Scorpios - How do you respond to a cool shoulder?

No, I didn't say a cold b!tchy shoulder..... just a cool, polite, aloof shoulder? Does it make you question, obsess?

For instance - Subject A is sweet and kind, Scorpio is nice. Subject A gives Scorpio the impression they are won over, Scorpio does their thing, maybe takes a step back because the subject has been won over..... Subject A waits, and when Scorpio comes back Subject A is cool, not icy, not warm.... cool.

Are these the kinds of situations that drive you nuts? Thinking you had won their affections and then..... WHAM! What happened?

As a Gem, I eat that butter up. If this isn't the one that drives you nuts, what does?

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Attempt 2 - 🙂 (yes, I know we Gems can have our own language at times)

My Scorpio neighbor and I were talking about this the other night and so I thought I'd ask for your experiences.

Scorpios, how do you respond in situations where someone who you've started dating that seems totally into you one minute appears slightly distant.... Not cold, just a little less wordy in their responses (in texts, emails or phone calls, takes a little longer than usual to respond (in texts, emails or phone calls), or maybe a little less available to see you.

We've all been there. You start seeing someone and know for sure they are into you, and just when you think you've got them hook, line and sinker they throw you a curve ball. The person you always counted on to be available, say something sweet, and respond immediately starts to seems just a little distant.

As a Gemini, it just turns me on more. I find myself thinking about them ALL day. I'm left wondering about the change in behaviour. I see it as a challenge and my interests are peaked. I feel I must won them back over.

What about the Scorpions?

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Attempt 2 - (yes, I know we Gems can have our own language at times)

My Scorpio neighbor and I were talking about this the other night and so I thought I'd ask for your experiences.

Scorpios, how do you respond in situations where someone you've started dating seems totally into you one minute and then slightly distant.... Not cold, just a little less wordy in their responses (in texts, emails or phone calls), takes a little longer than usual to respond (in texts, emails or phone calls), or maybe a little less available to see you.

We've all been there. You start seeing someone and know for sure they are into you, and just when you think you've got them hook, line and sinker they throw you a curve ball. The person you always counted on to be available, say something sweet, and respond immediately starts to seems just a little distant. They always respond and you know they are still interested, it just isn't with the same ferociousness as before

As a Gemini, it just turns me on more. I find myself thinking about them ALL day. I'm left wondering about the change in behaviour. I see it as a challenge and my interests are peaked. I feel I must win them back over.

What about the Scorpions?

When I am with someone and think I have won them over, I am a Scorpio, my interest level is usually high, if I am into them. If they begin to pull back, i get very distant. I do obsess over it, but my guard goes up immediately. Once my guard goes up, its hard for me to trust them. If they get really distant, I get more distant, but do tend to obsess. At that point, I will put myself back out there and try to keep my options open for someone new.