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scorps & trust
like, i've got an example. it's like there's this shadow sitting by shoulder, telling me to go through my boyf's phone. i know i don't need to. i trust him as much as i can trust someone, and he's never given me reason not to trust him anyway.
do i care? no. no, i want to snoop. maybe i'll find some dirt. it's nothing like being curious, it's just...my moon wants to snoop. my moon, which is causing this nonsense, wants to delve into an inbox and have a good old time. so, you know, when it turns out he has nothing to hide, i can slink off and mutter, 'well it's better to know where you are.'
or when it turns out he has an army of bitches vying for his dick, i can shrug and say, 'knew something was up. see, i told you.' and then kill him in his sleep 😄
do i care? no. no, i want to snoop. maybe i'll find some dirt. it's nothing like being curious, it's just...my moon wants to snoop. my moon, which is causing this nonsense, wants to delve into an inbox and have a good old time. so, you know, when it turns out he has nothing to hide, i can slink off and mutter, 'well it's better to know where you are.'
or when it turns out he has an army of bitches vying for his dick, i can shrug and say, 'knew something was up. see, i told you.' and then kill him in his sleep 😄
Lmao@2nd post and I think A,B seems on point C sounds like shit.
Posted by exoskeleton
eeeeeeeeeeehhhhhhhhhh.
when i get involved with someone i put my trust issues/insecurities aside, because i know otherwise the relationship is ruined before it even begins.
only when i actually become unsure about something i confront them. direct, no bullshit, i ask for the truth. and if i think they're lying after their explanation i'll still give them the benefit of the doubt, but i'll be on guard. i won't snoop no matter what. i've come so close, holding his phone in my hand, but thought better of it. if something is going on it will unravel on its own. it always does.
a pisces friend told me that a relationship that starts on lies will end on lies. i'll never forget that.
I am totally with you on this one
Posted by ArticleL
Lmao@2nd post and I think A,B seems on point C sounds like shit.
c) must be exclusive to the mooners, then
Posted by nimbuePosted by ArticleL
Lmao@2nd post and I think A,B seems on point C sounds like shit.
c) must be exclusive to the mooners, thenclick to expand
Who knows 😛
Posted by exoskeleton
eeeeeeeeeeehhhhhhhhhh.
when i get involved with someone i put my trust issues/insecurities aside, because i know otherwise the relationship is ruined before it even begins.
only when i actually become unsure about something i confront them. direct, no bullshit, i ask for the truth. and if i think they're lying after their explanation i'll still give them the benefit of the doubt, but i'll be on guard. i won't snoop no matter what. i've come so close, holding his phone in my hand, but thought better of it. if something is going on it will unravel on its own. it always does.
a pisces friend told me that a relationship that starts on lies will end on lies. i'll never forget that.
it really is ruined before it begins. and its so easy to do all that behind-the-back bullshit...but you end up with a sham of a reationship, when you can't let yourself trust someone. it's the easiest, quickest way to fuck things up. do you have much scorp in your chart?
i've only got a moon and pluto, maybe that's why i can go for c) more easily
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