Have posted on here before but am really on the verge of breaking off a relationship w Scorpio. I am Pisces female...he and I reconnected online and tried to remain just friends, as we were both married. After 6 mos, I fell in love...tried to cut ties and he got very upset w me. Six mos later I had to tell hom how I felt. At first he told me to try and back out of being in love w him (ha! Too late) and HE then became more talkative, flirtatious, etc. After 1.5 yrs of almost daily contact and a few makeouts (no sex), I could no longer pretend and left my marriage. He has not been happy in his marriage for several yrs and there is just now talk of separation. During the past 3 mos while his life is hell at home, we have barely spoken so at one pt I tried to cut ties and he became VERY upset w me, axcusing me of "trying to slam the f'in door before I have a chance to say what I need to"... So, have hung in there in misery, as I have poured out my heart and soul, told him I would marry him in a heartbeat if I coud, etc. He has never said he loves me, but said he has "felt some of the same things you have". Recently I told him if I am making matters at home worse for him that I will remove myself...which he didn't think necessary, yet he won't talk or confide in me anymore! To further complicate things, another guy has asked me out and is texting me a lot. I told my Scorpio I was feeling guilty about this and he just said "you can't wait forever for someone...go out and have fun". I said "you wouldn't be hurt if I dated someone else when I am in love with you?" He said "No.I told you that you need to do what you need to do". Can he be so stressed at home that a month ago he was accusing me of slamming the door and now acts like I don't exist and like he is pushing me to date other people?? Wouldn't he have said at some point "look, sorry you are so in love with me, but I don't feel the same" instead of talking to me every day for that long and no sex involved?? It felt like we were married, minus sex, and then BOOM, nothing... I told I would rather have him tell me to F off that not give me any clue how he feels. Help...he knows I would wait for him but he has never come out and told me what he wants from me. Could he have invested that much time in me, knowing I am head over heels, and then shut off feelng and really not care if I date like he says? 😢
