Dumped by a Scorpio

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by pinksparkly on Thursday, January 22, 2015 and has 10 replies.

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@pinksparkly
11 Years
I was dumped last week by a Scorpio. He said it wasn't going to work and when I asked why, he said he didn't feel that —spark?? for me anymore. We were on vacation when it happened and had to spend the week together anyway. There was no physical intimacy??_ he said it would be too difficult for both of us. The day before we parted, he was a mess. Tears in his eyes all day, wouldn't let me even touch him because he said it was too hard. He kept saying he loves me, wants to be friends because I'm his best friend, and that he isn't closed off to something happening with us in the future but that —right now?? it's not going to work. I could see it in his eyes that he was struggling and I don't believe for a minute that he doesn't love me. He has a LOT going on in other areas of his life, so is it possible that he just needs some time to work through his shit? I mean, what are Scorpios typically like when they break up?
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@Montgomery
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Posted by pinksparkly
I was dumped last week by a Scorpio. He said it wasn't going to work and when I asked why, he said he didn't feel that —spark?? for me anymore. We were on vacation when it happened and had to spend the week together anyway. There was no physical intimacy??_ he said it would be too difficult for both of us. The day before we parted, he was a mess. Tears in his eyes all day, wouldn't let me even touch him because he said it was too hard. He kept saying he loves me, wants to be friends because I'm his best friend, and that he isn't closed off to something happening with us in the future but that —right now?? it's not going to work. I could see it in his eyes that he was struggling and I don't believe for a minute that he doesn't love me. He has a LOT going on in other areas of his life, so is it possible that he just needs some time to work through his shit? I mean, what are Scorpios typically like when they break up?



You two left for a vacation together, and he broke

up with you after you arrived at your destination?


😕

How long were you dating?




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@happykitsune
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If that spark isn't there won't he just lose it again if you guys ever do get back together?

I had a scorpio dump me in a similar fashion, saying that things might happen in the future. It was about a year or two later that they did and he wanted to get married. We dated for a couple of months then we parted ways and have never talked since.

I am curious as well how long you two dated prior.