Scorpio women ,are you friends with your ex bfs?

Are you friend with your ex bfs ?, one ex girlfriend sent me request of friendship on Facebook , so I want to know if she is sincere , maybe she wants sting me . I've seen my scorpio female friends talking sh*t about their boyfriends even when they treated them right ,it looks that the only way some scorpios get over their ex bfs is talking sh*t about them or posting phrases like *see me being happy without you* . I never been mean to her , but I'm afraid she will sting in one way or another just to show me how *happy* she is without me , so please tell me , I'd like to add her because she looks sincere but I'm not sure

sorry dxpnet has replaced bad words I wrote with other words . b*tter= shyt

Posted by Koniucha
What is your sign?

I'm virgo , WHY ?

I thought he meant that a sting could be if she is only adding him with the deliberate intent of rubbing in his face how great everything is without him, not that her simply genuinely being happy is a sting?

mrwang, I'm not a Scorpio but hopefully it's ok to share my second-hand experience as I do have some close friends who are Scorpio females. They aren't anything close to friends with any of their exes, for whatever that's worth. They do keep them on social media in order to closely observe them from a distance however. The reasons they have told me range from curiosity, to wanting to know that the ex is not doing better than they are, to wanting to see who the ex is dating & compare themselves to her, to wanting to know if they might bump into the ex at events & so on. But not all Scorpios are the same of course and it's anyone's guess what your ex's motivations are. If you do want to be friends with her or at least Facebook friends, which is not the same as real friends, & are comfortable with her seeing everything you post/do on there, then add her. In my experience, she's probably more likely to want to sting you if you offend her by not accepting her friend request.

sure, why not.
If i loved that person once it doesn't go away + they've seen my intimate side so they already know who i am and what i'm about, so friendships are easier.
As long as there's no feelings involved.




(++ they know too much about me, gotta keep it friendly 😉 lol i kid)

I'm friends with my first boyfriend but he doesn't have fb so I don't have to see his gfs 😛

We have common friends and we sometimes get together. He is a very smart funny friendly person, always makes you laugh. I can't hate him. Do I still have feelings for him ? Yes, but not much. I'm actually glad we still get together and have a laugh even if only for once a year.

Other exes- I want them all to be happy and I hope they have good feelings for me too. But it's too weird with exes. Some try to see if they can still have sex with you, others try to make you jealous etc So no contact is best really.

I actually HATE the idea of wasting my energy to try make my exes jealousy by posting stuff on social media. I would post stuff to express people who are in my life or just new people. If my exes saw me happy I would hope that they would go oooh there she goes, she looks so happy, what a nice girl, great 🙂

Adding on fb doesn't mean a lot, maybe she just wants to have more friends on fb, or a harmless flirt to boost her ego. Yours as well.

Yes I'm friends with some of them. Not for any bad reasons, it's just how it worked out. Sometimes you can value the connection and time shared and that person serves a different purpose in your life now. I think it's harder though if you have feelings for them in any way. I don't have feelings for two of them but the other one or two I still have a little soft spot for but I will always love that person now as I did at the beginning. The two I don't have feelings for were loved but a bit more platonically or just not as deeply so it was easier to make the break away.

I sometimes check up on an ex but very rarely. The distant past is the distant past and the desire to do so is not present. More recent ones may get checked out a little more but from afar and not to sting or pretend to be happy by doing a 'look at me' via social media. Most of it is fake anyway, photos with smiles doesn't always show what is going on inside

Posted by AgentP911
Yes I'm friends with some of them. Not for any bad reasons, it's just how it worked out. Sometimes you can value the connection and time shared and that person serves a different purpose in your life now. I think it's harder though if you have feelings for them in any way. I don't have feelings for two of them but the other one or two I still have a little soft spot for but I will always love that person now as I did at the beginning. The two I don't have feelings for were loved but a bit more platonically or just not as deeply so it was easier to make the break away.

I sometimes check up on an ex but very rarely. The distant past is the distant past and the desire to do so is not present. More recent ones may get checked out a little more but from afar and not to sting or pretend to be happy by doing a 'look at me' via social media. Most of it is fake anyway, photos with smiles doesn't always show what is going on inside

the exes you are friends with have a long relationship with you?? , I mean I think she knows a lot of me , but I know few things about her , I'm very open person and she was kind of secretive . She knows how I smell, how horny I get and she knows what I like in bed lol , but she was very reserved . She has many guys chasing after her and I'm afraid she talk sh*t about me behind my back to her friends, she even added some of my own friends , what if she tell the size of my penis , I'm not insecure of my size but you know men make fun of you anyway ,and you know if she told her friend that i'm her ex bf they probaly be like *that loser didnt deserve you* or stuff like that because most of her friends are like their fans and gangsta type , who always *like* her hot pictures (she posts very sexy pics doing the duck face lol)

f.uck no!! they always try to come back tho but i pay them dust

Posted by blackphase
May be different for Scorp Suns, but I have a Scorp Moon, Asc & Pluto, along with some 8th Houses and my ex is my best friend. He is actually good friends with my current boyfriend as well.

i've noticed that the geminis in my life tend to be cool with their exes

Posted by TachiMichi
no. i do not see the
point of being friends
with any exes. what is
there to do? what is
there to talk about?
it would be a total
waste of time.

right?? unless you have business or kids with them whats the point

Posted by Champagne

Posted by TachiMichi
no. i do not see the
point of being friends
with any exes. what is
there to do? what is
there to talk about?
it would be a total
waste of time.

right?? unless you have business or kids with them whats the point

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The point is that your ex is still a human being and depending on the situation and dynamic you can see them as a human being and determine if having that human being is worth having in your life or not, regardless of whether he put his dick in you or not.

It might work for some and it might not work for others but they are still people.

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Champagne

Posted by TachiMichi
no. i do not see the
point of being friends
with any exes. what is
there to do? what is
there to talk about?
it would be a total
waste of time.

right?? unless you have business or kids with them whats the point

The point is that your ex is still a human being and depending on the situation and dynamic you can see them as a human being and determine if having that human being is worth having in your life or not, regardless of whether he put his dick in you or not.

It might work for some and it might not work for others but they are still people.

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never claimed they weren't ppl or tried to dehumanize them. also relationships mean more than just dick being put in you,i don't need a relationship for that lol. they're an ex for a reason,no need to keep in touch unless we really have to see each other because of certain life situations imo.

Never claimed you were doing so either.

They're an ex for a reason. Yes, because it didn't work out. That doesn't always have to mean the worst. Again, it depends on the situation and dynamic.