Scorpio's bad news---Truly could use some insight

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Okay, so Scorp just ruined my entire day in just one text message.

He came over last night everything was cool. I massaged him until he fell asleep because he was sore from boxing training. Before the massage we were talking about pretty much everything. His feelings about me, other girls, relationships everything. I will admit I did not like his answers, he kept saying women and relationships are stressful. So when I asked whats stressful about me, he goes I didn’t mean you! And then says he wishes he wouldn’t have never said anything. He seemed bothered, but I decided not to push. Instead I just kissed his cheek and hugged him and told him I’m glad he’s honest. He hugged me back and started that staring shit. I ask “what?” he starts blushing. Typical.

Next morning (this morning) we drive to work everything is fine. Of course you all know I was flipping earlier because once again, no hug or kiss bye. Well right after I made that post he text saying I’m going to be mad at him. I said why? He said because his ex is 3 or 4 months pregnant. He said it happened when he got out of jail before we started dating, and she just told him two weeks ago. I instantly felt a rush of emotions all at once so I didn’t respond right away. I didn’t even know if I was pissed, hurt, sad, frustrated, embarrassed, disappointed, or shocked all of these things were running through me. None of them felt good thats for sure. I didn’t want him to think I didn’t appreciate him telling me so I told him thanks for telling me and I appreciate the truth but I don’t know how to process it, and I don’t even know if I’m mad yet. I’m more shocked than anything. He assured me it happened before us and said he was sorry. I truly have no words so I said nothing. It’s not like he’s saying it happened before you and I don’t want to be with her, I want you, then it’s like well shit even if he did say that do I want that? This changes a lot. This is a life. I can’t exactly describe how I feel. I’m an emotional person so I even teard up on my lunch break.
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Posted by blackphase
I pm'd you too, but yes, that's a lot to process and mad doesn't even come close to all the emotions you're likely feeling right now. Give it some time to think, but I'd close the door on him for that one probably. But you know I cling to the wrong situations too so.. take it as you will love. Always here for you

Thanks girl. **hugs** I'll be fine. I just feel like shit right now. So stupid and embarassed, especially since he went public with it on his page and i'm sure my friends saw it. I wasnt' ready to discuss it with them yet. The baby had a head and everything. smh. This is crazy.
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Posted by PiscesLilly86
That sucks...talk about dropping a bomb to blow up the fun Ughhhhhhh!!! So sorry Lyse! Hope everything works out for you.
Thank you. I appreciate it.
It does sucks, and a bomb is not hardly the word. When he texted me this morning after i had JUST seen him, that was the last thing i expected him to say.


BY THE WAY EVERYONE: I'm SUPER sorry for the duplicate threads. My computer was spinning i didn't know it would upload 3 times.