Scorpios cheat?

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gracet
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So I keep seeing this new guy around at work and I kept getting an inkling he liked me but he never went out of his way to talk to me.

and then i was speaking in another language to a co-worker which is part of my job and he comes over intrigued and when he looks at me his eyes did a flutter upon first looking directly at me so i knew he liked me.

I struck up conversation with him another day since i hadn't seen him for days after that. And a couple hours later he finds me on FB and sends me a message and asked me for my number.

From that point we message each other like crazy on what's app..crazy banter..and into the next day. i come home from work and have 3 glasses of wine...needless to say he invited me to "hang" before which he tells me he has a gf and things are on the rocks with them.

So being tipsy he picks me up and we go to a look out point, he kisses me.. crazy attraction between us. And he pulls me on his lap and we talk for 4 hours.

Next day and into the next few days we talk non stop.

I decide to end the communication because he DOES have a gf and I'm not going down that road.

He still messages me. But my responses are less now.

Until..he brings up the fact that I barely respond and I bring up politics as a subject.

He responds in monosyllables.

Then nothing from him after that.

Is it common for you scorpios to cheat?
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Rowan
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It's true that Scorpios are very loyal - once they are committed and feel you've earned their loyalty. However, I think loyalty can mean different things to different people. Scorpios who cheat aren't likely to leave their partner for the person they cheated with from what I know. He could still be very loyal to her relationship-wise even if he doesn't seem "loyal" physically.

I'm not a Scorpio but will tell you about 2 male Scorpios I know who cheat (the nature of my work is such that people open up to me about this kind of stuff).

One has zero intention of ever leaving his wife, he has affairs with people who understand this and from what I know it seems like he is just looking for something his relationship doesn't provide so that he can be happy while staying in the relationship. They've been together for a very long time. The second man claimed he would never normally cheat on his wife and began an affair totally unintentionally because he was so incredibly drawn to the other woman and just had to explore it, but decided to stay with his wife. I have no way of knowing how honest either of these men are being of course, for example, for all I know the second one could be lying and actually cheats regularly. It does seem like some Scorpios are always looking for their ultimate soulmate, so if something makes them doubt that the person they are with is in fact that, like they are having problems or they meet someone who has a magnetic pull for them, then they might want to try to find out if there is a better match out there. But it takes a LOT for them to actually leave someone they've committed to and have history with.

I'd stay away until/unless he has broken up with his girlfriend on his own. I don't think a typical Scorpio man would respect you if you have sex with him knowing he is in a relationship and he may use the fact that you knew that as a way to rationalize all sorts of poor behavior on his part. If you're interested in him, you could clearly explain that why you barely want to talk now is because he is in a relationship and to contact you only if he becomes single.
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Posted by gracet
i was tipsy when I went out with him which is why I allowed him to kiss me. It was wrong. But I put a stop to it after.

I ask because I hear scorpios are some of the most loyal people ever.



you said you were talking non stop the following days... how is that putting a stop to it? or were you drunk during those days too?

scorpio men can cheat just like any other sign, they're just better at hiding their side pieces from what i've noticed.

and sorry to say but if you know he has a girl and you're still entertaining him he will not respect you and will just use you for sex.

what's your sign op?