling alot worse then you do now. Guys think because we are single we are desprete and need sex so badly, so we become there targets, these guys are good at this game. So keep going out let them wine and dine you and dont put out. if he is serious about you he will wait til your ready and that shows he is a real man and has resect for you. Keep your head up. like who you are dont settle for second best because you deserve better. and if really need to have sex, have a one night stand with a stranger. at least you will satisfy your needs and you wont have to deal with the head games afterwords. the right person will come along be patient. when you meet the right person you will know it. in the mean time just enjoy life day by day.

Posted by scorpiobex111
Hey everyone here is my situation:

I met this capricorn a few weeks ago, we went out for drinks and really hit it off. He then asked me out on a nice dinner date the following friday, we talked all week leading up to the date even talked on the phone for 3 hours one night...he even wanted to see me before the date but I said he'd have to wait because Im a single mom and have my daughter during the week and i won't introduce her until I'm in a serious relationship and he respected that. So friday came and we had a great date it felt so great and comfortable. Then he invited me to the movies the next day so we went it was fun, he had also asked if i wanted to go downtown with his friends and i wasn't sure about it and he said its okay you don't have to but it would be so nice to have you there. I had no other plans so i said I would and i know some of his friends so it was a bit more comfortable....I ended up letting loose and drinking so much that in the moment when i was so happy I leaned over and told him that I thought I was falling for him...I know crazy of me wtf was I thinking anyways we ended up crashing at the mutual friends and made out...almost had sex but I stopped myself and said I didn't want to have the first time be like this...sex is pretty special to me and he completely agreed and we cuddled and kissed. So after he dropped me off I was hungover and felt down so i stupidly texted him about it...which lead to him telling me that what I said weirded him out and that that night felt relationship and he didn't know what to think about it and said he was sorry for misleading me...I instantly went into defense mode and felt so hurt and texted him stupid shit I can't even remember, he said he needed space and needs to be single. Do you think he will come back or have I ruined things?

I think you will have to suck this one up and move on. It started off so good, but ended so bad. Anyway, who knows what the future brings. You made a few mistakes and chalk it up to a learning experience and think of how you will stay in control of both your liquor, emotions and temper. It doesn't sound like he was just out for sex, based on what you wrote he seemed to really like you. I think it was just too much too soon for both of you. Look forward to the next time with the next guy. 🙂

Hey I don't know if any of you will see this but I thought I'd let you all know how it went.....we don't talk anymore....he turned out to be a jerk! So you all were right....steering clear of cap is from now on that's for sure. I have met someone new and if anyone wants to read our charts and let me know what they think that would be awesome!