Scorps and Friends

So I was dating this Scorp guy and he's very strange and jealous. He's jaded actually. He's not ready for a relationship and it got to heated for me without a commitment and so he suggested being friends which I couldn't do. Then I ate my weirds because I missed talking to him and weighted the pros and cons of having him in my life as a friend. We were OK until we hung out. Everything is great and normal and the next thing I know he said he couldn't be friends with me. I don't understand— Please help. What should I do?

He varies.

Hypno do you mean he varies or hey varies. 🙂

i meant he varies.
But hey Varies, welcome to the board, you will notice that the nicest people ever are gathered here.
But just in case, take a knife with you.

hypno, what does he varies means?

actually, tell him you couldn't give a flying fuck what he wants and ignore him. then he will make his mind up very quickly 🙂

I hate games.

i sent a nice letter out saying i think we can be friends, but i'm not going to urge it if it causes you pain. No response. 😢 is this a game to him because it's not funny to me?

he could be testing to see how bad u want him. He still has feelings 4 u though.

yeah, i agree. he is scared of his feelings and so he says and does nothing because of that fear. for your own sanity's sake, you need to leave him alone otherwise he will hurt you without really meaning to.

if he wants you, he has to be the one to come and get you.

::hugs::

Thanks everyone for the comments. He drives me nuts and I hear you Roxanne, but it is hard, but I will stay away. I miss the Scorp.

😢

NO man really means it when he says he just wants to be friends once you have had sex in my opinion. When they say that they mean friends with benefits.

yeah, unfortunately i would agree with that. in fact, i would take offence personally cos it's like saying you fell short of expectations somehow and shows a lack of respect. but then, i would really have to know someone inside and out before they even got close enough to have sex with.

alot of women give it up way too easily imo.