Scorpios HELP?

I keep thinking about my ex who is a Aries and how in the bedroom it was never a dull moment even when we were just kissing still things were hot and heavy. I notice that I tend to attract a lot of Aries but I constantly have to turn the other cheek and walk away. 1. Being that I'm a married women and 2. I instantly feel a sexual connection and I don't want to jeapordize my marriage over a night of pleasure. How do you handle this? It drives me crazy. I know that by me walking away is the right thing to do but it's getting harder and harder.

Posted by Devlynn
I keep thinking about my ex who is a Aries and how in the bedroom it was never a dull moment even when we were just kissing still things were hot and heavy. I notice that I tend to attract a lot of Aries but I constantly have to turn the other cheek and walk away. 1. Being that I'm a married women and 2. I instantly feel a sexual connection and I don't want to jeapordize my marriage over a night of pleasure. How do you handle this? It drives me crazy. I know that by me walking away is the right thing to do but it's getting harder and harder.

Being a married woman should be enough to tell you already that you shouldn't entertaining sex with
anyone other than your spouse.

Get with the program. Forget about your x and anyone else and whatever their signs ar and focus on who you are with now and keep your fantasies between you and your present spouse.

Posted by Impulsv
Get a divorce, he deserve a woman the is present in the relationship not still pining over ex aries n now every aries wants to sexem

+1

PS, if you have kids, get rid of the weaves and perms. Or I'll sic Tommy Sotomayor on ya.
(Wonders if Wynter is watching)

I pin over my ex only when it comes to the bedroom nothing else. I want that same passion with my husband everything else is good in the relationship except for that one area. My husband is not very passionate in that area. It's the same thing no matter how hard i try to spice it up he just wants to do the same thing over and over again. And don't tell me what to do when it comes to my hair fucktard. I already said that I won't mess up my marriage over a single night of pleasure. I try to talk to him about it but it's no use it just turns into a argument and he blames me for not trying to make things exciting in the bedroom.

Posted by Devlynn
no matter how hard i try to spice it up

Posted by Devlynn
and he blames me for not trying to make things exciting in the bedroom.

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Am I reading this right? You say you try to spice it up..but he doesn't want to.

Then you address it and he says you don't make things exciting in the bedroom?

It sounds contradictory.

Actually it sounds like you only bring the idea of spicing it up but don't actively do it. Did you take control with that like doing everything you crave to him..and did he complain afterwards? Or did you just talk about it, trying to gauge what he thinks about it?

then worry about fixing your sex life with your husband, not your ex.

I do try and fix my sex life with my husband not my ex. So what are you talking about. I said I want to have the same passion with my husband. I don't talk to my ex.



Then you address it and he says you don't make things exciting in the bedroom?

It sounds contradictory.

Actually it sounds like you only bring the idea of spicing it up but don't actively do it. Did you take control with that like doing everything you crave to him..and did he complain afterwards? Or did you just talk about it, trying to gauge what he thinks about it?


I know. I'm always lost on what he wants. I initiate it by dressing up, being aggressive anything that will pop up into my head. I ask him what he wants he tells me and I attempt to do it just to be stopped by him. I get really frustrated with him in this area. Like you said it's contradictory and I tell him that. I don't understand what I am doing wrong. I'm trying to spice things up but it's just like a lose lose situation for me. He's always complaining about it Saying "babe how come you don't do this in the bedroom". I just look at him like he's lost his mind like I did I not just try and do that the other night and you complained about it. I love my husband very much but I just want that fire in the bedroom. That's the only thing that is missing right now.

Ok so he mentions he'd like the exact same things you are trying of doing?

Maybe he thinks you just mention them but you have no follow through? Did you go all the way with him and afterwards he said he didn't enjoy the sexual act?

Therapy sounds good.

I follow through with them but he doesn't say anything afterwards. I told him about therapy but he won't do it. I'll figure something out

I think he has a problem of not being able to let himself go and lose control during sex.

Try relaxing him before sex, give him a massage, maybe a bottle of wine, a hot bath and just focus on him.