Scorpio woman driving me crazy

Ok she just messaged me back RIGHT after I posted this saying she's so sorry and she's been so busy all day (etc.....). How do I act with her? I really like her a lot. I think she's interested in me! How do I lure her in and make her mine?

Posted by ellle
if he can't handle her having a life outside of him.....she's ultimately not going to be interested.

I'm a woman. Also, I didn't message her AT ALL since she ignored my last message. I don't like to follow people around. I just want to know what I'm getting myself into before getting attached and getting hurt. If she's not interested I'm not going to try to communicate back. We've been talking for about three weeks. I haven't been pushy or aggressive at all. If anything the intensity is coming mostly from her side. Then all of a sudden NOTHING.

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Posted by ellle
if he can't handle her having a life outside of him.....she's ultimately not going to be interested.

I'm a woman. Also, I didn't message her AT ALL since she ignored my last message. I don't like to follow people around. I just want to know what I'm getting myself into before getting attached and getting hurt. If she's not interested I'm not going to try to communicate back. We've been talking for about three weeks. I haven't been pushy or aggressive at all. If anything the intensity is coming mostly from her side. Then all of a sudden NOTHING.

so this is a female-female thing?

Plato... don't question the obvious. She said she was female and the title of this thread says Scorpio woman driving me crazy

Lol you're acting as if I'm being insensitive. It was initially phrased cryptically, that's all. And it only matters because I believe astrological energies would manifest themselves very differently in a same sex relationship

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Yes. It's a same sex situation. You're not being insensitive. Does that change the response of my previous post?

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Posted by ellle
if he can't handle her having a life outside of him.....she's ultimately not going to be interested.

I'm a woman. Also, I didn't message her AT ALL since she ignored my last message. I don't like to follow people around. I just want to know what I'm getting myself into before getting attached and getting hurt. If she's not interested I'm not going to try to communicate back. We've been talking for about three weeks. I haven't been pushy or aggressive at all. If anything the intensity is coming mostly from her side. Then all of a sudden NOTHING.

this seems to be a pattern with cancers.

*slaps hands*

just go with the flow.....you may not be getting yourself into anything....you aren't even giving it an opportunity for it to progress. You want an ending now! It doesn't work that way.

one freakin conversation at a time. you've known each other three weeks. you are still getting to know each other. you are trying to jump ahead TOO fast.

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But she's been telling me weird things about her ex's and how it's interesting how we met in comparison, and telling me about how she's been wanting to find a partner who has the same interests (etc.........). Altho I'm a cancer as you can see my Moon and Venus are in Gemini, so I don't tend to blow things out of proportion unless I see some sort of reciprocation and consistency from the other side first.

it's not hard for scorpios to open up. get off that lie already. it depends on our mercury. some of us have no problem opening up to others that we get good vibes from.

anyway, you seem too anxious. understand that people dont respond when YOU want them to. people have lives and are busy. respect that before you fall apart and get overly worried for nothing. relationships dont run according to how you think they should. if you were busy during the day and couldn't get back to someone immediately, maybe you'd understand her better. she got back to you, so obviously nothing is wrong. calm your clingy nerves.

and stop worrying. it ages you faster. be your cool calm self. that's what attracted her to you in the first place. don't lose that and you should be fine, dear.

Posted by ellle
yes, sharing about herself (really not that difficult for scorpio women to do, don't read the blogs)....that *is* reciprocation, as far as she is concerned. Can you accept her? Are you going to run away screaming? That might be swirling through her head.....and she just keeps sharing anyways....waiting for that moment you drop off the face of the earth because it's 'too much'.

she needs a breather from those types of conversations and she also had a life before you that needs to be tended to.....because you are just as new to her as you are to her.

if you are waiting for your own personal perception of reciprocation and consistency to show itself, specifically *first*.....you aren't going to find it in her or anyone else unless they have the exact same placements as yourself. Which is impossible.

You are projecting on her unrealistic expectations for someone you just spoke to for the first time three weeks ago.

Yes you might be right. I've decided to just give it some space and see if she comes running after me again. I've had the exact same thoughts running through my mind in all my previous relationships (so that won't be a problem for me). ALSO, I forgot to add. Altho we talked for the first time three weeks ago, we actually met once randomly (about 2 months ago) without knowing each other (and at that time I thought I knew her before, which I didnt, but she seemed familiar to me). Anyway completely forgot about her and it, but I remembered this situation (way later after we started talking) and it was kind of trippy because we kept talking about fate and how souls are not bound by space and time (etc...).